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    Quote Originally Posted by wood elf
    Smell alone can

    make me decide to not sleep with a man if it is not acceptable. The belief that I may be willing to sleep with a man

    is made before he is close enough to smell. Many other factors must come into play. Is he a real man or some phony

    putting on an act? Is he attractive. Does he seem like a gentleman? Does he have a nice smile and a real laugh? Is

    he mean spirited? Many more things but smell is one small piece. people in this country likes to wash away and

    conceal so much that is natural in a person's scent that it does not play the same role it may play in other

    places.
    However, Sir and Elf, it is totally possible, maybe not for you, or her, but for the next woman.



    Per example, I've stayed out of the discussion of men talking to women in a certain way, 'cause the women here

    say, no way, no how, will that work on a real woman, but, in fact, it does. Maybe not on all women, but that's like

    the kissing of a neck doesn't bring out the same reaction in ALL women. But, if you ask these same women that

    it worked on, if that would work, they'd laugh and say, "hell no!" If you understand what I'm trying to say here.

    So, as someone always says, I think it was Friendly1, the mileage may vary, annnd, it does.
    Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!

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    I met my fiance over the

    internet, so I never got to smell him, of course. He doesn't wear cologne and doesn't need to. I think a lot has

    to do with his diet (no pork nor beef and mostly fruits and vegetables). It was a year before I ever got to see

    what he looked like. So if smell and looks did not play a role in our relationship wonder what did? That's okay,

    you don't need to answer cause I already know the answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by culturalblonde
    I met my

    fiance over the internet, so I never got to smell him, of course. He doesn't wear cologne and doesn't need to. I

    think a lot has to do with his diet (no pork nor beef and mostly fruits and vegetables). It was a year before I ever

    got to see what he looked like. So if smell and looks did not play a role in our relationship wonder what did?

    That's okay, you don't need to answer cause I already know the answer.
    Well, I meant those

    situations where you encounter someone that isn't otherwise interesting but you feel a compelling sexual magnetism

    toward them, that if they wanted to sleep with you, it would be hard or even painful to resist, even if you were

    deeply emotionally involved with another partner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MOBLEYC57
    However, Sir

    and Elf, it is totally possible, maybe not for you, or her, but for the next woman.

    Per example, I've stayed

    out of the discussion of men talking to women in a certain way, 'cause the women here say, no way, no how, will

    that work on a real woman, but, in fact, it does. Maybe not on all women, but that's like the kissing of a neck

    doesn't bring out the same reaction in ALL women. But, if you ask these same women that it worked on, if that

    would work, they'd laugh and say, "hell no!" If you understand what I'm trying to say here. So, as someone

    always says, I think it was Friendly1, the mileage may vary, annnd, it does.
    I definitely agree that

    certain women are much more sexually responsive to stimuli than others, which is a genetic factor. A lot of us

    who've used pheromones have ran into them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wood elf
    Smell alone

    can make me decide to not sleep with a man if it is not acceptable.
    Good points all around. Not all of

    us experience it often, or even realize it, though, that smell can override all those factors. I however, experience

    it all the time, and I can't identify one single thing that a female can do to compare with that overpowering

    sensation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    How did you

    determine it wasn't any one of those reasons you listed?
    Still curious...
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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    Still

    curious...
    One of the most recent studies to sensibly support the observations/conclusions of Sir

    Louis (and others) comes from Rachel Herz, who also concluded from other works that a partner's natural body odor

    is the most important factor with regards to a woman's selection of a mate. This more recent study goes much

    further with regards to the biology that supports her

    findings.

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/q...br /> 4670575

    Re: Psychology/biology? Again, there is no direct biological link from visual input (or any

    other non-olfactory sensory input) to hormonal changes in the brain. If you ignore this direct link to hormonal

    changes, you can argue for a variety of other approaches to the study of how the social environment influences

    mammalian sexual behavior, including human sexual behavior. This ignorance explains why many people and most

    psychologists have (for centuries) ignored the influence of pheromones on human sexual behavior, and why, even

    today, many psychologists fail to understand the relative impact of odor on sexual behavior as compared with other

    sensory input.

    JVK

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis
    ...the

    psychological study of the role of emotions and cognition in directing human behavior are intersecting, yet very

    different fields of study. JVK's pheromone paper is relevant to one aspect of the latter, but does not even

    remotely represent a kind of survey or review of that field.
    For those who don't know: my 2001

    Neuroendocrinology Letters "pheromone" paper is an invited review (of that field) and won an award for integrating

    neuroendocrinology and ethology.

    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis
    “No support for the primacy of affect was found” in

    this recent study, for example:

    http://www.lib.ccu.edu.tw/indoor/jou

    rnal/jnccu/v6s2_6.htm
    [/color]
    The URL above links to a 1995 paper published

    in:
    Journal of National Chung Cheng University Sec. II: Social Sciences

    It is often difficult to compare

    disparate stands, but rarely as comical.

