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    Default What to do/say when you get alot of eye contact?

    I have been using mones for years and what i noticed is have received ALOT more eye contact

    with them sometimes too much , even to the point where i have to look away or it seems like we are staring at each

    other. And I don't want to seem like a weirdo.
    Does anyone have any comebacks/jokes or anything they say when a

    girl keeps staring into your eyes for a while?

    Thanks,
    Angel

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    Uhmmm! Have you tried

    "Hi!"??
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    I used to have the same problem, big

    time. Terminal shyness. Now I'm married with 3 kids and don't worry about it. I just smile, sometimes say "hi"

    and keep moving, but probably if I were single and on the prowl again, I would freeze up again. I have some

    incredible stories about the 'fish who tried to jump in the bucket, but I couldn't hold it still enough'

    OK,

    the advice.... Yeah, just bite the bullet, smile and say "hi". Maybe it will develop, maybe it won't, but there is

    only one way to find out.
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    Sorry I guess I should

    have emphasized a little bit more. I was talking more about when i'm already in a conversation talking

    with a girl, for example this girl I know always seems to look straight into my eyes when im talking and when I stop

    talking. I dont want to make her uncomfortable by staring at her when im talking with her, so I usually look into

    her eyes when talking then look down or to the side.

    But when i look back at her she is there still staring

    straight into my eyes and is still doing it even after I finish what I was saying which sometimes is very awkward

    and we end up in uncomfortable silences.

    Is this normal maybe she likes me, but yet she already has a boyfriend

    sooo.....

    I just wanted something funny/witty to say so we wont have those awkward moments.


    Thanks,
    Angel

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    So this is one particular person

    you already know, not a bunch of random people??
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mtnjim View Post
    So

    this is one particular person you already know, not a bunch of random people??
    yes, I have known her for

    about a full school semester now. i noticed most people do the same thing I do (look to the side/down) when in

    conversations to not make me or other people uncomfortable, but she doesn't do that much. I guess maybe thats how

    she is?

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelgarcia1989 View Post
    Sorry I guess I should have emphasized a little bit more. I was talking

    more about when i'm already in a conversation talking with a girl, for example this girl I know always seems to

    look straight into my eyes when im talking and when I stop talking.
    I dont want to make her uncomfortable by

    staring at her when im talking with her, so I usually look into her eyes when talking then look down or to the

    side
    .

    But when i look back at her she is there still staring straight into my eyes and is still doing it

    even after I finish what I was saying which sometimes is very awkward and we end up in uncomfortable silences.



    Is this normal maybe she likes me, but yet she already has a boyfriend sooo.....

    I just wanted something

    funny/witty to say so we wont have those awkward moments.


    Thanks,
    Angel
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    Quote Originally Posted by MOBLEYC57 View Post
    First bold section: Characteristics of a DOMINANT woman.

    Second bold section:

    Characteristics of a SUBMISSIVE man.

    I reserve all rights to be wrong!

    I guess

    she might be, how do dominant types act?

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    She's hoping you'll kiss her.



    It's as simple as that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelgarcia1989 View Post
    Sorry I guess I should have

    emphasized a little bit more. I was talking more about when i'm already in a conversation talking with a

    girl, for example this girl I know always seems to look straight into my eyes when im talking and when I stop

    talking. I dont want to make her uncomfortable by staring at her when im talking with her, so I usually look into

    her eyes when talking then look down or to the side.

    But when i look back at her she is there still staring

    straight into my eyes and is still doing it even after I finish what I was saying which sometimes is very awkward

    and we end up in uncomfortable silences.

    Is this normal maybe she likes me, but yet she already has a

    boyfriend sooo.....

    I just wanted something funny/witty to say so we wont have those awkward

    moments.


    Thanks,
    Angel

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