Very good question Gmoney, and
I'm sure there are different opinions here. It all depends on your goals: to get laid immediately, or to develop
some kind of meaningful relationship beyond one night.
I just posted something relating to this in another
thread. You're wise to want to remain true to yourself.
You might take the time to read through the current
"Alpha Male" thread in the Open Discussion section. A lot of it is off-topic to your specific question, but it will
give you some insight relating to various qualities a man can develop if he wants to be attractive not only women,
but people in general.
Self improvement is a much longer and more difficult path than developing "game". Of
course the results are richer and much more comprehensive in terms of who you become.
IMHO, it's better to
widen your interests and knowledge. Read a lot and do a lot. And, an inquisitive nature is very attractive.
People like people who are interested in what they're interested in. And the more interesting you are, the more
interest you'll attract.
I don't want to diss anyone's ideas or goals. Its just my view and experience.
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