As big as you are you probably
want to stay away from high -none products like PI, TE/NPA and such. You are probably able to intimidate already.
SoE and Chikara both come in gel packs, which are cheap and easy to use for testing purposes. Try those first.
Are you in decent shape? How do you dress? Grooming? Can you hold a conversation and make a girl laugh? Are you
overly shy? Those are all things that add into your success or failure with mones.
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