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    Default Getting Numbers Made Easy

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    So you want

    to get that number without sounding too awkward or not getting shut down? Heres some ways that work best for me. I

    thought that I would post some ideas because a lot of my freinds have asked me lately, and i figured I would post

    something on it.


    When your ending the conversation and you think it went well.
    ME: Hey you seem like

    a cool girl, we should hang out sometime?
    HER: Yeah we should!
    ME: Whats your number.


    ME: Well I gotta run,

    call me sometime.
    HER: How can I call you without your number?
    ME: Its #### whats yours?

    ME: Allright well I

    need to get going let me give you a call some other time.. whats your number?

    ME: Hey I dont think I have your

    number what is it?(works best with girls you already know)

    ME:*Look at your watch in the middle of the

    convo*
    Hey I really gotta go, but id like to finish this conversation later, whats your number?

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    or if youre really smooth,

    you wouldnt even have to ask, they just give it to you...or better yet, they write it on your hand...or even better

    yet! they tear off a sheet of paper write their number and cumble it and stuff it in your pants from the front in

    the crotch area! <==amen to that one!

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    hah yeah that can happen, but

    most girls that are semi hot at least arent gonna throw themselves at you like that. I personally would rather take

    things into my own hands and get it. Girls like when a man takes control.

    -Tdizz

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    The best way a girl gave me her

    nubmer was to come up and put it into my back pocket while I was talking with my mother and I didn't even

    agknowladge her. She just patted it on my ass and walked away. Never ended up calling her though, went for her email

    but she never responded and ended up losing her number. Ah well.

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    At the risk of sounding

    royally stupid...okay, so I'm admitting my stupidity here...

    Wow, those are really good. I smacked myself in

    the face while I was reading them because I use those all of the time with girls I don't like. I've never thought

    of actually using them on someone I actually do like. That reminds me of the "attractive girls make you stupid"

    thread...I think I've never used them because I thought they'd see right through me...but it's all a matter of

    perception. After all, I'm okay asking someone I'm not hitting on, but I would be nervous if it was someone I was

    interested in.

    Ishkabibbles!
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    Just dont be apologetic when

    asking.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pancho1188
    At the risk of

    sounding royally stupid...okay, so I'm admitting my stupidity here...

    Wow, those are really good. I smacked

    myself in the face while I was reading them because I use those all of the time with girls I don't like. I've

    never thought of actually using them on someone I actually do like. That reminds me of the "attractive girls make

    you stupid" thread...I think I've never used them because I thought they'd see right through me...but it's all a

    matter of perception. After all, I'm okay asking someone I'm not hitting on, but I would be nervous if it was

    someone I was interested in.

    Ishkabibles!

    That's right, I don't have any problems aksing a

    girl for a number if I'm not interested in that girl...

    But If she's my target...well

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    "Girls like when a man

    takes control."
    Sheesh my friend, you haven't been around the block very many times have you? Sure

    some women--especially traditional or really young ones--like a confident and, hopefully, competent man leading the

    way. On the other hand, just as many women like to be in control, especially as they get older and/or better

    educated. If you date women from certain ethnic groups, I won't mention their name but it starts with a C, you'll

    soon find yourself in a power struggle if you're a bossy type. Some women are smart and sneaky enough to make you

    think you're in control.
    "I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi

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    There are still others who want

    a partnership with nobody 'in charge'. To be successful with women you need to learn to be flexible in your

    approach. Especially, as Gegogi said, as you get older because you will meet more and more women who do not accept

    the traditional roles.
    To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pancho1188
    Ishkabibles!
    From Kay Kaiser's Kollege of Musical Knowledge?

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    Some enlightenment on the idea

    of power:



    http://pherolibrary.com/forum/showpost.php?p=

    142316&postcount=104


    It's not "take charge" or "take control" as much as it is showing ambition and

    initiative. One must not confuse power with power over others...one is attractive, the other is not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegogi
    If you date women

    from certain ethnic groups, I won't mention their name but it starts with a C
    Chinese?

    Cullahed?

