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    Default Changing behaviour since using -none

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    Hey guys!

    I have this very cute girl sitting in my office (I'm actually in love with her, but unfortunately

    she's got a boyfriend). For about half a year now I've been wearing some mones almost every time I went to work -

    mostly SoE and/or Chikara. We always had some kind of flirting going on - we were busting each other a little, some

    touching, sitting very close to one another, tickling and having fun... However, things changed about two weeks ago.

    She's still laughing at my jokes, but she is also obviously keeping some distance to me. For example, when she

    stood up to get a printout (the printer is right behind me) she almost always stood behind me looking what I was

    doing or was trying to tickle me, once she started massaging me - now she just passes me without doing anything...

    Looking back now I think her change in behaviour fell into the same time I started using some -none at work. It's

    never been much though - mostly just one or two dabs of NPA, max. one drop. The strange thing is that I got some

    hits by other girls wearing -none during the past few weeks - girls were smiling a lot, looking at me more than

    usual etc... And no signs of OD whatsoever. So I think I can exclude the possibility of me OD-ing.

    Of course

    there's always the possibility that this is just a coincidence and she just decided to stop that flirting between

    us, or maybe she has some problems that I'm not aware of. But if the -none is causing this change, what exactly

    could make her back off?

    - Maybe the smell of NPA-cat-piss, that's not been covered enough (I've been using

    Black Code recently - 2 sprays)? I think she has a very good sense of smell - she hates cucumbers and can smell it

    if someone in the office is eating a salad with cucumbers in them).
    - Maybe the change in my 'signature'? Could

    it be that people, who know me for some time now, become suspicious when my -mone signature changes?
    - Maybe she

    has problems with -none-heavy people in general?
    - Could it have something to do with her age - she's only 21

    (I'm 29 btw)?
    - Maybe I'm not congruent with that alpha-male image that my -mone-signature is giving

    off?

    Has anybody experienced something similar with people they know? And has someone an idea what the exact

    reason could be?

    I'm missing our little flirting in the office quite a lot (it made boring days at work much

    more enjoyable), so I have decided to stop using -none products when I'm at work and going back to some SoE and C7.

    I'm curious if things will get back to normal then...

    Thanks for reading and I'm hoping to hear some

    suggestions about the actual reasons (or maybe some cancelling out of possible reasons suggested above).

    bb

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    I've tried this

    also...
    It's at my school where I work with 3 girls and the 1 have I always joked around with, played with etc

    etc. but on days with none she's more reserved and not so recievably to my normal humor..

    I'm not sure but to

    me it seems as because they know us as something then when we "change" they don't like us because we're not the

    one they like anymore..
    And people that don't know us will recieve it great as they don't know us yet..
    Perhaps

    because of the alreasy made up impression they have of us...
    Remember people can be very addictive to varius

    paterns.. People can get annoyed with people they don't know and haven't met if they in a room take the chair and

    table they normally sit at.. So perhaps this can be the explanation.. You're out of your normal patern and therefor

    she reacts differently..
    WorkingMann - you've been there, done that!

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    I cycle though various products

    and mixes every week and people I know well don't change their fundamental behavior towards me. I fact, they're

    largely immune to my pheromones in terms of resulting behavior (yeah, yeah I know it works at a biological level but

    their brain filters it out). However, I can readily observe new effects on more causual acquaintances--my

    students--and strangers.

    However, since she is in a relationship she may have realized the conflict of interest

    in your friendship. So it ain't a coincidence but really isn't a pheromone related matter. Cooling it off is the

    logical and morally correct thing to do. If she were to continue fanning it on it would only lead to problems. Been

    there and done that. The problems--enraged BF and emotionally distraught woman--are not worth it. If she breaks up

    with so-n-so you won't want her on the rebound--she ain't ready and too much baggage. Plus, could you really trust

    a woman that fools around while in a relationship?
    "I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi

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    she lost interest, using mones

    help, but it comes down to your game. and my experience none is it works good or it works bad thats why i like

    products with low none
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    CUMMING
    Last edited by chicago; 04-08-2011 at 03:36 PM.

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    I've had to avoid -none when

    I'm at work, except when I'm my own boss.

    You've possibly ceased to be "safe" to her.

    You'll have to

    pick your poison. You might try omitting the -none.

    One girl's perfect dose is another's OD. Two dabs to a

    drop of NPA is a lot. Don't be so sure you're not OD'ing.
    DrSmellThis (creator of P H E R O S)

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    Thanks for you answers

    everyone! I've decided to not wear any -none products at work for some weeks and see, if things become normal

    again... After this I might try one dab of my self-made Edge and see, if that's okay for her.

    @DST: I have

    the impression, that NPA is too strong for me, too - maybe I'm slightly ODing with one dab of NPA already - but the

    OD reactions are not so strong that they are easily noticable (like always having a one mile radius of fleeing

    people around). As I've written in another thread already - hits with one dab NPA were always happening quite a

    long time after applying (at least 7 or 8 hours). Most of the NPA would have 'flown away' by then. When arriving

    at the office, my application is always fresh - only half an hour old... It's just hard to imagine that such a tiny

    little dab, a barely wet finger, can have such effects...

    bb

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    I'm currently at work - first

    day after Easter holidays. I've applied some SOE and 1 spray of Chikara in the morning and I have to say that it's

    far better going today than in the last two weeks of me wearing heavy -none products. I'm still quite inexperienced

    in using -none (have been wearing SOE and Chikara mainly), so I was expecting clearer signs of ODing, like strangers

    totally avoiding me etc... It seems that signs of ODing can be much more subtle...