    JVK

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    Quote Originally Posted by jvkohl
    For those who

    don't know: my 2001 Neuroendocrinology Letters "pheromone" paper is an invited review (of that field) and won an

    award for integrating neuroendocrinology and ethology.
    Again, JVK's paper is a literature review about

    pheromones and their effect on hormones, not about the psychology of emotion and cognition.

    It may have won

    an award
    , but it was in a different field. This is indeed "comical."

    Ethology is the "zoological study of

    animal behavior"
    (from an ethology site), in case readers didn't know. I am assuming people know what

    neuroendocrinology is.

    But the point was the topic of JVK's paper. If people want to learn about the relation

    of emotions and cognition in general; and their effect on human behavior, they have to look elsewhere. JVK portrayed

    his paper as "the most relevant review of research" in this field, after making a contentious and unsupported

    claim about emotions versus thoughts in influencing human behavior in general. That was a claim about basic

    psychology.
    Quote Originally Posted by jvkohl
    The URL above links to a 1995 paper published in:
    Journal of National Chung Cheng

    University Sec. II: Social Sciences

    It is often difficult to compare disparate stands, but rarely as

    comical.
    This paper was from an APA conference (American Psychological Association), happened to be handy on

    the web, presented an original empirical study, and is to the point.
    Last edited by DrSmellThis; 04-11-2005 at 01:33 PM.
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    JVK,

    Thanks for your

    comment but that still did not answer the question of how Sir Louis came to his conclusions. I strongly suspect that

    he is using the wag system and really has no clue what he is talking about, right or wrong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by InACharmedLife
    Yikes,

    just call me the can o' worms opener! Sorry, all!

    Anyway, back to my interest in starting this thread;



    JVK, would it be possible for you to accept pre-orders (pre-payments) on special order bottles of JUST Astrid

    Jutte's exact copulin formula? No additives, no fragrances, no formula changes.
    I would preorder a few bottles and

    I think other women here might do so, too.
    If we presented a large enough group pre-order, would it then be

    feasible for you to supply us with Jutte's unadulterated copulin formula?
    Thanks for considering this!

    Charmed,

    I think the answer lies in the 1,000 bottle minimum. Maybe we'll have to do a mass-mailing to every

    female in our e-mail address book? Or buy 1,000 bottles and become distributors?

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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    JVK,



    Thanks for your comment but that still did not answer the question of how Sir Louis came to his conclusions. I

    strongly suspect that he is using the wag system and really has no clue what he is talking about, right or

    wrong.
    I didn't bother responding to your question because it is obvious you didn't actually read what

    I wrote, or tried to understand both sides of the dialogue, for that matter. Instead of throwing an insult, you

    could actually research the topic and see why that conclusion is valid. It is more obvious to some people than to

    others on a personal level, I guess.

    (Wag system?)

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    Actually I read it quite

    thoroughly, that's why I asked you where you got your conclusions. I am interested in learning more, if you have

    some source other than your opinion as a layman, please share it.

    Do you find offense in my comment after you

    started throwing insults at others in the first place then couldn't show the courtesy of answering an honest

    question? That's not my problem, deal with it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    Actually I

    read it quite thoroughly, that's why I asked you where you got your conclusions, I am interested in learning more,

    if you have some source other than your opinion as a layman, please share it.
    In the animal world, sexual

    behavior is determined by reducible factors, humans have much more complex social/sexual behavior, and these

    heavily influence who we have meaningful relationships with, however, these 'lower-level' behaviors and

    triggers are still primary motivators in our lives, though some of us may be aware of this much more than others.

    Even in the absence of research and evidence, it would be very surprising that these don't play a primary role in

    our modern interactions. In any case, it is continuing to be backed up by evidence, as Kohl routinely points out.



    Do you find offense in my comment after you started throwing insults at others in the first place then

    couldn't show the courtesy of answering an honest question? That's not my problem, deal with it.
    I

    answered it, I hope it clears up what I meant. You now can answer a burning question of mine, who did I insult?

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    You really didn't answer the

    question. You said:
    "Because of the way they look? No. Their personality? No. That person's social status? No.

    Their family history? No. What else could cause such a sudden lack of self-control, replaced by a horomonal,

    imperitive need?"
    I asked:
    "How did you determine it wasn't any one of those reasons you listed?"
    The argument

    you cite is one half of a debate that has been running for two or three years that I know of. I have followed up

    innumerable links and references from each of them. The biology crowd makes one set of arguments, the psych crowd

    makes another set of arguments. After hours of reading both I have yet to read, see or hear anything that is

    conclusive enough to accept such a sweeping statement as yours. The only expert source you have mentioned so far has

    been your personal experience and that is exceedingly weak from anybody. So, I ask you again, other than your

    opinion, do you have references or other sources you can cite or is that your opinion only? Are you a layman or are

    you a professional in one of the fields these two gentlemen are discussing?

