maintaining same attraction on subsequent dates without the mones???

[jeremiahjames]

the thing i find kinda disturbing is this:

"hey u loved me the 1st 3 times we

met, but i was moned up....how will u respond to me if the attraction was only because of the mones.....?"....this

is particularly evident if u had a great reaction on the 1st meet and your sub-conscious programs this reaction as

being because of the mones.

ie. the addictive psychology behind mones is the inherent insecurity that she'll

lose the attraction if i don't wear the mones arround her. with this comes a certain cynicism that "oohh i get it,

u only like me because of the way i smell, or what these scents do 2 your primal mindset, oohh so im gonna have 2

wear this stuff every time i meet u 4 u 2 like me???", kinda the same Cynicism that a millionaire has for gold

diggers,...ie., u dont like me for who i am...just 4 za mulah...

so the user becomes reliant on this reaction,

re-inforced positively through the great response while wearing the mones, and self-doubt comes into play that u r

risking rejection with the girl u r seeing if u dont wear the mones: "hey, but what if the attraction aint there if

i dont put on my NPA tonight? b4 i leave the front door, better do a quick application...ya know, just in

case..."

in other peoples experiences, can u apply mones 1st few times u meet her, and maintain that level of

attraction on subsequent dates without having to rely on the mones?

[Groovyg]

maybe just wear smaller amounts

to see what happens.. drop off the NPA and just do SoE or something..

reduce the dosage by a bit, not by so much

you feel 'moneless and vulnerable, but just so you can gauge the changes.

just my 0.02

p.s. I dont normally

wear anything outside of clubs and only notice a slight difference at most if I leave a great first impression..