Ditto.Originally Posted by ThatGuy
About a year ago my circumstances changed
and I found myself in a new area, with difficulties starting over. I became a loner, and it really got me
down.
Before this time I was the life of the party. Really delusionally confident...most days I felt high on
life, everyday was a thrill to be alive. I can't even explain, I am dying to go back to that feeling. I was also
very much a social-butterfly, a leader, knew lots of people, fun to be around, etc.
This past year, all that has
been nonexistent, along with my dating/sex life. I haven't even kissed a girl since '05. Yeah, pathetic.
That's why I started using 'mones...I thought there was something wrong with me.
Girls used to always check me
out, do the DIHL thing, approach me, etc. etc. So when it stopped, I began to question myself...am I not
good-looking any more? I craved for that female validation. That's why I started using 'mones.
It worked, I
got the attention. But I think it was mostly because I was consciously noticing it. That's the conclusion I've
come to after making many threads about my PI experiences/hits. I used to be so depressed with my head down, I
didn't notice girls who WERE checking me out before. 'Mones helped, but without the proper game, the hits were
meaningless, and have been.
The hottest chicks in town have been fawning over me, but I've felt so unconfident
that I keep think I'll get rejected if I show interest or attraction in them, even when they approached!
You
see, the thing is...what I've finally come to realize is the true importance of confidence all along. Back then,
confidence did exactly what 'mones have done for me recently - get me noticed by women. College cheerleaders would
get sexual on me back then without 'mones...it was pure confidence. Back then I was still the same out-of-shape
guy but I had such a strong belief in myself that I could get girls wet just looking at me. I remember I was so
confident I truly believed that if a girl didn't smile at me or show attraction it was because she was too nervous
because I was too hot for her. That is SUCH a DIFFERENT state of mind that I've been in lately. You don't
understand how powerful that type of thinking is when you truly truly believe it to be your reality.
Short story,
this past week I've met more people than I've met in the past 3 months. I'm slowly building that confidence
back. I now "get it" that all the times I was insecure about being the center of attention...it all went back to my
confidence issues. I believe I actually have some true 'alpha' nature in me because of my past
reckless/fearless/irrational behavior, I do resemble some alpha qualities.
Anyway, yeah, I definitely recommend
before using 'mones that you question your reason for using them. There should be a pre-requirement of CONFIDENCE
before using 'mones, otherwise you'll feel worse about all the opportunities you miss daily.
I'll keep using
'mones because I like the edge, and now with the growing confidence, I don't feel so pressured as the center of
attention because it's feeling natural again. From now on, I won't be reporting hits as girls flipping hair,
approaching me, or staring/etc...those are all things that should be happening to me by default for being my
confident self. Hits, from now on will consist of make-outs, and sex...results.
By the way, I wish you the best
of luck in achieving a similar congruence with your 'mone signature. Don't underestimate the importance of
confidence.
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