Extra Fat Gals

[eldoradoYU]

What is beauty?

Can anybody tell the definition? I don’t think so. Maybe you can say what is esthetic, but

those are two different things. As for some, beauty is one thing and for others different. I know some of my friends

really like fat girls, extra fat, but then I say it’s disgusting. There are no chances they could

be attractive to me no matter of the amount of copulins they are swimming nor how intelligent they are.
Do you

think same things are possible with unattractive, fat male too? Do you have similar experience for yours friends and

large girls?

[Iaskalotof?'s]

I think its different

from guys and girls.Guys go mainly on looks,girls go on looks too,but a lot of other things
I guess.

[eldoradoYU]

I think its different from guys and girls.Guys go mainly on looks,girls go on looks

too,but a lot of other things
I guess.

You mean $$$? That is something that cover all our

disadvatages for some girls, not all

[Surreal]

Here is something...

My

girlfriend's ex-boyfriend would rag her how she has stretch marks and imperfections on her body. He even DEMANDED

that she get up an half hour early to do make-up and all that crap... !@#$ HIM!

Him and I are extremely alike in

the respect that we are highly observant and demand perfection. But, alas, there is a extreme difference on the

philosophy of beauty... his is obvious, mine, to me, is imperfection is the essence of beauty.

Without

imperfection what is perfection... without perfection what is imperfection.

Perfection is abnormal.


Imperfection is abnormal.

There is only a fine line to walk... you choose the direction.

-S

[Surreal]

Wow, I just read my post... it

does not answer any of your questions...

let's see..

if there is not an attraction then plainly there is not

an attraction...

Everyone wants something different. Looks, brains, karma, money, happyness, security, ect. For

me, personally, what I want is far and few between... it's rare. For most people it is not 'rare'. For the rest

of us .... well... IDK what to type from here... .........

[eldoradoYU]

Wow, I

just read my post... it does not answer any of your questions...

let's see..

if there is not an

attraction then plainly there is not an attraction...

Everyone wants something different. Looks, brains,

karma, money, happyness, security, ect. For me, personally, what I want is far and few between... it's rare. For

most people it is not 'rare'. For the rest of us .... well... IDK what to type from here...

.........

Yeah, but guys are no doubt more in looks and still you see some people nice looking male

with not exactly nice girl. So somethings really gives me aa idea that maybe just maybe our scent system

could be really above visual, like some people here seriously say!

[Surreal]

wow man..

So somethings

really gives me aa idea that maybe just maybe our scent system could be really above visual

yes, yes it is...

(depending)

I've known this young woman for about two years... we are the same age... we worked together and we

had a few no cloths encounters... getting to the point... she, I find is not attractive in the face.. (shallow,

yes)... she is not attractive in IQ... she is not 'dumb' but, we have different worldly perspectives and

observations.... she is a simple women while I am an overly complicated man... I have not talked to her in a

year... but every once and a great while she comes to the place I work.. to work.. and when I stand next to her I

get a half chub and want to jump her bones... I AVOID her... I don't want anything to do with her.. in fact I want

her sister.. (gross!) but... when I am near her the attraction is so incredible I come near to loosing my

cool...

My point is... attraction comes on a plethora of different levels and planes.... some are easy to

identify and some are not...

everyone has qualities and attribute that a potential mate will fall head over heels

for... the only thing, and which I find the most difficult... is finding it. do what you do... be who you are... and

never blow off and opportunity.



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I like to call it a 'chemical attraction'...



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much beer for the night.,..

[WorkingMann]

There's a big difference

between attraction and beauty...
I've meet girls I would say she's perfect and fun, sweet, jokes how I like it, a

little shy and a little game/flirty also..
BUT.. I couldn't get the physical attraction I NEED... Some of these

were big girls and it was too bad because I just CAN'T be with a big girl..

But I think women doesn't mainly go

for looks as I see many really hot girls with dorks and fat guys.. To women it's more the way you are and make them

feel..
If you aren't that big jerk like all the rest of us then she (most of them after all) doesn't care how you

look..
But there's also those girls that will walk away when she doesn't see the look she wants..
But in

general I think women go more for the feelings than looks.. If you doesn't give her that feeling of being safe,

having fun, feeling loved etc. than she will not care how hot you are..

Fx. I have a friend thats a model-like

hot and he can get girls for 1 week but a longer relationship he can't and it's because he get's them hot at

first when they see him, but after a week they realize he's not a charmboy and doesn't makle them feel that

way..