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    Default why have i become so shy? lol

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    its a

    stupid question... but i just cannot seem to approach women like i used to anymore. As the term progressed, with

    more and more tests and projects... i kinda slipped my game and pheromones just did not help me as much as they did

    in the start of university. I EXPECT NO ONE TO GIVE ME AN ANSWER TO THIS UNSOLVABLE QUESTION. But has anyone

    experienced what iam going through lately. I need some assurance that im not the only one lol and that it will get

    better......

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    Sheesh, when you got more

    important things on your mind, you just don't have the heart to mess with it. When really heavy sh!t hits the fan,

    I can't even catch bone.
    "I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd2
    its a stupid

    question... but i just cannot seem to approach women like i used to anymore. As the term progressed, with more and

    more tests and projects... i kinda slipped my game and pheromones just did not help me as much as they did in the

    start of university. I EXPECT NO ONE TO GIVE ME AN ANSWER TO THIS UNSOLVABLE QUESTION. But has anyone experienced

    what iam going through lately. I need some assurance that im not the only one lol and that it will get

    better......
    Yeah dude, stop worrying. You'll get back in the game when you're less stressed. The

    biggest lesson I learned was pheros simply act on your mood. Feel depressed? They'll probably make you more

    depressed. Feeling lucky? Women will fall in your lap.

    When I'm down I don't even bother with the pheros since

    they don't do anything for me.

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    Oh, and did I mention it's

    been a week since I used any? Cheer up, you're not alone.

    Tomorrow looks like a better day, so I'll be

    starting again.

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    Ah, but i dont apply pheromones at

    all anymore.... i feel as if nothings working anymore... maybe im just forcing myself into things i cannot.... thats

    why life sucks. And to top it all off, im in a program where its a majority male to female ratio... lol i guess

    thats one of the biggest reasons why i have not had success with women lately

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    I hate to tell you this but you

    are in a positive feedback loop. So long as you keep thinking and believing that way it is going to continue to be

    true. Your unhappy and having no success so believe you can't. And your belief makes it true so you cannot have

    success. You need to work on the inner you before you worry about the outside world.
    To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.

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    bel is so way right on this one

    dude.I am in the process of completely reformating my personal life down to the way I brush my teeth as a result of

    falling into a feedback loop of negativity and depression.Part of it is that its just that time of year...but its

    important to step back once in a while and re-examine your soul to make sure that you arent clinging to a bunch of

    negative crap.This is a house cleaning that was long over due for me(I do this sort of thing anualy) and people

    around me have noticed the difference.

    Its important to pay attention to your inner self and your state of mind

    from time to time to make sure you dont end up in a state of constant negativity.Its a very easy trap to fall

    into...and in a hustle and bustle life style,its often easy to forget to do an attitude check once in a while and

    adjust it as needed.
    "The wages of sin is death.But after taxes it's just sort of a tired feeling realy." -Ellen DeGeneres

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    Yeah Bel is right, this is

    similar situation to another guy on here.

    The nature of a belief is thus: You will notice something in the world

    and try to rationalise it with a belief (e.g "that girl didn't like me, and I'm bald, so girls don't like bald

    guys). Sometimes only your subconscious mind is privy to the exact details of the belief, but what UNIVERSALLY

    happens next is that you will subconsciously look for evidence to support your belief.

    The only way to remove

    this silly belief is to go into your head and work out why you think it (maybe extracting the details from your

    subconscious), notice that it doesn't make any real sense and/or ASSUME another more positive belief (to continue

    the previous example a new one might be, "the configuration of my hair isn't important, and what other people think

    of me is none of my business, I enjoy meeting them regardless") and then notice supporting evidence.
    CptKipling

    Information about pheromones: Pheromone Information Library

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    Or, you can simply stop caring

    about what others think of you. It sounds really hard to do but isn't. Other than a supervisor or a cop, does it

    really matter what another person's opinion is? If you are trying to be the best you can be, you know it and who

    cares what anybody else thinks?
    To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.

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    I do not care about how ohers

    think of me. It is just that I was better off a while back, where i used to take action whenever i wanted and women

    obviously liked it. I wanted it to stay that way even if my relation with them didnt progress to the next level.

