I actually have the Jeffries course...went halves a couple of years back with a buddy. It\'s really good stuff...way more detailed than you\'ll find on the web, although I check in to fastseduction.com for some good stuff, too.
Quick story...One of the seduction concepts is called the \"neg,\" where you disarm a woman (usually a 9 or 10) by \"inadvertantly\" noticing/saying something mildly negative about her. It\'s useful with the princess types who are expecting every man to be drooling and throwing out the praise. Anyhoo, I learned last week how a neg can backfire with a \"regular\" girl (i.e. one without the major attitude). I was waiting in a restaurant, at the bar, to have lunch with my sister, and had been chatting with the female bartender. College- age girl-next-door type, with a nice, nice body. I noticed her glasses were just like my cousin\'s, and told her that. She smiled, and asked who they looked better on, and without thinking I replied that I couldn\'t really compare because my cousin is 12! Negged her and didn\'t even realize, until I saw how she reacted...she just said \"oh\" and went back to folding napkins or something. Went right from warm to cold...actually she looked a bit down. I almost apologized but then figured it might be worse to call even more attention to the comment. A better approach with her would have been some light compliments on her glasses, hair (anything but her bod, since I\'m sure she gets lots of attention from that). But for a stunner, a 10 on the scale, that little neg would have helped. It\'s fun to experiment, though!
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