    I might try using TE

    sometime in the future, but will stay away from heavy-none-products for now...
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    Has anybody

    experienced something similar with people they know? And has someone an idea what the exact reason could be?



    I'm missing our little flirting in the office quite a lot (it made boring days at work much more enjoyable), so I

    have decided to stop using -none products when I'm at work and going back to some SoE and C7. I'm curious if

    things will get back to normal then...

    Thanks for reading and I'm hoping to hear some suggestions about the

    actual reasons (or maybe some cancelling out of possible reasons suggested above).
    Well, it

    depends. If you want to use none, the effect you should be looking for from a women is "Hey I kinda know that scent,

    is that a hint of urinal...bodily odor that I recognize? not too overpowering stench but just a fecal-pleasant scent

    amist perfume?" I assume, due to the nature of the None-odor, it should ring a bell in your targets mind stimulating

    her to attempt to recall the odor in the depth of her mind, undergo momentary disbelief, switch to a highten state

    of alertness, until the effect adapts to her olfactory perception accept it, or revert her thought pattern back to

    normal. It's supposed to create a window of opportunity that's why mones = 5-10% of the whole socialising

    equation. There are other factors that I've heavily discounted for explaining this.

    Personally, I think it's

    urine like smell that produces DIHL effects. Somehow women are attracted to natural body scents: I've noticed my

    girl sniffing and filling her lungs with my sweaty shirts and wearing them on, feeling kind sexy after that.
    Others

    don't think so: This qoute from JVK "Many people rely on such anecdotes, try the products, and agree

    that there is more at play than "smell." The LH response to pheromones can be elicited by other sensory (think,

    visual) input--but only after it is "conditioned" to occur in response to pheromones
    ."



    But please,

    that a shower before you go to work, because the dynamics of pre-relationship, and whence you are into one change.

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    Talking

    Keep with that mix for a week or two

    so you get used to the responses , once you know what to look for you'll love it! I find it makes my workmates very

    friendly ,chatty and tend to have a "whats your take on this?" attitude towards me and my opinions. Also effects me

    in a very positive way.



    Quote Originally Posted by bubblebob View Post
    I'm currently at work - first day after

    Easter holidays. I've applied some SOE and 1 spray of Chikara in the morning and I have to say that it's far

    better going today than in the last two weeks of me wearing heavy -none products. I'm still quite inexperienced in

    using -none (have been wearing SOE and Chikara mainly), so I was expecting clearer signs of ODing, like strangers

    totally avoiding me etc... It seems that signs of ODing can be much more subtle...
    early 40's white male or or

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    I know this is old, but who

    cares.

    Bob, it's obvious that this girl saw you as her girlfriend. Tickling, etc, I mean I was not there to

    read the body-language firsthand, but it sounds like the classic just-friends deal. You mention no sexual

    overtones, so I assume there were none. She saw you as a penisless, "safe" entity, for far too long, so when she

    gets a whiff of NPA on you, she recoils because you are no longer "sexless plaything" but "man on the hunt", and she

    doesn't know how to deal with that. So go after the girls who showed REAL interest, forget this chick, because the

    two of you may as well have been two pajama-wearing 12 year olds hitting each other with pink pillows on a pink bed,

    in a pink room with ponies on the wall.

    'Slinger

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    Default ooo Slinger,

    that was harsh!!

    It also might be that she's pregnant, have heard that pregnant women shy away mightily from .none products.
    There is a cure for electile dysfuntion!!!!

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    Default Bubblebob... are you still attuned here? Can you tell us the rest of the story?

    Quote Originally Posted by Slinger View Post
    I know this is old, but who cares.



    Bob, it's obvious that this girl saw you as her girlfriend. Tickling, etc, I mean I was not there to read the

    body-language firsthand, but it sounds like the classic just-friends deal. You mention no sexual overtones, so I

    assume there were none. She saw you as a penisless, "safe" entity, for far too long, so when she gets a whiff of NPA

    on you, she recoils because you are no longer "sexless plaything" but "man on the hunt", and she doesn't know how

    to deal with that. So go after the girls who showed REAL interest, forget this chick, because the two of you may as

    well have been two pajama-wearing 12 year olds hitting each other with pink pillows on a pink bed, in a pink room

    with ponies on the wall.

    'Slinger
    It WAS indeed harsh. Nonetheless I think Slinger here is somewhat

    right.
    I'm not saying she saw you as a peniless entity, but she might indeed have seen you two as friends only.

    There might have been sexual tension as well, however you were "safe" enough in one way or another (take into

    account you used mostly `nol with her - which means chatty mostly). And now the `none kicks in and you probably seem

    suddenly a bit "too grown up" for her.
    Also - she's 21. From my experience... and I have a lot of it with girls

    her age... she might have been somewhat attracted to you because of the `nol (even if on an enough subconsious level

    for her to still accept you as a friend although she has a b\f). `nol truly attracts the age range of 16 to 22,

    with an emphasis on 20-21.
    Now sudenly she smells so much `none (a drop of NPA might be a lot for some people), and

    you're no longer "safe" or maybe just no longer as "I-can-so-talk-to-him... so-much-I-might-get-horney-for-him" as

    before (`coz of the lack f `nol, and it's replacement with such a heavy `mone as `none at such strong doses).



    I'm curious to hear how the method of returnng to the old pattern worked out... It was, IMHO, the best thing to

    do (even if just to experiment and check out the result).

    So bubblebob - if you're still here... please do tell

    us the rest of the story... How did things work out?

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