And thatsOriginally Posted by TRock
my point!
And thatsOriginally Posted by TRock
my point!
Why do women want what they can't have, and when they get it, they don't want it anymore?
i agree with you
guys
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Honda Mr50
Last edited by chicago; 04-08-2011 at 03:07 PM.
It's only a game if you make
it one.
The "game" you are referring to is the desperation of men trying to sleep with women who may or may not
want them, so the men have to play to win. Those with a little patience and natural charm could get women without
trying, or "playing".
The women I've slept with have all been people I've hit it off with and just felt the
connection. I didn't have to do a damn thing besides be myself and let the chemistry do the talking for me. If
that makes me a good player, then great...but I'll be the first but not the only person to admit that I don't play
the game and have no interest in it whatsoever. Love is supposed to be fun...not work. It sounds like people are
working too hard. If that's their choice, so be it.
You can only get played if you put yourself in the game.
You're under the assumption that everyone wants or chooses to play. You're not even in the right forum for that
argument, as so many people on here are out of the game and have been for years. Then you have guys like Bel who
get women and have never posted a thing regarding trying to pick anyone up. I'm not about to think what would
happen if I suggested that Wood Elf was played and Bel was the player.
i take it that you don't run in a
high status crowd or go clubbing.
If you go clubbing to pick up
chicks, then you are putting yourself in the game. With that pretense, of course your post is correct.
If by
"high status" (since you mention it like it's a requirement to be a player to be considered high status) you are
referring to having to keep up a player persona to remain in a social circle...no, I'm not.
What I call being
satisfied not trying to deceive people, you call being played. What you call high status, I call being fake or
conformist (after all, to qualify, you have to assimilate, or "play the part" just as you described having to play
the game).
So we can agree to disagree on this topic. I can live with that. I can't say you're wrong in your
belief that one must play in your situation, but I believe you're wrong in thinking that that's the only way to be
successful.
Rejected alternative response:
Hey, don't #&$% with me. I've been to a gay bar,
bitch!
Latex, latex, latex.
Otherwise, yeah.
If a guy's a cocksucker in his life, when he dies, he don't become a saint. - Morris Levy, Hitmen
Holmes' Theme Song
Thanks Pancho and you are
right. Neither of us or the people we run with would ever consider playing the absurd games we read about from some
of the forum members. It's true that we don't go clubbing but in reality that crowd is a very small and often
troublesome segment of any community.
Status and it's importance in your life is entirely subjective. In my
own completely subjective opinion, the successful business owners, civic leaders, educational and scientific
professionals we associate with are high enough status for us. They have the added benefit of rarely becoming drunk
and/or obnoxious. I can't really recall any of them wasting their time playing the kind of games described here.
Yet we all have relationships with others, many are very attractive and almost all with good minds that make them
interesting company outside the bedroom.
Pancho is also right that you can only get played if you place yourself
in the arena with people who play. I believe that players are not the majority of men or women. Rather, I believe
that most would much prefer an honest and sincere relationship.
I can tell you what would happen if I had tried
to play Wood Elf, she'd have laughed in my face! I never would have stood the slightest chance of getting to know
and having a relationship with a fantastic woman.
You are free to choose the type world you live in but you
should have enough of an open mind to realize there is a lot more to this world than that tiny portion you live
in.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
Thomas Jefferson
I forgot to mention that what
really pisses me off about "The Game"...
...his beef with 50 Cent.
They should
barbeque each other.
If a guy's a cocksucker in his life, when he dies, he don't become a saint. - Morris Levy, Hitmen
Holmes' Theme Song
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