Quote Originally Posted by silksand
Now, the

"friend" thing IS a compliment, but if you are looking for a lover, it's also a rejection of that quest. Just face

it. It's not because you're not doing the game right, you're just not doing it for her. She's not interested in

you, move on!! Becoming a player is not going to get you those girls. Sad but

true.
WRONG!!
Im the living example of the contradiction to that fact.
Not that I

would call me a player, but if you mean that altering your behavior and calibrating to a specific girl who just

wants to be friends and getting her to think otherwise of you then yes Im the living example of _that_. Its not

rocketscience but it does require effort and a will to learn and apply to real life circumstances.






This is going to really disappoint you, but no. There is only one story that even

approaches this topic: One time when I was a freshman in college, and this geeky redhaired guy, very smart, very

funny, I really liked him, asked me to go with him to a (free) movie. I was really happy, hoping to have a friend in

him. Then we went back to his room and he got me extremely high (I'd never smoked anything in my life before that)

and made some rather sudden moves. Much more than I had in my mind with him. I was not attracted to him and did not

see this as a "date." At that point, in my Thai stick haze, I made it clear that I was very interested in friendship

with him, but he apparently wasn't because I never heard from him again, and that's cool. He wanted a lover and I

wasn't it; c'est la vie.
Correction, he wanted _YOU_ as a lover, not just a lover.