    Certainly not Caucasian.
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    i say caribbean

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    Chickens?
    If a guy's a cocksucker in his life, when he dies, he don't become a saint. - Morris Levy, Hitmen

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegogi
    Sheesh my friend,

    you haven't been around the block very many times have you? Sure some women--especially traditional or really young

    ones--like a confident and, hopefully, competent man leading the way. On the other hand, just as many women like to

    be in control, especially as they get older and/or better educated. If you date women from certain ethnic groups, I

    won't mention their name but it starts with a C, you'll soon find yourself in a power struggle if you're a bossy

    type. Some women are smart and sneaky enough to make you think you're in control.

    A man who can

    lead is sexually attractive like it or not.
    Yes some women are control freaks, but if you can dominate them

    they'll be blown away. Im not saying that youre going to control EVERYTHING but you will not submit to her demands

    all the time and excuse yourself for doing wrong(by not submitting).

    Im not saying that you should be in

    control all the time, or trying to be, that reflects insecurity if anything(that you need control and that youre not

    in control ofyourself). BUT you shouldnt put up with any BS and take charge when youre clearly disrespected. An

    occasional foot down is usually enough. Go ahead, try it on these women. Be totally submissive, nice pleasant not

    trying to upset constantly adapting to her demands, requests , behavior(soon the magic words will come "youre a nice

    guy, but not my type, lets just be friends"). Then try to be totally dominating , controlling everything. Then try a

    wellmixed and timed balance. Which yields most positive reactions and effects for you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegogi
    Sheesh my friend,

    you haven't been around the block very many times have you? Sure some women--especially traditional or really young

    ones--like a confident and, hopefully, competent man leading the way. On the other hand, just as many women like to

    be in control, especially as they get older and/or better educated. If you date women from certain ethnic groups, I

    won't mention their name but it starts with a C, you'll soon find yourself in a power struggle if you're a bossy

    type. Some women are smart and sneaky enough to make you think you're in control.
    OK I'm sorry, any

    woman under 25 likes when a man takes control. They like alpha male qualities, not really bossiness wasnt what i was

    going for. But if taking control doesnt work for you im sure you get so many hoes with "hey what do you want to do

    tonight?" "I dont know what do you want to do" "I dont know you pick." that type of shlt just will turn the girl

    right around.

    -Tdizz

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    What ever happened to the good

    old days when all a man had to do was whop a woman over the head and drag her back to his cave?

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    I've heard somewhere that the idea

    is for the man to have a "plan" (which would be subject to modification), not "in control" (as in "controlling").

    Plus people are all different. I've found much in any relationship or encounter is based on "playing it by ear" and

    making it up as you go along. Some people are followers, some like to be partners, some like to lead. Found it true

    for both men and women (although I admit more men than women seem to be "leader" types, and more women than men tend

    to be "follower" types. But that could be just a combination of who I've dealt with and what I remember.)

    Also

    how you initiate a conversation or encounter can set the tone for whatever follows. If you come on as "controlling"

    and the other person doesn't like it, they are likely to be put on edge and respond negatively (Just see what

    happens on some of those "Cops" programs...). If you come on like a wuss, and they don't like it, same thing... I

    try to start sorta "neutral" and see how things flow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Holmes
    Chinese?

    Cullahed?

    Certainly not Caucasian.
    Maybe.... Cowgirl

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    A man who can lead is

    sexually attractive like it or not.
    Yes some women are control freaks, but if you can dominate them they'll be

    blown away. Im not saying that youre going to control EVERYTHING but you will not submit to her demands all the time

    and excuse yourself for doing wrong(by not submitting).
    Especially to gay men! Just kidding.



    I assume you didn't read my post very carefully. I strongly agreed that many women find men "leading" to be

    attractive. However, I also noted that I've known many women that like to be in control. Try to "break" them and

    you'll often emerge dickless. Personally I don't know why you'd want to waste your time. I didn't. Also, like

    Bergareth mentions, some women prefer an equal partership. That is my preference in a relationship. I find

    relationships most satisfying when both partners demonstrate equal ambition, initiative and responsibility.



