anyone have similar
experiences?
Okay, so power to the mones that have made women check me out literally everywhere I go
nowadays.
I've been using NPA and LT together, which makes for an awesome combination. I also do have fairly
good-looks (facially, though I am thin), and have a sense of humor, sociable, etc.
However, I notice that women
of all ages seem to go for me. The other day a 30 something year old lady (though cute) was flirty with me.
I
don't mind that...but I have a question.
Q: When a female is attracted to you due to mones, what is going on
with them? In other words, do they:
A. feel physically attracted to me as a result (and just in their minds think,
'hmmm that guy is hot')?
or, do they:
B. feel sexually turned on by me but can't understand why
It
bothers me a little when and if "B" is the case and they do not find me physically attractive. If they find me
physically attractive then it's okay for "B" to happen because it won't confuse them and will only intensify
something they already feel for me. But,
Example (of case B?): I was talking to this chick on the bus about a
week ago. I'm completely over this but it's just a good example. Anyway, I approach her, start talking, and she
asks me a lot of questions and really seems interested, to the point of almost asking me out on a date. I get her
number, and then when I call her up, she seems flat out not interested at all. When we were talking in person, she
was showing all the right body language signs. I'm not a beginner to women, I know when they show interest. But, it
was weird that she was so not into me on the phone and just was like "I'll call you back," and she never did. And
I'm not hung up over that or anything, I'm just wondering, does this happen to you guys too. Another example of
this is this morning, going to garage sales, I felt like one of the ladies (probably around 40, but still kind of
hot) was standing a bit too close to me while dwindling her finger in her hair.
Example (of case A): Then
there's this girl who's crazy over me literally, but I just haven't had the time to take her for some coffee. I
know she likes me and the mones have really intensified the effect.
Point being, it kind of sucks that I'm
attracting girls that are not physically attracted to me because when they're not in the presence of my mones they
change their minds about liking me. I keep feeling like these girls are messed up for sending mixed signals, but
then again, it's probably my fault for wearing mones.
anyone have similar
experiences?
oh, and my last
question...
...when a girl gets under the influence of my mones, does it give them the impression that I am
"horny"?
I mean, is it just them, or do they also assume that I am giving off some sort of sexual
energy?
Another example is the other night at the bookstore, there was another woman (probably in her mid 20s)
who was eyeing me quite a bit. But I've just been hesitant to go for these women that are not usually the type of
woman I go for...but maybe I don't know my own type?
You don't know who was
there or what she was doing when she called. Maybe it just wasn't a good time for her to talk - her mom was on the
other line - her on again/off again guy had just stopped by - her cat was puking - who knows. Also, she could just
be impulsive. Maybe she does that about a lot of things - initially enthusiastic and then doesn't follow
through.
Why not spend some time with the one who's crazy about you rather than call up some girl you met on a
bus? Too easy? :-)
this doent make me very popular ,LOL, but i maintain that the 'mones also affect the wearer to the extent if they
are turned on too, they think everyone is thinking sexual thoughts. a nice gesture becomes sexual, i.e..
im not
negating the hits you may or may not have gotten, but i have been misunderstood myself for opening the door for
someone in a state where apparently that binds you in marriage!
if you are wearing 'mones, YES you are giving off
a sexual vibe. i dont believe for one second that if im near someone that is turning me on with 'mones that they
are now iresistable; but my thoughts may turn to someone i am in fact attracted to. i think your going to appear
more attractive, but only to the ones that would find you kind of attractive anyways. people, including myself, that
wear 'mones are now more sensitive to other's reactions (or lack there-of) and read WAY too much into everything.
i mean, ISNT EVERYONE thinking hot sex on the PC table would hit the spot right now??? whoa, okay, maybe thats just
me!
You mean they aren't thinking that?Originally Posted by Lor
Damn! Ruined a whole range of fantasies.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
Thomas Jefferson
hEY Smooth,
Don't worry man. It
ain't the mones doing that. I've experienced that sorta thing way too many times.
I've chatted with chicks at
bars so many times..and they all really dig me on that night. They get touchy feely , maintain constant eye contact
and hang on every word I say. And I think to myself " yep, I've got this cat in the bag " .
