Originally Posted by
tim929
Here is a thought
for you...In 1990-91 when the build up of troops was beginning in the Persian Gulf for the impending invasion of
Iraq,I watched video from the tarmac of a U.S. Airforce base of a group of Army Rangers boarding a cargo aircraft
bound for the Gulf.All the wives and mothers and fathers and children were there to see thier soldiers off...maybe
for the last time.The fairwells were polite,friendly,stoic and generaly unemotional.
Same day...on CNN was a video
of Italian paratroopers boarding a cargo aircraft bound also for the Gulf.These are,in all honesty...men of equal
metal and millitary prowess of the U.S. troops seen earlier.They are tough,diciplined and rugged individuals trained
to jump from aircraft into combat without a second thought for thier own safety.These brave men of honor and
dicipline had no problem weeping and crying openly...embracing thier mothers and fathers crying on thier
shoulders.The fairwells continued in this manner and some of the troops even broke ranks to run back to thier
mothers and give them one last hug befor going off to war.The difference was stunning.It became very clear to me
that here in the U.S.,people have a very different view of family and the connection that family should have.Sons
here are expected to be independant and solitary.Hunters,protectors,providers.And somehow,the idea of living at home
is seen as contrary to that goal.However,in my oppinion...that go-it-alone attitude robs us of a very important
connection to our family and ourselves.Our ego steals our sense of connection to the ones that realy are the most
important people in our lives.And it shouldnt be a problem for anyone to understand and respect that connection that
we have to our families...the same connection that they should have.As someone whos parents died when I was still a
very young man,I can tell you that the lack of connection to family realy isnt a sign of strength...
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