Further, please know that, there is a specific reason most guys want to get laid, fast, beyond the
mere physical urge. It's a sad, and dreary place that we know as - "the friend zone". I'm not sure if there was
ever a Seinfeld episode on THAT, but I do know that every guy has experienced it. He's head over heels for a girl
that diplays all kinds of signs of interest, so, when he tries to escalate things to a more sexual level (which is a
normal and healthy thing to do in a romantic relationship, yes?), he here's those dreaded words - "let's just be
friends".
Right or wrong, it is a part of the modern dating ethos that - before you have sex, you're
"just friends". After that you're - something different. That could be any number of things, but at least there
are options - unlike the "friend zone" which, once entered into, there is no escape.
Silksand, guys have
figured out that "I really like you as a friend, I think you're a great friend", when coming from a woman they have
a romantic interest in, isn't a compliment.
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