    No, you probably don't consider

    your blah blah blah following your quote of DrSmellThis insulting. Maybe it wasn't, only rude. Why did you delete

    it? I don't honestly remember your other comment, the one I deleted but it was insulting or I wouldn't have

    deleted it.

    Just so you understand why I asked in the first place. Both JVKohl and DST are pros in their field.

    I don't honestly know Mr. Kohl's education but his writing is well recieved within his discipline and sometimes

    outside it. DST has a Ph.D in psychology and many years experience as a therapist and researcher. Both of them have

    earned respect and neither should be derided by childish pot shots like "Blah, blah, blah" especially by an

    amature.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis
    In his reply to

    DrSmellTHIS
    I understand you have a strong need to invalidate the man's work, but please at least stay on the

    same playing field?
    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis
    Some of these [JVK's] statements in the past have

    had dangerous implications for our understanding of people and the field of psychology, such as statements implying

    that psychologists often hurt children as a matter of course in their counseling.
    I don't recall

    saying psychologists often hurt children when I commented on the 9 y/o girl that was killed by psychologists who

    believed that "rebirthing therapy" would be beneficial--based upon psychobabble spouted by psychologist: Arthur

    Janov--whose book "The Biology of Love" I reviewed for the Journal of Sex Research. Here's the URL for the

    review.
    http://www.findarticles.com/p/articl...38/ai_84866962

    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis

    You'd hate to see people not get their troubled kids help because of a statement like that, especially when such a

    statement is spoken with an "air of authority." So as long as I'm here, I'm going to say something about these

    kinds of things; just like if I were a physician, I'd respond if someone said smoking was not hazardous to your

    health.
    What I hate to see is anyone else subjecting their child to a potentially deadly treatment

    proposed by some moronic psychologist who thinks he knows what ridiculous methods will help the child. That's why I

    wrote such a scathing book review. I am able to speak with authority because it was my standing in sexuality

    research that led to being asked to author a review of the book. Get it? Author/authority, not "air of

    authority."

    If you were a physician, you make obvious the fact that you would not respond as have other

    physicians (psychiatrists) who have banded together to expose "experts" like Arthur (I want my mommy!) Janov, author

    of "The Primal Scream" and 11 other books. At least two of his followers are now in prison. I can only hope that no

    other murderous treatments are required to sound the "wake-up" call for others.

    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis
    Since

    I'm the only psychologist around here, it unfortunately has fallen on me to protect readers from confusion about

    psychology.
    I agree that this is unfortunate. First, because you remain anonymous by using a moniker,

    so there is no way for most folks to determine whether you are qualified to offer your opinions. Second, you are

    confused.

    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis
    ... JVK typically becomes more arrogant in the face of any kind of negative

    feedback, constructive or otherwise.
    Actually, I simply try to respond appropriately to your ongoing

    escalation of issues that have no place on this Forum. The unconscious affect of pheromones on hormones influences

    sexual behavior. You constantly confuse the basis for the discussion of human pheromones with aspects of psychology

    that have minimal bearing on human sexuality.

    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis
    But you feel some responsibility to

    protect the integrity of your field as a professional,...
    You could better represent yourself as an

    anonymous person who may or may not be a professional in some area of

    expertise.

    JVK

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    The argument you cite

    is one half of a debate that has been running for two or three years that I know of. I have followed up innumerable

    links and references from each of them. The biology crowd makes one set of arguments, the psych crowd makes another

    set of arguments.
    Debate between whom? Nobody has been debating the issue except researchers, there is no

    "sides" either except in your imagination. The debates on these forums are loose, qualitative affairs, trying to

    establish consistency with certain products that contain compounds that have a potential positive social benefit.



    After hours of reading both I have yet to read, see or hear anything that is conclusive enough

    to accept such a sweeping statement as yours.
    If you truly did, then it would seem obvious which has been

    based on sound assumption, logic and increasingly evidence and which is not.

    The only expert

    source you have mentioned so far has been your personal experience and that is exceedingly weak from anybody. So, I

    ask you again, other than your opinion, do you have references or other sources you can cite or is that your opinion

    only? Are you a layman or are you a professional in one of the fields these two gentlemen are discussing?
    No, you

    probably don't consider your blah blah blah following your quote of DrSmellThis insulting. Maybe it wasn't, only

    rude.

    Just so you understand why I asked in the first place. Both JVKohl and DST are pros in their field.

