well, I'm not really

single, no. Sue and I have been together for 9 years now. This might shock you but the long time posters here know

that Sue and I are swingers so I have zero reason to cheat on her. I just think it's interesting to understand

where trends are going though.

Now, people do cheat, men more often than women but women do it too. GMoney,

you probably have a vision of what an ideal life is and I'll bet you are under 30. There's nothing wrong with

that at all. But, when the institution of marriage came into being people were lucky if they lived till 30. Now we

live till 80 or thereabouts and people do get tired of the "same ole thing" after a while. Some are strong in their

convictions, most are weak though, including myself.