    Now, its like I try, but nothing comes out of it. It just hit me how well i used to do with women, and not think

    about it how well i did..... it would sort of subconciously happen, but once i hit a slump, forcing things to happen

    does absolutely JACK SHIT.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd2
    I do not care about

    how ohers think of me. It is just that I was better off a while back, where i used to take action whenever i wanted

    and women obviously liked it. I wanted it to stay that way even if my relation with them didnt progress to the next

    level. Now, its like I try, but nothing comes out of it. It just hit me how well i used to do with women, and not

    think about it how well i did..... it would sort of subconciously happen, but once i hit a slump, forcing things to

    happen does absolutely JACK SHIT.
    Wha't your basic mone/mones use, abc?

    It's amazing what you find

    out when you start keeping track of YOURSELF. I just recently, two weeks ago, replaced TE/m with TE/f, and for the

    life of me couldn't figure out why I was drooling when I ate! Yes, it was the TE/w. Thanks Bassman,

    wherever you are. I remember when he said TE/w made him drool just today. I thought he meant made him

    horny. Duhhhhhh! Now I KNOW he meant DROOOOOOOOOLING! Embarrasing!
    Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tim929
    bel is so way right

    on this one dude.I am in the process of completely reformating my personal life down to the way I brush my

    teeth
    as a result of falling into a feedback loop of negativity and depression.Part of it is that its just

    that time of year...but its important to step back once in a while and re-examine your soul to make sure that you

    arent clinging to a bunch of negative crap.This is a house cleaning that was long over due for me(I do this sort of

    thing anualy) and people around me have noticed the difference.

    Its important to pay attention to your inner

    self and your state of mind from time to time to make sure you dont end up in a state of constant negativity.Its a

    very easy trap to fall into...and in a hustle and bustle life style,its often easy to forget to do an attitude check

    once in a while and adjust it as needed.
    How does the way you brush your teeth effect your positive outlook?

    i'm not criticising just curious thats all
    its better to fart & stink a little than to bust your ass & become a cripple

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    Quote Originally Posted by MOBLEYC57
    Wha't your basic

    mone/mones use, abc?

    It's amazing what you find out when you start keeping track of YOURSELF. I just recently,

    two weeks ago, replaced TE/m with TE/f, and for the life of me couldn't figure out why I was

    drooling when I ate! Yes, it was the TE/w. Thanks Bassman, wherever you are. I

    remember when he said TE/w made him drool just today. I thought he meant made him horny. Duhhhhhh! Now I

    KNOW he meant DROOOOOOOOOLING! Embarrasing!
    TE/f has been on my wishlist for some time now i'll

    eventually get around to getting some & yeah i've been using TE/m lately so tell me kind sir how does it make you &

    bassman drool? sounds like I better use something else for dinner dates lol
    its better to fart & stink a little than to bust your ass & become a cripple

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mick
    How does the way you

    brush your teeth effect your positive outlook?
    It's a "wax on/wax off" kind of thing.
    If a guy's a cocksucker in his life, when he dies, he don't become a saint. - Morris Levy, Hitmen

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    Quote Originally Posted by Holmes
    It's a "wax

    on/wax off" kind of thing.
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    Mick, I don't know how or why TE/W

    makes me drool, but it DOES! I had pointed the blame on L-arginine since it is suppose to put extra fluid

    in the body. Bassman's notes popped into my head while leaving AppleBees wondering why have I been drooliiiiiiiing

    lately.
    Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd2
    its a stupid

    question... but i just cannot seem to approach women like i used to anymore. As the term progressed, with more and

    more tests and projects... i kinda slipped my game and pheromones just did not help me as much as they did in the

    start of university. I EXPECT NO ONE TO GIVE ME AN ANSWER TO THIS UNSOLVABLE QUESTION. But has anyone experienced

    what iam going through lately. I need some assurance that im not the only one lol and that it will get

    better......

    i went through that same sorta thing years ago. it wasnt the mones though i did take a

    very long break from them.

    it was my stresses and problems weighing me down only i was too blind too see it at

    the time. i was thinking way too negative and it rubbed off on everything i tried to do.

    for me the solution

    was dealing with what i had to take care of. i was trying to force the women things when i really didnt need that

    extra stress in my life.

    simply put. relax and focus on what you have to. your game will come back. after all

    most of us are on our best game when we feel the best and are happiest. no matter whats going on in your life

    things could always be a lot worse.

    oh yeah wearing mones doesnt help me feel better one bit when im feeling

    down they just kinda seem to lag me even more

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