    I don't honestly know Mr. Kohl's education but his writing is well recieved within his discipline and sometimes

    outside it. DST has a Ph.D in psychology and many years experience as a therapist and researcher. Both of them have

    earned respect and neither should be derided by childish pot shots like "Blah, blah, blah" especially by an

    amature.
    How do you know DST has a Ph.D? What accredited university did he publish his dissertation at?



    If I had a dollar for every crank Ph.D out there using their credentials to justify nonsense, I could probably

    buy a new workstation. I am not even an "amatuer" (odd choice of words), just someone with a high school level

    education who paid a bit more attention in class about the scientific method and can recognize the better of two

    arguments. But my comments here stem from personal observations and questions:

    - Instant attraction to

    strangers I did not find appealing, one of whom was a heavyset woman in an elevator, who was in a light sweat.

    Why?
    - I work around many attractive women yet some of them (who are athletic) seemingly repel me, wheres others

    don't. Again, I could clearly tell the source is olfaction. Why?
    - In all of these situations smell overrides

    other factors and triggers a sexual reponse distinct and more powerful than other stimuli.

    I should point

    out another female poster in this thread affirmed the same thing. The truth is we are still more like animals than

    we are aware. As for being rude to DST, it is quite rude making straw-man arguments and then goading someone else

    with endless rhetoric. To his credit, he has one of the most well thought-out and interesting products on this site,

    but his responses to Kohl are laughable, and at times appear as simple antagonization. My sincerest apologies if

    "Blah blah blah blah" caused any suffering, despite how apt it undoubtedly was. I'll end this post with a question

    though, if it hasn't been touched on. Could appearence simply function as a way to draw someone closer until they

    can get a whiff of you?
    Last edited by Sir Louis; 05-09-2005 at 06:57 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis
    If I had a

    dollar for every crank Ph.D out there using their credentials to justify nonsense... [I'm] just someone with a high

    school level education who paid a bit more attention in class about the scientific method and can recognize the

    better of two arguments. ... The truth is we are still more like animals than we are aware. As for being rude to

    DST, it is quite rude making straw-man arguments and then goading someone else with endless rhetoric. ... his

    responses to Kohl are laughable, and at times appear as simple antagonization.
    Well said, Sir Louis.

    I'm posting a few exerpts from this thread to demonstrate the

    antagonism.
    ---------------------------------------------------------
    jvkohl
    Once the conscious odor

    association is made there is no way to predict the response, since any response will be based upon thought

    processes. Unconscious affect is a more powerful influence on behavior than are thought processes.



    DrSmellThis:
    The body of research in psychology indicates quite the opposite is true… you should be much

    more careful before attempting sweeping generalizations about human psychology (unless identified as just opinions);

    and at least consult relevant research in the field.

    jvkohl: I don't need to consult it; I wrote it



    DrSmellThis
    JVK's pheromone paper... does not even remotely represent a kind of survey or review of that

    field.

    jvkohl … my 2001 Neuroendocrinology Letters "pheromone" paper is an invited review (of that field

    [pheromones]) and won an award for integrating neuroendocrinology and ethology.

    DrSmellThis
    Again, JVK's

    paper is a literature review about pheromones and their effect on hormones, not about the psychology of emotion and

    cognition. It may have won an award, but it was in a different field.


    ------------------------------------------------------------
    This discourse and the summary of my review by

    DrSmellThis clearly illustrates our differences. I post authoritative biologically based opinions, which he counters

    with comparatively anonymous and condescending rhetoric. In this manner, he has attempted to change the focus from

    pheromones and their unconscious affect on human sexual behavior to emotion and cognition using lengthy and vague

    ramblings about psychology.

    As Sir Louis noted early in this thread DrSmellThis appears to have a strong

    need to invalidate my work. Many other psychologists have entered earnest debates with me, without trying to

    belittle me or my work. The difference between DrSmellThis and others seems to be that he wants to establish himself

    as an authority on the topic of human pheromones. I have a limited amount of time for such foolishness, and have

    reached my limit, for now.

    JVK

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis
    Debate between

    whom? Nobody has been debating the issue except researchers, there is no "sides" either except in your imagination.

    The debates on these forums are loose, qualitative affairs, trying to establish consistency with certain products

    that contain compounds that have a potential positive social benefit.
    I refer to the ongoing argument

    between you and DST, I thought that was obvious.

    If you truly did, then it would seem obvious which has been

    based on sound assumption, logic and increasingly evidence and which is not.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis
    How do you know

    DST has a Ph.D? What accredited university did he publish his dissertation at?
    I happen to know who he is in

    the real world. Take my word or not, it doesn't matter.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis
    If I had a dollar for every crank Ph.D

    out there using their credentials to justify nonsense, I could probably buy a new DV workstation. I am not even an

    "amatuer" (odd choice of words), just someone with a high school level education who paid a bit more attention in

    class about the scientific method and can recognize the better of two arguments. But my comments here stem from

    personal observations and questions:

    - Instant attraction to strangers I did not find appealing, one of whom

    was a heavyset woman in an elevator, who was in a light sweat. Why?
    - I work around many attractive women yet some

    of them (who are athletic) seemingly repel me, wheres others don't. Again, I could clearly tell
    the source is

    olfaction. Why?
    - In all of these situations smell overrides other factors and triggers a sexual reponse distinct

    and more powerful than other stimuli.

