I am
dealing with an incredibly attractive, but very negative and shy girl.
I am able to get her out of her shell once
in a while, but she goes right back in.
I don't know how to explain her shyness. She isn't exactly shy with me
when it comes to words, but with actions, you could see she becomes shy and nervous. She does flirt with me here and
there, but sometimes she finds my jokes/teases a little offensive (no other girl does, I think she just has been
hurt a lot and stuff).
She actually told me on many occasions that she is very shy and has to warm up to people.
She said "im a very very fun person, it just takes me a while to warm up to people"
When Im around her I use
about a drop of NPA by my ears OR sometimes a packet of TE. After that I spray some curve or burberry and then spray
2 sprays of chikara, one on the wrists and one on my neck. Then I put a packet of SOE sometimes all over my neck,
ears and wrists. I try not to put too much SOE because I AM NOT trying to fall in the friends zone. Then I finish
off with the same cologne again. This is what has worked with me with many other girls, but I don't know about her,
it leaves me with mixed signals.
I think she is too shy to initiate anything, and im a little too unsure to
initiate anything with her. Its like a vicious cycle. I did ask her once "hey how come me and you don't go out" and
she said "because you never ask".
So I went ahead and did 2 weeks later and she was busy, so that threw me
off.
I like her a lot, if she is a lost cause, ill move on, but id like to put my best efforts into it. I have
heard from people that she plays very hard to get because some dudes have hurt her in the past.
BTW as usual, she
is a latina girl, fairly tan skin, short(5'0) and cute, 23 and im also 23. My skin is tan, im tall(6'4) and a
little chubby (she said im her type, and judging by pictures of her exBFs, she is not lying)
Oh yeah, another
thing is that she keeps making up little excuses (help with homework, borrow/return something, etc) to meet me, even
if its for 5 minutes. Thats one reason I think she is really shy and the other is that she always has to find an
excuse to text/call me, never a straight up "whats up", like "did you hear that new song?" "oh thats an awesome cd
you gave me" "somebody just cut me off in traffic"
That is how she intiates and then she starts flirting and
stuff. Also she starts acting MAD weird whenever other girls post on my facebook wall.
So first off, this is
because she is shy i am supposing, so how do I... "get with her"? What mones combo works best with shy women?
I
know with past experiences ignoring girls a little helps a lot, but ignoring her makes her very angry, she gets
right back at me by ignoring me.
Also she was the one that started kissing my cheek after we met. I know its
usual, but usually the guy does it, I found it weird she leaned all the way in and gave me a kiss on the cheek, then
kinda tried to sniff me and then moved back with her eyes sparkling. Now everytime I see her, she has to kiss me
atleast once. Like the other day I walked away and then she called me back and told me some little story then made
the "cheek kiss" motion and gave me a kiss.
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