    The only time I used to take a "leading" role is when I was a young 'n dumb. I'm a damn good actor and

    could dazzel her with bull and play her to the hilt. Of course this does not make for a full or lasting

    relationship, but works great for booty calls.

    C = Chinese women. They look harmless but look out.
    "I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi

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    **Finally agrees with

    Gegogi**

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegogi
    Especially to gay

    men! Just kidding.

    I assume you didn't read my post very carefully. I strongly agreed that many women find men

    "leading" to be attractive. However, I also noted that I've known many women that like to be in control. Try to

    "break" them and you'll often emerge dickless. Personally I don't know why you'd want to waste your time. I

    didn't. Also, like Bergareth mentions, some women prefer an equal partership. That is my preference in a

    relationship. I find relationships most satisfying when both partners demonstrate equal ambition, initiative and

    responsibility.

    The only time I used to take a "leading" role is when I was a young 'n dumb. I'm a damn good

    actor and could dazzel her with bull and play her to the hilt. Of course this does not make for a full or lasting

    relationship, but works great for booty calls.

    C = Chinese women. They look harmless but look out.
    I had

    a chem professor who was this lovely chinese lady. Wonderful to look at but don't ever cross her. She was called

    the dragon lady for a good reason, she could flay the skin off your back at 20 yards with under a dozen words.



    Even if you can't spell my name right I agree with you about relationships. A woman without a mind of her

    own and a will would drive me crazy, yuck! A woman who tried to dominate me (I dated one or two) ends up doing a lot

    of screaming while I impassively sit and watch her. A woman who wants to be half of the relationship is fun and

    exciting. The interaction is rewarding and stimulating.
    To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.

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    "Even if you can't spell

    my name right I agree with you about relationships.
    Well, I almost got it!

    Yeah, I was

    stripped naked, skinned and barbecued several times by seemingly demure Chinese girls. I met a former Chinese GF 10

    years after we broke up and she immediately insulted me, nearly making my blood boil again. I think she was ready to

    resume our last argument.
    Last edited by Gegogi; 03-31-2005 at 11:25 PM.
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    I guess part of the charm for

    them is to be able to 'change' you or 'control' the dominant male. Weird stuff.. But agreed that they DO want to

    feel like they have some space and control, thus you only need to put your foot down once in awhile(but absolutely

    NOT be the wuss that takes all their crap).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegogi
    Well, I almost got

    it!

    Yeah, I was stripped naked, skinned and barbecued several times by seemingly demure Chinese girls. I met

    a former Chinese GF 10 years after we broke up and she immediately insulted me, nearly mading my blood boil again. I

    think she was ready to resume our last argument.
    Not to go completely off-topic here, but are you

    talking Chinese-Chinese or Chinese-American?

    Just wondering...
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    and if your really,

    REALLY, REALLY LUCKY, she will write it on the back of a Victoria's secret recipt!!!!
    that gets an extra

    5 points....

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    Quote Originally Posted by culturalblonde
    Maybe....

    Cowgirl


    OOOOOOHHHHHH!!!!! I love Cowgirl. It's an awesome position. And all the girlies

    like it too!!(with me anyway). I almost feel guilty posting here any more. With all the arguments about

    relationships and sex. Geez, it ain't that complicated. It's almost as easy as shooting fish in a barrel.

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    i like missionary

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    I prefer doggie and half

    cowgirl.

    In Hawaii many Chinese Americans females remain surprisingly tight with certain cultural customs,

    e.g., women rule their homes and businesses with an iron fist. Read Michener's novel "Hawaii" for a glimse into the

    stereotypical Chinese female. The character Nyuk Tsin is the protype of all Chinese American Dragon women. Although

    she appears to offer a nod to male supremcy, she actually controlled all her men with ruthless and calulated

    precision. There have been so many Chinese women in high government and business positions in our state the Dragon

    Lady stereotype has been perpetuated for generations. God help the man (or woman for that matter) unfortunate enough

    to butt heads with such a woman.
    "I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegogi
    I prefer doggie

    and half cowgirl.
    Ok, I'll bite... what is "half cowgirl"?

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