    I should point out another female poster in this thread affirmed the same

    thing. The truth is we are still more like animals than we are aware. As for being rude to DST, it is quite rude

    making straw-man arguments and then goading someone else with endless rhetoric. To his credit, he has one of the

    most well thought-out and interesting products on this site, but his responses to Kohl are laughable, and at times

    appear as simple antagonization. My sincerest apologies if "Blah blah blah blah" caused any suffering, despite how

    apt it undoubtedly was. I'll end this post with a question though, if it hasn't been touched on. Could appearence

    simply function as a way to draw someone closer until they can get a whiff of you?
    You can judge the merits

    of their debate based on your high school education as oppossed to having researched both subjects? My biggest issue

    with both their arguments is they are seemingly unwilling to bend an inch either way. I do not doubt the instant

    attraction and have made comments on the forum several times about it but I do doubt it controls our actions to the

    degree sugggested.

    Of course appearance could do that. You mention the one woman, why do you also ignore the

    other who met her husband over the internet? Haven't seen a scratch and sniff web site yet, have you? I'll have to

    ask her to be more specific but I believe my girlfriend had already decided about me before getting close to me.

    There is a huge body of information out there and many crackpots, both with and without Ph.D's. Personally Mr.

    Kohls' product has done very little for me despite having used two bottles of it in careful tests. It works for

    many others, though. Go out and do some studying, then come back with some real arguments rather than hyperbole and

    uneducated judgments.

    As for the rest, both get pretty silly with their arguments and personal attacks. I've

    had to edit or move several threads because they went so far afield. It does not give you any reason to start with

    the same thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    ... I do not

    doubt the instant attraction and have made comments on the forum several times about it but I do doubt it controls

    our actions to the degree sugggested...

    Of course appearance could do that. You mention the one woman, why

    do you also ignore the other who met her husband over the internet?
    I hope you don't mind me

    stepping in here:

    I've commented before on love at first sight versus growing affection in the absence of

    visual input. What some people still fail to realize is that pheromones elicit unconsious affect and cause hormonal

    changes from the day we are born. These changes rewire the brain throughout life. Before puberty our sexual response

    cycle has been conditioned by olfactory input; we have unknowingly developed preferences for characteristics that we

    find appealing based on experiences with the natural body odor of other people (again, from the day we are born).

    The example I continue to use is a comparison with the development of food preferences, based upon the chemical

    appeal of the food (not the visual appeal).

    I don't know why people find it so hard to make the connection

    to olfactory conditioning of hormones involved in mate choice, when there is so much evidence that says olfactory

    input conditions what we find visual appealing both in food and in mate choice. In human studies, this has been

    shown to occur for genetically determined characteristics associated with tissue type. People choose for olfactory

    indicators of tissue type; those that bloodhounds sniff out when trained for tracking scent signatures. We cannot

    discriminate among these differences using visual input; only olfactory input, which means our choices for these

    genetically determined characteristics are not based on visual input.

    Of course, we can consciously over-ride

    unconscious affect. But we do so at risk of making choices that make happiness in a relationship very difficult to

    achieve.

    Finally, the difference between food preferences and mate preferences is that mate preferences are

    usually different in males and females. You cannot, biologically, get to a sex difference in choice without first

    having a sex difference in the processing of input, and a sex difference in the result of the processing (e.g.,

    hormonal change.) That's why mammalian mate choice, including human mate choice, cannot biologically be based on

    visual input. If there is a sex difference in the way males and females process visual input from the social

    environment, no one has found it. If this difference is ever found, it must also be directly linked to sex

    differences in hormonal changes before linking the difference, biologically, to behavior. On the other hand,

    psychologically, you can link just about anything to anything.

    JVK

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    Thanks, I appreciate the

    feedback. The only point I will dispute, mostly because of my lack of training in either field, is the implied value

    of psycology in understanding why humans make the choices they make. Completely eliminating observations made under

    stringent testing protocols because they conflict with another discipline or belief is bad science.

    In the

    several years I've been reading your work I have learned many things either from you or the resources you quote and

    will probably learn quite a bit more. At the same time, I have learned as much from the sources and arguments from

    DST. You've both been a great benefit to me. My point here is in keeping an open mind, our knowledge is not so

    great as to be able to eliminate other possible sources of information. Nor does it give me the right to ridicule

    either of you or your professional fields, you have both worked hard for your professional standing. The thing I

    most hate about the discussions between you two is how they always digress into stupid personal insults towards each

    other.

