Need some girl advice

[Lycan]

Hi,
So

there's this girl(shes half Caucasian/half Singaporean...very cute!) in my summer class at school. She's from

jersey originally, but she goes to school in Arizona and is here only for the summer(well 18 more days) :/


This is week four of our summer class, and we've been talking all the time for the last 2 weeks. I'm not too sure

if she thinks of me as just a friend ...but we sit next to each other in class, usually partnering up for

exercises(french class) and stand outside the class talking during the break. Even when we're done with class

we're walking together to our cars. one day when class left early, she asked me to join her for a drink(which i

did) at a bar. Yesterday when i had to goto the bathroom after class, i said that I'll see her tomorrow but she

waited for me so we could walk together.
I know that she has to leave soon so there's no chance of having

a steady relationship, maybe just a summer fling. So my question is, should i ask her out on a date or just ask her

to hang out at a bar or something. I like this girl, she is nice to talk to. But i'm not very good at building

chemistry . I want us to be really comfortable around each other. Any suggestions would be helpful.

Thanks.

[Mtnjim]

Well, you could ask her out

on a date and she might turn you down, or you could not ask her out on a date and she definitely

won't be going out with you.

[koolking1]

constraints, I

would just go for her. When walking with her, just hold her hand and see how she reacts, if favorably, the skies

the limit. If not, 18 days will go by quick any way.

[idesign]

She's given you all the cues

you need, go for it. KK has good advice, just move in gently and be yourself. She obviously likes you, and is

probably wondering why you're taking so long to make a move!

And as Jim said, you only have two

options.

Chemistry can't be built, its just there. Fortunately for you its already there with this girl, don't

wait!

[Lycan]

thanks for the replies, you're

all correct.
I like the idea of holding her hand while walking, but that depends on the conversation we're having

right? i mean if she's telling me something funny about her family or friends, wouldn't it be awkward to hold her

hand.

[koolking1]

go for it, be

spontaneous and just see what happens. Time is of the essence!!!

[College_Man]

okay, ive been reading some

pua stuff recently, and this may work if you need a definite clue.
figure out some way to move locations and take

her hand while moving locations. squeeze her hand a bit and if she squeezes back you probably can go further.
This

may be awkward, so you can do the david deangelo kiss test. feel her hair (above her ear im thinking) and say

something like it looks so soft. if she doesn't tense up (read her body language), go ahead.
Or you can just do

Mystery's "would you like to kiss me?" test. ask that if she says anything except for No, kiss her. If she says no,

say "i wasn't saying you could".
if you do 2 out of the 3 that should give you a definate answer. Id recommend

doing the DeAngelo one. Its probably the easiest to play off as something not sexual if she rejects you and tenses

up.