So you're a guy and tonight looks like the big night - you're going to lose your virginity.

Typically,

this is a high anxiety event.

If I had it to do over again, I'd take a little kava-kava to cut the tension.

Not too much since the excitement is part of the experience.

I'd also take a Sudafed or similar. Why? It

slows the tendency to premature ejaculation. You'd want to last, right?

Lastly, you might consider Viagra

or the like as insurance.

DON'T get drunk - she can, but you need to stay in control.

Just a bit of

advice from an older guy.