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Whatever. The
point is to compare and contrast pheromone seduction with other approaches.
First of all, many times you
don’t really have to “open” (especially in bars & clubs, where women tend to be a little bolder than everyday life).
You just have to dive in when an opening is created for you.
Even when you do have to get the ball rolling, you
don’t have to stress so much about “Do I flirt, or do I just act sociable.” Flirtatious comments will always be
perceived in the best light and sociable introductions will always contain a subtle sexual undertone.
You
don’t have to worry so much about where you stand on the social scale. You may look like a 5 but you draw as much
attention as a 10. So the game is more about learning how to play off of the attention than figuring out how to
appear special.
The article Mobley posted gave good advice about using social situations to boost your
social status.
With pheromones you can pull tricks that are pretty unlikely without. Imagine how impressive it
looks when a skinny little guy can get two big guys to move over for him. But we all know that this is no big deal
if the little guy is wearing adrostenone.
Standard techniques (like starting conversations and cracking jokes)
are much easier with pheromones. People tend to be more attentive (because you have a certain something that they
can’t put their finger on) and more likely to laugh (because there’s a sort of tension in the air).
Then
there’s the subliminal dimension. No need for NLP because women are already thinking about sex and are probably
trying to figure out why they’re attracted to you. Your only challenge is to give them a plausible reason.
Even
better, sometimes women will make up a plausible reason of their own, and you just have to play the role. If she
thinks you’re funny, just keep cracking jokes (they don’t even have to be that funny). If she thinks you’re friendly
and non-critical, you pat the asshole next to you on the back and take a good natured approach to his jealous
outburst.
Pheromones also give you a big advantage in the leadership competition. (We all know how
attractive that is.) Under normal situations, taking charge of a social situation can be quite challenging — even if
you’re a big, strong, quick witted guy. With pheromones its almost like stepping on stage and reciting your lines.
If you smell like the leader, and you act like the leader, and guys step out of your way or laugh at your stupid
jokes like your the leader... then, by god, you must BE the leader. Just play it for all it’s worth and there’s no
telling how far it’ll take you.
PS. If my hit stories test the bounds of your world view, try this little
“exercise”:
Step one: You know how little kids will grab another’s toy and say “Mine.”? Play this little head
game until it becomes easy:
Imagine that this is YOUR life, YOUR world, YOUR time. If you walk into a bar,
bookstore, or supermarket, it’s YOUR bar, bookstore, or supermarket. That’s YOUR bartender, YOUR clerk, YOUR
cashier. YOUR crowd. See a spot that you like? That’s YOUR spot. Notice a lull in the conversation? That’s YOUR cue
to get a conversation going. Notice a pretty girl across the way? That’s YOUR cue to smile.
Etc.
Step two:
Wear whatever clothes you feel most at ease in. Apply whatever pheromone you have the most experience with.
Step
three: Go to a bar or club where nobody knows you.
Step four: Apply the techniques discussed in my post (play
the whole crowd, not just some particular woman): a) dive in whenever there’s an opening (don’t hold back), b) score
as many social points as you can (don’t be shy, you’ll never have to face any of those people again), c) give women
a plausible reason to desire you, play up to their expectations (don’t worry about “being yourself” or “being
alpha”, just listen and take your cues), d) take charge (there has to be a leader, it might as well be you)
Step
five: Come back and write your own hit story.
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