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    I don't suppose that was

    very clear, allow me to explain...

    Quote Originally Posted by FutureKill
    She also kept on wanting to show me what she was doing on

    her computer (despite being pretty inane and meaningless), it really felt like a presentation of sorts.

    Also, I got the sense (though, I may be reading too much into this) that she didn't want this other guy around who

    tried to hit on her a couple of times.
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    After all but telling him to

    leave her alone, she ran (literally ran, no joke) down the stairs to catch up with

    me.


    Again, I may be misinterpreting this, or simply missing the obvious. It is just

    that the above examples (and a few others I did not mention in previous posts) seem consistent with romantic/sexual

    pursuit as opposed to platonic camaraderie.

    Like I said, I am not outright disagreeing with you, in fact,

    I fear you may be correct. Though I must ask, what is it that gives you this impression?

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    Only that you seem to be taking

    it extremely cautiously, never a good thing in trying to get a girl to go out with you. You don't want her getting

    too comfortable, at least not till you've got the deal sealed, if you know what i mean.

    Edit: is she still

    giving sexual signs? touching you often, et all? Maybe I'm rushing you for no good reason...

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    Hmmmm

    I had not

    looked at it that way. I suppose I have been so focused on her behavior that I failed to consider what she

    thinks of my behavior.

    Correct me if I am wrong, but I am getting the impression that you believe I

    ought to appear more sexual or "dangerous" and downplay the "chivalrous gentleman" image I have been

    projecting thus far. No?

    Interesting.

    EDIT: She hasn't given any overt sexual signs (like touching), just

    standing very close to me and complementing my wardrobe (once). That is something I am a little reluctant to do, as

    I worry about tipping my hand, if you know what I mean.

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    Hey man, I'm not gonna pretend

    to be a dating coach, I'm single more often than not, but don't be timid, have fun, and things will probably go

    well. No bigger turn off than a scared date, enjoy yourself

    And don't be too attached, if it

    doens't go well, move on to the next girl, no regrets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gmoney View Post
    Hey man, I'm

    not gonna pretend to be a dating coach, I'm single more often than not, but don't be timid, have fun, and things

    will probably go well. No bigger turn off than a scared date, enjoy yourself

    And don't be too

    attached, if it doens't go well, move on to the next girl, no regrets.



    Very sound advice.

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