I always frequent a coffee shop. Sometimes I will see a chic, alot of the times pretty
good looking just there by herself. They usually are not there very long, say like 45 minutes it seems.
I think,
hmmm. Wow. Good looking, nobody around, are they here to be hit on or to meet a guy? It is hard to tell. Some sit
out of the way in a corner in which it is kinda harder to say hi to or go over to. I saw one real nice looking
women. About 26. She was all into this book. She sat with her back to the crowd. Not looking any other way or
turning her head ever. I thought I may of seen a ring. I thought....ahhh figures. Then this dude comes in,
introduces himself, like a friggin pro, plops a seat right in her face. He was so confident it was almost over
bearing to her. But in three minutes he asked her to join him and his friends for a drink. She agreed (I got a
closer look when she was leaving. It was just a gold charm ring=no wedding ring). He went out to tell his friends
that were out side on the patio. Came back in in 4 or 5 minutes and asked her if she was ready. She sighed and said
as she was leaving "this is crazy". I was woed. She gave no indication she wanted to be picked up. No suddle clues,
she was so into her novel and sat with her back to the entire shop. I thought....naw, she is NOT here to meet
someone. When he took her out of there in three friggin minutes I was like...hmmmm how do you know?
I seen
another good looking women there the next night that totally stayed to herself as well. In the corner. I thought.
Hmmm maybe I should just go over to her like the dude did to that chic the other night. She left while I was still
lookin for a clue of her availability and if she was open to conversation. Is there a 9 out of 10 chance that if
they are there alone they are there to be picked up. Is there no way of knowing?
I know the norm:you just
gotta give it a shot and the "how will you know if you don't try". But I just want to know what are the odds? Is
there a connection with a women being by herself at a coffee shop to looking to meet a dude or is it all in the
situation? Is there any probability or do women just go to get away or to relax.
What's the deal? Getting
some insight (especially from a women) would be helpful. You see it is a small coffee shop. If I do go over and it
doesn't go good I suppose I'd either have to go back to my seat and pretend it was nothing or something. Also some
folks would see this who know me just by seeing me there. I'd look kinda silly if I did this often. Even though the
more times you try the better your odds. So I kinda am not sure on how to go about it and I want to make it a good
selection if I do choose to pull a move like the dude did the other night with that chic. It would help if I knew
how much women generally go out to be picked up and where. How do you know? Is there any way to guage?Like the one
chic...here was no body language signs or anything but the dude swooped her out of there?
Any tips, input,
or advice?
Happyman
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