    I hope to see many more interesting, informative and constructive discussions from both you and DST but

    do hope they can be kept more professional.
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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    I refer to

    the ongoing argument between you and DST, I thought that was obvious.
    DST "argues" with Kohl. Actually it

    looks more like a Chiuwawa nipping at someone else's ankles, but you are an admin, and I really need to watch what

    I write, don't I?

    I happen to know who he is in the real world. Take my word or not, it

    doesn't matter.
    Somehow I guessed you were friends early on. Must be a non-reducible clairvoyant impression

    I had. Free will and all that.

    Oh, I'm really a neurologist and a biochemist by the way. I was

    kidding about the high school education bit. I'm also a member of the Knights Templar, look at my username. But

    seriously, I'll let someone else question DST about the validity of the credentials he claims, (preferably

    everytime he starts humping a real sex researcher's leg, who does have credentials, published research, and bothers

    to sign his own bloody name to boot).

    My biggest issue with both their arguments is

    they are seemingly unwilling to bend an inch either way.
    Your biggest issue is you think DST represents

    the opinion of actual psychologists.
    You are unwilling to accept DST is talking nonsense because you are

    friends with him. The odd fact alone he chooses to remain anonymous should bring into question if he is a

    legitimate psychologist.

    So I ask again, what university did he graduate from? What was his

    dissertation? Still curious.

    Of course appearance could do that. You mention the one

    woman, why do you also ignore the other who met her husband over the internet?
    Because that has nothing to

    do with the cause of purely sexual attraction among strangers in our daily lives. The way someone looks or acts

    assumes reproductive fitness. I would guess this functions as a way to draw them closer.



    Personally Mr. Kohls' product has done very little for me despite having used two bottles of it in

    careful tests.
    I haven't noticed anything spectacular using it either. I do notice that it does make

    people friendlier in a way that cologne doesn't, which is crucial in business dealings, and justifies the cost.



    It works for many others, though. Go out and do some studying, then come back with some

    real arguments rather than hyperbole and uneducated judgments.
    Kohl is the only one here making supportable

    or rational arguments, period. I was just trying to make it clear as opposed to DST's rubbish, smell being primary

    is observable in some situations in our daily lives, if we bother to look. As for education, you continue to not

    realize this research falls with sociobiology, not psychology. Who do you think is more likely to understand the

    question, a biologist, or Dr.Phil?

    You idiotically assign a "side" to this as if it was a religious

    debate, and pretend DST is a psychologist (he could be), and represents the study of psychology. The truth is he is

    arguing for the sake of arguing, and writing a mountain of rhetorical declarations, signifying nothing. A proper

    debate between professionals doesn't look like what DST writes. In reality, therapy techniques could stand to

    benefit in countless ways by understanding the sociobiological mechanisms behind human sexual behavior more clearly.

    I'm sure Freud would have agreed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir

    Louis
    DST "argues" with Kohl. Actually it appears more like a Chiuwawa nipping at someone else's ankles, but you

    are an admin, and I really need to watch what I write, don't I?


    I couldn't care

    less if you are rude to me. To put it bluntly, you aren't significant enough for me to care what you think of me.

    If you hope that your sarcasm is going to irritate me, you are going to have to try harder. Oh, the word is

    mod-er-at-or, like it says under my name on the left. For those with problems with big words mod will

    do.


    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis

    Somehow I guessed you were friends early on.

    Must be a non-reducible clairvoyant impression I had. Free will and all that.





    For one so (allegedly) well educated you seem singularly weak in reading comprehension. I

    have not said either was wrong or right and have no intention of doing so. As I have said, I don't have the

    education in either area to make those judgments. It is also not my place to make those

    judgments.


    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis

    Oh, I'm really a neurologist and a

    biochemist by the way. I was kidding about the high school education bit. I'm also a member of the Knights Templar,

    look at my username. But seriously, I'll let someone else question DST about the validity of the credentials he

    claims, (preferably every time he starts humping a real sex researcher's leg, who does have credentials, published

    research, and bothers to sign his own bloody name to boot).





    Congratulations on your education, if it's true, in any case. (Not an accusation just

    applying your own standards.) I’m proud of you. Now give yourself a nice pat on the head. Yes, as a matter of fact,

    I am being sarcastic. How perceptive of you to notice. It’s called responding in kind, do you need that

    defined?




    How does your education qualify you to judge the merits

    of psychology? I do not recall that he ever claimed to be a sex researcher but I may have missed that. Could you let

    me know where you saw it?




