So you're a guy and tonight looks like the big night - you're going to lose your virginity.
Typically,
this is a high anxiety event.
If I had it to do over again, I'd take a little kava-kava to cut the tension.
Not too much since the excitement is part of the experience.
I'd also take a Sudafed or similar. Why? It
slows the tendency to premature ejaculation. You'd want to last, right?
Lastly, you might consider Viagra
or the like as insurance.
DON'T get drunk - she can, but you need to stay in control.
Just a bit of
advice from an older guy.
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
Try ejaculating a few hours
before you get together - think hair gel from the movie "there's something about Mary"
It will take the edge
off and make you last longer.
Also, change up positions and tempo several times especially when you are close and
that will help you last and she will think you are a real dynamo instead of a jackhammer.
And don't forget to
work on the foreplay and get her ready, tease her etc etc. Make it fun for you both.
Good luck and have fun.
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
Well, think about it.
First time has got to have performance anxiety. The kava will take that edge off.
You'll also
probably come quickly. A young guy will recover quickly, but its better to make it last until you get a grove. The
Sudafed or similar antihistamine will slow your orgasm. Too much and you can't come at all.
The Viagra is
just insurance. Most young guys won't need it but the insurance part helps reduce the anxiety.
Just seems
like the best advice.
The reason I wrote this down is that I have a friend with a 27 year old son who is a
bit of a Forrest Gump. As a reward for completing a job training class so he can get a job, we've told him I'll
"make some arrangements" uhmmmm. I'll see if I can find a social worker type looking for some extra cash.
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