NonPlayer seeks advice from Player

[bolounit]

a

friend of mine is being flirtted with by a married woman adviceA friend of mine at work has a married woman flirting

with him at work .

He is not the player type and he doesnt want to bust up a marriage or anything like that . He

enjoys her footsie type game for its own sake , however we both agree she is very good looking .She is a married

Christian type woman with kids off to college .

He suspects she is aware of his foot fetish as she is constantly

tapping him with her feet to make a point or get his attention . He can live with this as it makes him feel good

.

First off is she hitting on him ? What level of hitting on him is she doing just being friendly and flirtatious

or is there something more to it ?

My friend told me she complimented him on his shoes and of all things his

"shapely legs "

Ethicaly if she is going to have a "romance " with someone he feels it might as well be him .He

doesnt want to activley be a player but rather if she is possibly activley pursuing him he doesnt want to pass this

up

[marina1]

Hi.
First let me say that I

don't consider myself to be a player, yet I'd like to add my 2 cents.

No amount of "sinful" sex is worth of

busting a home and/or getting in trouble with an angry husband.

Yet, if your friend still wants to go for it,

from what I can gather, he only has to reach out...

[zatoichi]

women love to flirt. especially

if she has time looking on her. She probably wants to know if she still got it to attract a man. The only way of

knowing is for your friend to follow through then the real deal will show up. Obviously if she wants it, and he does

the right moves it will happen, but if she is only flirting then she will make it known that it's only flirting.

Then your friend can just say forgive me but I can't help it with your flirting. it will make her feel good either

way. so my advise... have him play through and call her bluff.

as far as busting a home or getting in trouble, I

wouldn' t sweat it. I know she doesn't want hubby knowing or getting a divorce. It's not love it's release of

tension.

Z

[marina1]

regardless of what it is,

release of tension or not, no one likes it when done to oneself, that is what one has to keep in mind in these

cases.