    Why should he give his real name in a

    forum where the convention is to use a handle? Does he not have the same right and expectation of privacy as any of

    the rest of us? I don’t see you attacking any other poster, some of whom have made some pretty outrageous claims,

    for concealing their identity. Do you have some type of problem with his field that you must try to denigrate

    professionals in that field in order to bolster your own ego? Have you bothered to read his body of work on the

    forum or follow up the references he provides supporting his opinion? Or are you making your decisions based on a

    single debate and your own personal bias?




    It is awfully generous

    of you to allow somebody else the privilege of making their own decisions. Not especially surprising that you came

    to those conclusions in view of the discipline you claim. I've known few biologists who accept psychology; really a

    rather common case of tunnel vision. Your attitude is pretty classic.


    Quote Originally Posted by Sir

    Louis

    You are unwilling to accept DST is talking nonsense because you are friends with him.

    The odd fact alone he chooses to remain anonymous should bring into question if he is a legitimate

    psychologist.






    So I ask again, what

    university did he graduate from? What was his dissertation? Still curious.





    Bluntly put pure crap and hyperbole in a vain effort to reinforce your point of view

    through misdirection. Sad that one of your (claimed) education resorts to such things. A long time before we became

    friends and even before I joined this forum I learned to pay careful attention to both sides of any debate and

    suspend judgment. You are free and welcome to question his credentials but your suspicious and narrow minded

    attitude makes me wonder about your own educational claims. Just for fun, try doing a search and see how many times

    I have argued with DST.


    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis

    Because that has nothing

    to do with the cause of purely sexual attraction among strangers in our daily lives. The way someone looks or acts

    assumes reproductive fitness. I would guess this functions as a way to draw them closer.






    I haven't noticed anything spectacular using it either. I do notice that it does make

    people friendlier in a way that cologne doesn't, which is crucial in business dealings, and justifies the cost.



    True enough if it really works for you. Since your observations are purely

    subjective and as a (alleged) scientist you surely understand the flaws there, I rather think it best to consider

    your comments in that light.


    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis

    Kohl is the only

    one here making supportable or rational arguments, period. I was just trying to make it clear as opposed to DST's

    rubbish, smell being primary is observable in some situations in our daily lives, if we bother to look. As for

    education, you continue to not realize this research falls with sociobiology, not psychology. Who do you think is

    more likely to understand the question, a biologist, or Dr.Phil?





    I refer you back to my questions and comments above.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sir

    Louis

    You idiotically assign a "side" to this as if it was a religious debate, and pretend

    DST is a psychologist (he could be), and represents the study of psychology. The truth is he is arguing for the sake

    of arguing, and writing a mountain of rhetorical declarations, signifying nothing. A proper debate between

    professionals doesn't look like what DST writes. In reality, therapy techniques could stand to benefit in countless

    ways by understanding the sociobiological mechanisms behind human sexual behavior more clearly. I'm sure Freud

    would have agreed.


    Name calling now? I’m so disappointed in you. Do I need to define

    debate for you or do you have a dictionary? Do you mind if I ask you a question in the sincere hope that you answer

    it? How do you feel about a person who uses factual misrepresentation to support their side of a discussion? If I

    could demonstrate several cases of it, how would that affect your point of view?




    I do not claim expertise in any of the matters those two debate and I don’t in any

    way misrepresent my knowledge or the facts, something I have seen a lot of in this thread. Then you have the

    temerity to act as if I do not believe DST credentials. I’ve noticed that dishonest people also do that a lot, try

    to drag others down to their level. All I am saying is that your sarcasm from the very start has been unwarranted

    and inappropriate. The scientific professionals I know and have known throughout my life would not resort to such

    tactics. If science has declined so from the days of my involvement in it, I am deeply saddened.
    To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.

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    Doc Mobley, Phd. here,

    just wanted to say, "Doc, JVK, Sir L, Bel ... I appreciate all you guys and your disagreements.

    Would

    love to give all you guys a hug!

    Stay the course!
    Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!

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    All I am saying is that

    your sarcasm from the very start has been unwarranted and inappropriate. The scientific professionals I know and

    have known throughout my life would not resort to such tactics. If science has declined so from the days of my

    involvement in it, I am deeply saddened.
    But I'm not a scientist, I'm a knight.



    Why should he give his real name in a forum where the convention is to use a handle? Does he not have the

    same right and expectation of privacy as any of the rest of us? I don’t see you attacking any other

    poster...
    He claims to be a psychologist. I have a suspicion that he isn't because he demonstrates a

    cosmic lack of professionalism:

    A) He uses an anonymous handle yet claims to be a legitimate Ph.D.



    B) He antagonizes and makes baseless assertions.

    C) He attempts to invalidate a legitimate

    researcher's work in a seperate discipline using concepts that don't apply and no explanation whatsoever.



    No, I don't believe he is a legitimate psychologist. Where is his dissertation

    published? It's a simple question.

    Still curious.

