First you need to work on
your attitude by smiling/joking/flirting with every female that does not matter to you (even old ladies and
impossible girls).
The fact that you know it is not about sex will let you just get into flirting for the joy
of seeing them smile. FYI: Flirting is not about saying how pretty they are. Go read up various sites about how to
flirt. Go ahead and get a couple books on the subject. Read and practice them.
If you really are a 3, then yes
you probably need to work on it a bit. However, even as a 3 you need to have:
Clean, well groomed hands.
Neat,
not ratty clothing that fits properly and matches whatever your personal style is.
Clean teeth and mouth.
Clean
body by your culture's social standards. (i.e. bathe daily in most parts of america but maybe every few days in
other parts of the world).
Then you need to pick some kind of activities that you enjoy that have females in
them. For example, I've seen many a "3" light up the face of "6" girls on the floor with good dance moves.
As a
young person, your -none is probably high (tho if way overweight you could have a lot of estrogen bringing it down).
Just to make friends, I think SOE is a great first start. Others recommend WAGG. As a mixed "friend + a little
heat", WAGG-N seems okay on a limited budget.
You will probably need to find a personal scent that is compatible
with the mones that is popular with your age group. For example- you could just ask some girls your age what they
liked on guys. I read here that musk is generally out for young girls these days.
I'm sure the others will have
more to say.
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If you have a particular girl you want, you are probably all ready in trouble because you are
probably being a "nice guy" (i.e. wus). If you want to turn it sexual, you are going to need to bust her, tease
her, make her laugh, joke about sex, get her thinking about sex when you are around, and touch her (neck rub,
backrub, etc.), a little alcohol won't hurt but don't be stupid. NEVER EVER talk about being in love with her, or
how much she means to you or write her any letters or any of that crap until you have a solid physical relationship
established. All those things will do is make her feel creepy and uncomfortable. You need to be the fun guy she
feels comfortable with. Mr. Lovey Dovey is okay *in moderation* once you have a committed closed relationship. But
to be honest, as I get older, I wonder about that even. Somehow you have to combine saying you are in love with
them while still letting them know they never ever own you.
For god's sake, at your age, whatever you do, do
not lock onto a girl that wants to be just friends. Establish QUICKLY if she wants to be friends only and if so,
move on except for doing things that you enjoy anyway. For example, if you want to see a particular movie and have
no date, it's great to have a "bud" along.
Seriously, I had a friend do this and he wasted 13 YEARS of his life
before he finally broke free of the girl. She used him mercilessly and he never even got a kiss. She knew he was
in love with her. He missed a lot of opportunities with other girls while he pined for this one.
Lovescent also
has a limited number of free sample packs for men and women if you order another product. You might add those to
the order along with your regular order.
In my opinion, mones are dynamite and they work fast (on you as well as
on others btw). But having the physical and mental package to go with them helps a lot.
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