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    is there a way to be

    overqualified to a girl through mones, body language, looks, inner game, dress good? i get a good amount of IOI's

    (indicators of interest) a day but the % doesn't match up with my social cirlce %. social circle is 50+% while with

    the girls that i pass by throughout the day, i avg about 5 girls. this doesn't account for the fact that i'm not

    attentive sometimes. but the numbers still don't extrapolate from social circle success. also i never get girls

    approaching me, while my friend who's basically a carbon copy of me but not in the "community" says he gets

    approached all time. we're on the up and up with each other so i don't think he's lying. i know i'm supposed to

    do approaching but it's an ego competition between us.

    what i'm saying is i know they are attracted but do

    they throw the white flag by not sending IOI's because of my perceived value. i know it's not in my head because

    through highschool i always had the hottest chicks and in social circles the hottest chick are attracted to me.

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    There is a myth in our culture

    that that a woman precieved to have a lower "value" than another male is not allowed to be with him and the other

    way around (girl very pretty and high status). Wich is a load of nonsense , but never the less it exists, so this

    could deffinetly be true for you TRock. Just think of when go saw godgess girl with a short fat man who didn´t seem

    particulary rich. You always automaticly think..what does a woman like this want with a guy like that? he must have

    loads of money otherwise she wouldn´t be with him, because she is a godess and he a little gnome.
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    "is there a way to be

    overqualified to a girl through mones, body language, looks, inner game, dress good?"
    Just because

    you believe you're the cat's meow doesn't mean every woman sees you in the same light. That is, the ideals of

    manhood and what constitute attraction vary from woman to woman. Moreover, it's very easy to look so

    "overqualified" you appear to be full of yourself.

    When the desired one is desired by everyone, they become

    very high maintenance. Nobody wants to watch their back and put up with constant competition. In high school it's

    just a practice session so the pretty boy muscle stud reins supreme. As women get older they get inceasingly

    practical, thinking, "will this guy make it in a long term committment"? So, sure, many women consciously shy away

    from a guy known to be a player, just like guys avoid women of the same attributes. I can speak from experience as

    some women whom were attracted initially to me quickly bailed. Later they told me they bailed because they thought I

    was too smooth and perfect, and figured I was a player. It's better to not put on too many airs and act natural.

    People will eventually see through the best rehearsed best dog 'n pony show.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegogi
    That is, the

    ideals of manhood and what constitute attraction vary from woman to woman. Moreover, it's very easy to look

    so "overqualified" you appear to be full of yourself.

    I can speak from experience as some women whom were

    attracted initially to me quickly bailed. Later they told me they bailed because they thought I was too smooth

    and perfect
    , and figured I was a player. It's better to not put on too many airs and act natural. People

    will eventually see through the best rehearsed best dog 'n pony show
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    Those right there!



    People use to tell me alllllll the time, that they TH0UGHT I was full of myself/stuck up, before they got to know

    me. I never could figure out why, 'cause, to me, the only guys that can pull that off has to have that pretty model

    looking face, and that I do not have.

    As for the too smooth and too perfect ... I THINK that when a woman is

    not used to a man being a certain way, that happens. It's hard believing someone can be good when everyone else

    they've delt with turned out bad. I've had women ask me if I could be happy with just one woman, and they got

    upset and started acting crazy when they couldn't find out any different. They'd accuse me, and they'd make up

    stuff, but couldn't find ONE thing.

    You're never overqualified, my friend ... not even for a job ... no matter

    what they tell you!

    Don't let life and women confuse you, Dear Watson ... it's their way, and

    it's not personal.
    Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!

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    So what you're really asking is

    one can be Too Sexy??? Well the anwser is yes. Guys do it to women all the time so why cant it work the other

    way? Simply the difference between percieved low vs high self seteem/value.

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    My lord, that's it! You've

    just hit the nail on the head - that MUST be the problem I've been having all these years! I'm actually TOO

    sexy....

    "Daaaa da da dum. da dum. da dum. - CAN'T TOUCH THIS - daaa da da dum. da dum. da dum."

    etc......

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    I'm/Too Sexy for this morgue/Too

    Sexy for this basement

    Etc. etc.
    If a guy's a cocksucker in his life, when he dies, he don't become a saint. - Morris Levy, Hitmen

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