    Admin...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Louis



    He claims to be a psychologist. I have a suspician that he isn't because he demonstrates a cosmic lack of

    professionalism:

    A) He uses an anonymous handle yet claims to be a legitimate Ph.D.

    B) He antagonizes and

    makes baseless assertions.

    C) He attempts to invalidate a legitimate researcher's work in a seperate

    discipline
    using concepts that don't apply and no explanation whatsoever.

    No, I don't

    believe he is a legitimate psychologist. Where is his dissertation published? It's a simple question.



    Still curious.

    Admin...
    Your educational claims imply that you

    are also a scientist or do I misunderstand?

    I honestly do not have the right to answer where his desertation

    was published. He, like you, me and every other person on this forum, has a reasonable right and expectation of

    privacy. Ethically, I do not even believe I have the right to ask any personal information like that. You'll notice

    I asked for credentials, not when or where you achieved them or even what part of the world you live in. Please

    understand that is the way it has to be on a forum such as this. You can believe what you wish, I cannot change that

    and don't care to try but please show me some respect by not inferring I am a liar.

    I do not wish to start

    another debate with you or anybody else. However, I am going to point out that neither of them has been above

    reproach in how they handled this debate or a large number of others in the past. I've been watching them for a

    while now and have seen many things I wouldn't do myself.

    Mod...I don't have admin rights.
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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    I honestly do

    not have the right to answer where his desertation was published. He, like you, me and every other person on this

    forum, has a reasonable right and expectation of privacy.
    And you, me and every other person on this forum

    has a right to question a claim.

    At least I hope.

    Ethically, I do not even believe I

    have the right to ask any personal information like that.
    Where a dissertation is published isn't personal

    information, it can be publically searched and obtained, and is absolutely appropriate to ask, especially in

    internet forums, which are by nature, anonymous. My "qualifications" aren't in question because I am not claiming

    to be a psychologist, or a research scientist for that matter, or trying to invalidate or criticise work

    published
    by a psychologist or research scientist. DST routinely does, with apparently no understanding that

    sociobiology and psychology are closely linked disciplines that complement each other. If you notice, I did

    not respond to either DST or Kohl's posts adding to or refuting anything specific.

    I don't believe you

    are a liar at all. I do believe you are good friends with him though, which is why you're falling over

    yourself trying to give him the benefit of the doubt and rationalizing his behavior to an embarassing degree. I

    apologise if I was rude, but there is a principle involved here.

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    I give everybody the benefit of

    the doubt, including you and JVKohl. There would have been no problem between us if you had been civil in the first

    place.

    DST's desertation is private as far as this forum is concerned because handles were created to assure

    the ability to remain anonymous if one so chooses. Telling you where to find his desertation would also reveal his

    full name, wouldn't it? I will not violate that expectation of privacy to satisfy your whim. If DST chooses to do

    so that his decision exclusively. There are principles involved in what I do as well and I am not going to

    compromise them for you or anybody else.

    Possibly you did not understand my reference to your credentials. It

    was a convienant example, no more. Your credentials are only of minor importance in determining how to take your

    remarks. Now that I know a little about them, I would have expected a more professional approach from you.

    You

    can believe what you like about my reasons for my actions, what you believe is not important to me. I understand the

    reasons for my actions and that's all that really matters, not yours or anybody else's opinion. Since you don't

    know me I can only think that you are doing the same as any other human and making assumptions based on the way you

    think. That's normal but can lead to gross underestimations also.

    Friends? Yes. Good friends? If you say so, it

    depends on your definition. Those who know me know they can count on me to be fair and try to help anybody who asks.

    I have several friends on this forum and I have banned a few of them. I make every effort to disassociate my

    personal friendships from my decisions as a moderator. It may not be much fun for me sometimes but it is what I

    agreed to do when I signed on.

    Shall we agree to disagree?
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    Shall we agree to

    disagree?
    No problem, thread closed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    Completely

    eliminating observations made under stringent testing protocols because they conflict with another discipline or

    belief is bad science.
    Agreed. It is also bad science to favor observations (e.g., what we think we

    know) over biological facts (what we know).

    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    ... you have both worked hard for your

    professional standing.
    What professional standing does DrSmellThis have? How is it relevant to the

    Pheromone Forum?

    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    The thing I most hate about the discussions between you two is how they

    always digress into stupid personal insults towards each other.
    I dissagree. DrSmellThis typically

    just annoys me.

    Quote Originally Posted by belgareth
    I hope to see many more interesting, informative and constructive

    discussions from both you and DST but do hope they can be kept more professional.
    It is difficult to

    keep discussions more professional, when DST remains an anonymous "professional." He has frequently belittled my

    opinions and my published works, yet will not come forward with any information that allows comparison with the

    basis of his opinions/published works.

    JVK

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