Wow... harsh oneOriginally Posted by gaf
I can't help but feel bad for those
children.
Get's me thinking though - those are NOT alpha-males in my book. I have an ex-g/f whos father &
mother got divorsed (mine are too, but that's not the point). Her father got remaried, but didn't stop being a
friend to the mother & even supports her financially as much as he can (he's lucky to be the best in his field or
one of the three; so he's got the money to help).
Now her mother got cancer, and if the father wouldn't be in
such good relations (relatively that is) with the mother... then I presume that my ex would have it much tougher on
her.
So is he an alpha male?
I'm not yet sure.
I know my own defenition - but it's a very demanding
one. I'm an alpha in a few fields, but in others I guess I have so much to work on :\
You know how it is...
As I see it, spreading the genes is not enough. You gotta make sure the children are brought up the right way
& end up being better than you... The genes are NOT the only factor in survival.
Anyway back to the subject - So
we get that going with the "I'm gonna spread my genes & have as many families as possible, without having the care
of being the father charecter" is not necessarily the Alpha-Males' approach.
In my book it's not even close.
But
what is then? (Specially in a womans' point of view)
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