But when they
give me their number and ask me to call them, and I do...wow.. what a shocker. They're like totally different on
the phone and give me all sorts of excuses. I usually give a chick I meet at a bar 2 chances. If they turn me down
twice I erase the number off my phone. They weren't drunk either might I add. I have real difficulty communicating
with drunk chicks.
It's not the mones , it's the chicks. You didn't build enough of a connection with them,
somehow. You might have thought you did but ..yeah, you mightn't have. So they're feeling kinda horny when they
were with u, and they were havin' fun...but the day after, their energy levels drop way down, similar to a hang
over. Suddenly they're not so excited bout you anymore and you aren't there in person to spike up their energy
levels. Who knows.. you probably don't sound like much fun on the phone either, your levels are down too.
I've
had 8/10 chicks flake on me when I call them back. But I've had that 2/10 that were really cool and we actually got
along really well and had some romance after the pickup.
I might have been off on another tangent with what
I've just said, and if so, I appologise. Just to let you know you're not alone in this.
Regards,
nfs
PS:
Oh..by the way, the girls could have been totally into your looks but that's not gonna be enough to hold their
interest the day after. With guys, we see a hot chick and can't get her out of our minds for days. With girls..
it's a bit different I feel. A mix of chemistry + chrisma + looks are required to totally sweep them off their
feet. This is what I've learnt from girls. U don't have to be even attractive , physically to sweep girls off
their feet. It's more how you behave that they find attractive.
I don't know, any girls here wanna confirm
this ? Lor? FTR ?
I could be wrong, but my
feeling on it is that you really don't know why these girls aren't following through, and I think it's probably
wrong to assume it has everything to do with you. If they didn't find you attractive, they would not have given
their phone numbers. (doesn't have to be physically attractive, like nfs said). I don't think it's that. I
think men and women do the same stuff - sometimes men take your number and then don't call - sometimes women give
their numbers out and then don't want to talk. Oh, well! On to the next ...
ThinkDon't
worry man. It ain't the mones doing that. I've experienced that sorta thing way too many times.
this is right - this happens all the time without 'mones, but mones do make it easier to accidentally end up in a
place where she experiences buyer's remorse when you call. For example you might see a girl in a club and your
eyes meet and before you know it you are kissing her. Without the mones you might both have proceeded more slowly
and in the process given her reasons why she felt that way about you. But now, lets say you get her number and call
she doesn't understand why she was attracted to you and regrets the experience.
Neil Strauss ('Style') - author of 'The Game' - and Mystery talk about this.It's not the mones ,
it's the chicks. You didn't build enough of a connection with them, somehow. You might have thought you did but
..yeah, you mightn't have. So they're feeling kinda horny when they were with u, and they were havin' fun...but
the day after, their energy levels drop way down, similar to a hang over. Suddenly they're not so excited bout you
anymore and you aren't there in person to spike up their energy levels. Who knows.. you probably don't sound like
much fun on the phone either, your levels are down too.
I've had 8/10 chicks flake on me when I call them
back. But I've had that 2/10 that were really cool and we actually got along really well and had some romance after
the pickup.
Style says that if you are getting telephone flaking then you did something wrong when you met her - building
attraction has several stages you have to pass through and somewhere along the way you left something out. I think
this is correct. Over time I have gone from 8/10 flaking to maybe 3/10 but do think it is possible to achieve
zero-flake
It happens.
I've even
done it as a guy to females.
Just suddenly they went from being intriguing to not.
Females have a lot of rules
and their own internal priorities about males and even those shift on a monthly basis.
One possibility is that
she was in the mood to meet a new guy when you met her and then later she was pms lady.
And of course everything
else the others pointed out (hmmm puking cat... never fun)
FTR nailed it. I hate to admit, but I used toI think men and women do
the same stuff - sometimes men take your number and then don't call - sometimes women give their numbers out and
then don't want to talk. Oh, well! On to the next ...
flake on women all the time. Start the ball rolling, tease them and disappear. It's irresponsible and hurtful, but
I did it many times. I didn't change my mind deliberately, but was whimsical and horny. And, yes, women did it to
me as well. I rarely do it anymore and at least give it to them straight up if I have a change of heart.
"I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi
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