The best advice is to go out
and get a life. That doesn't sound too nice but it's really the best thing you can do. After my marriage broke up,
mostly to keep myself busy so I wouldn't be sitting at home feeling sorry for myself, I took on some extra work.
Not only did it make me feel better, I met dozens of new people, many who have become very good friends. Of those
dozens of new people, about half were women. Some of those women were fantastic! I ended up having a wonderful time
and also found myself in a nice relationship that just keeeps getting better.
You have a lot in common with me
even if I am a lot older. I am involved in marshal arts and am pretty quiet in groups but have a strong sense of the
ridiculous and it causes the most absurd things to come out of my mouth. People think acerbic observations about
reality made in a light tone are terribly funny.
Go out, have fun and do your very best to not think about your
ex. That's the past and dwelling on it isn't going to help you. This is today, make it the best day possible by
enjoying every minute of it. Life can only get better.
Good luck
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