TotallyOriginally Posted by Sigfreed
incorrect thinking, on all three points.
First, on #1, who said anything about following her around? Sounds
like SHE'S been following YOU around. Wait until she places herself in your vicinity, just as she has been doing.
As to "being played for a fool", you are making a classic mistake - assuming she has a higher value than you do
- assuming she is the "prize". Don't YOU have anything to offer here? Wouldn't this be a mutually beneficial
relationship? If you ask for her #, and she turns you down, who's loss is that really? It's HERS, not yours.
You made an effort to make a connection - you offered her something of value - she turned it down. Therefore, you
are still carrying around that value - and can share it with someone else. Meanwhile, she is in the gym six days a
week - and home on Friday night.
On #2 - not only should you not make your decision dependent on what treadmill
guy says, you should assume he is lying. Wouldn't it make more sense for him to just say, "yeah, she said she's
not that into you", so he can clear you out to have a shot for himself? That's what I would do. It's
called an AMOG (Alpha Male Other Guy) tactic. The male equivalent of a cockblock. Happens all the time. Basing
your decision on this is not a good strategy.
On #3: You should HOPE she says something to the other women in
the gym. It's called "social proof", and raises your value exponentially. Other women will then know you are a)
single, b) assertive, and c) looking. Of course, women DO hate a man who sees something he wants, and has the guts
to go after that. They find that VERY unattractive, and yes, I am being sarcastic.
Yeah, that's a little weird, butOriginally Posted by Sigfreed
so what? Chicks are weird. Trying to figure them out is a waste of time. Don't worry about what they are
thinking, only what they respond to.
Besides, it's irrelevant WHAT number she gives you, or even if she
does. The only reason to get her number is to set up a date. If she'd rather just set up a date right then and
there, that's actually better. Of course, in modern times nowadays with advances like telephones and electric
lighting, most people usually give a phone number so they can call to either confirm or cancel, if necessary.
Don'tOriginally Posted by Sigfreed
know. Could be. It's not an unreasonable hypothesis. She's a personal trainer who's in the gym six days a
week. Sounds busy. Maybe she just wants a guy on the side to satisfy her needs, no strings attached. That would
be terrible, right? Of course, there's only one way to find out....
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