Originally Posted by
FullTiltRedhead
Enticing,
good thread, I love sex tips threads.
What I have:
For looks, breasts, hair, eyes, voice, some people say
ass
For actions:
Deep throat
I\'m very tight
Stamina
Enthusiasm
Complete willingness to
please
Passion
Orgasms that last a long time (good positive reinforcement for the guy)
How you give head for
two hours is that you control him.
It is actually not a blow job. It is cock worship. The difference is that a
blow job is for making him cum. Cock worship may or may not end in orgasm, but orgasm is not the goal. The goal is
to give him pleasure and to show him that you love his cock.
Cock worship has a different perspective than blow
jobs, too, because a blow job is for him. Cock worship is for YOU. Understand that men want to provide for us. So
you get across to him that you really love this and you need it, you need to have as much as you want of it. He will
be more motivated to control himself if he understands that he is giving you something by letting you enjoy his cock
for as long as you want.
It\'s also good, especially with a younger guy, to let him have one orgasm first -
have sex with him first - and let the cock worship be the reinforcement for his giving you sex the way you want it.
If you save this for the second round, his need to come isn\'t as urgent so he\'ll be more relaxed.
You have
to be able to guage his reactions some, e.g., when his balls really start to tighten, switch the stroke you\'re
using, change the rhythm - or his breathing changes, or his muscles stiffen - signs that you\'re getting him past
the point of no return - you don\'t want to take him that far, you just keep him right on the edge....basically
you just keep bringing his arousal level up and easing it back, bringing it up and easing it back.
I like to lay
him on his back with his legs open and one knee bent, so that I can lie between his legs with my arm under his bent
leg and the inside of his thigh for my pillow if my neck gets tired and I want to put my head down. I\'ve fallen
asleep like that with SDR\'s cock in my mouth.
That position is good because it\'s easy just to shift
position slightly and you\'re on all fours, so you can be more active, or if you need to rest a little, you can,
as I said rest your cheek on his inner thigh and he can stay in your mouth like that with you not moving, just
sucking gently, or massaging the underside of his cock with your tongue, etc.
I start with my hands, touching
him just with my fingertips - try to make him shiver. Next put a silky lube on your fingertips and use the lube and
a little more pressure. I like flavored lubes because they help me salivate, and you want your mouth to be wet.
Touch gets progressively more firm until you have his cock in your first and you can use your whole hand on him -
then both hands, and keep changing the stroke. If the first couple of strokes are with your whole hand, let the
third one be with his cock between your second and third fingers, and the fourth one be with your thumb on the
underside and four fingers lightly on the top, or do a couple of strokes with your whole hand, firmly, stroking
downward (not coming back up), so a couple of down strokes, and then three strokes from the base of the shaft coming
up, back to the base and up, etc. until he is ROCK hard and starting to drip. I wait until I see that first drop at
the tip of his cock before I use my mouth, and then it\'s the tip of my tongue to lick that first drop, and then
my mouth very slowly, agonizingly slowly, take first the head, lick, make sure everything\'s wet, go down a little
further, etc, until your nose is in his groin, and then come back up. Get everything wet - slippery is better.
It\'s not all about sucking his dick, either. You give his balls attention, and the insides of his thighs, and
his ass, everything ...
But those things will increase his arousal level fast so you have to be careful with
them.
You have to listen to him and know what the sounds he makes mean, that\'s another way - if you get the
groan in agony of pleasure, you maybe can do whatever produced it one more time, but then no more because it will
take him too high too fast, so you go to something else, and that will frustrate him, but something else good is
coming, so after awhile he\'ll stop fighting you or rushing you and he\'ll just lie back. You want to put him in
a state of bliss and keep him there.
He will be incoherent and he\'ll say all kinds of things to you, none of
which are fair game to take seriously because he won\'t know what he\'s saying at the time, so if he says he
loves you, or he proposes marriage, he just means he likes it. Don\'t expect him to remember what he\'s said to
you after it\'s over, if you get my drift. Anything said in the heat of passion let go in one ear and out the
other. He has to trust you that he can say whatever words come out of his mouth, or make whatever noise he\'s
going to make, just being spontaneous. Encourage him to make noise, because that helps you know where you are with
him, so ... a guy new to this will want to express himself but doesn\'t know what to say - any sound from him at
all, reinforce it with um-hmmm, while his cock is in your mouth. That feels good to him. Encourage him to talk to
you or make sounds by reinforcing.
New guys don\'t know what to do with their hands - I like my hair stroked
and my scalp massaged, I really like his hands all in my hair. So if he\'s sort of floundering, take his hand and
show him what to do and again reinforce it with pleasure sounds of your own. Teach him to stroke your cheek, caress
your hair, talk to you, etc. That keeps the pleasure cycle going between the two of you so you get reinforcement
back. The level of praise you get by doing this well is worth the effort, and the level of gratitude.
Deep
throat - you have to control your breathing, because you won\'t be able to breathe, he\'ll be blocking your air
way. Feel with your finger or if you can curl your tongue back in your mouth, where your palate ends and your soft
palate begins, on the roof of your mouth. What you want is to be able to use that ridge between the hard pallete and
the soft to massage the head of his cock with. Use pressure with your tongue on the underside, press him up against
the roof of your mouth, inhale, and slide your mouth down his cock until you can feel him pressing against your soft
palate. You can bounce him off that ridge. Or you can just keep him in that deep and suck him without moving your
head. Lots of things you can do. Your throat will be sore the next day but it only lasts a day or two.
You can
have him stand at the edge of the bed and you lie on the bed with your mouth just very relaxed and open, and he can
hold your head and f*ck your mouth just like that without you really having to do anything but relax and let your
mouth and tongue be soft and warm.
There are a gajillion things you can do with your mouth.
If you do want
to make him cum, (you asked me so I\'ll tell you), a finger inserted and focus on the head with a steady rhythm
will usually finish him.
But basically what happens is that he is putting himself under your control for that
period of time and letting you control his body. You have to train a guy to do that, not to want to push to orgasm,
not to thrust in your mouth unless you let him, etc., just to be completely relaxed. If he knows that he\'s not
going to cum until you make him cum (because if he acts up at all, you take your mouth away - he\'ll do whatever
you tell him to do, including lie still, as long as you continue to suck him) then he will be able to get to a state
of just sort of sailing on bliss. It\'s something of an altered state - it\'s dreamlike - and you lose track of
time.
And after you\'ve had him at that arousal level for a couple of hours, once you do make him cum,
don\'t expect anything else from him the rest of the day, because he won\'t be able to get up. Just slide out of
bed so he can have the whole bed to himself, and quietly shut the door behind you and let him sleep because he
won\'t be able to get up for a few hours.
Ok, that - plus - learn your positions and don\'t be concerned
about what you look like in any given one. If he didn\'t like the way you looked, he wouldn\'t be with you, so
trust him and forget about what you look like, just do what he wants you to do, or do what feels good to you and
don\'t think, just feel.
Re Elana playing with toys - that\'s great, masturbating for them is great,
wearing sexy clothes is great, and being inventive and creative and enthusiastic in general just makes them happy,
so ... good attitude. I\'m known for good attitude.
NO STRINGS.
Because no strings is the clincher. When
they leave, pretend they don\'t exist. When they call again, be cheerful and happy and your life is fine, sure
you\'ll see them. Don\'t ask for anything, don\'t push in any way.
That is the way to keep them coming
back as long as you want them to.
Or, at least, it works for me.
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