Become a Sexwhisperer!

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That’s the

content of a short, but (in my opinion) very informative article that describes how to talk to a woman in a way that

breaks the ice and perhaps her heart.
With examples from world-famous literature it describes in three steps how

this could work. If you have the right pheromones for some extra help too, maybe that’s the key for a romantic

night… For all of you who can read a bit germen and are interested, that’s the link:

“Der Sexflüsterer: So

reden Sie sie zum

Orgasmus“:
http://www.gmx.net/de/themen/lifesty...3041s9ile.html

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It may be important to know girls body-language-signals. But I find it much more important to be sure of your

self and know how to talk to them. Don’t always look testing to her; be sure of yourself! Heinrich Böll once said,

“You have to go too far, to know, how far you can go”.
As this is also my problem, that I’m simply to shy,

that’s why I find the article fascinating. It gives a short and easy to follow schedule. Well, life isn’t as simple

that you can handle it with a schedule, but it may give you some help to get in the right direction.

For

those of you who are interested I tried to sum up the germen article in English and hope you can understand this, as

my English is not very good (sorry!):

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I. Tickle her with words

“Questions are

never indiscreet, answers sometimes are” (Oscar Wilde)

1. Usual small talk:

Start a

conversation like you are used to (what do you do, whom do you know here…) and show some interest in what she

says.

2. Add the FEEL-FACTOR:

Required topics are: sexuality, body, attraction, attractiveness and

arousal.
But don’t blurt it out…

2A) Talk about others
It could be on the basis of a sex-scene from a

new movie (“it's great played, isn’t it?) or a TV-Series like ‘Sex and the City’ and the picture of women

it presents. It may also be about a new sex-shop for women that opened somewhere…
But even better is to gossip

about other people that are at your place. It’s not very nice, but girls love it. Talk about what you see – small

nastiness tickles. And laughing about others builds things in common: For example “Look, Lutz is looking at Sarah’s

breasts. What do you think about her low décolletage?”
--->and now comes the coup: turn the conversation in the

right direction: positive and personal! --->

2B) More about her
What does she like? (“Do you like this by

a man?”)
What makes the Sex-Appeal of a woman for her?
Let her talk about herself: her attraction, her

failings. Let yourself be convinced from her and contradict her (“no, your bum is not too big”). If she asks you

about your taste of women, be careful: She relates what you say to herself.

2C) Spice it with romance
In

order to change a topic or relax the conversation, use some romance (big cinema).
You may say things that include

words like “mankind”, “the life”, “finiteness” or “love”. Example: “You can feel really strange when you stand there

and look up to the stars”. Or you present something from a famous poet and say “I think a lot about those things”.


She may think you are a profound person, someone she can go with – but more about this later.


II.

Convince her with words

1. Stimulate her love of adventure:

The conversation should drive away

the presexual inhibition, she may have. Ask for a situation where she was brave enough to do something (test of

courage, bungee-jumping, forbidden fruits). Or ask during your conversation questions about something she did, you

are thinking it was exciting for her (e.g. she sings in a choir - ask about her first moments on stage…).
To

remember and tell the exciting moments brings up her love for adventure.
Yes, that’s the kind of person she is!

Why not also tonight?

2. Ask the FINAL QUESTION:

Remember, you want to reach the goal that she comes

with you! Now is the time for asking:
Ask full risk and no modesty. Even if she hesitates, say with confidence:

Come with me. Asking the direct way is the best thing to have success, it shows how deep your desire is for her. And

DON’T beg her or ask defensively, this will provoke a negative reaction.



III. Arouse her with

words

"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who
looks for it below

there is wasting his time!" (Isabel Allende).
The following is, when the situation is getting really hot and you

are near intimacy:

1. One – Word – Strategy:

The simplest text in the world: the name of the girl.

Say it – again and again! (E.g. soft in her ear, full of love in her face, with admiration to her

breasts…).

2. Two – Word – Strategy:

Say her name together with a remarkable part of her body, many

times.

3. Talk Dirty:

Use bad language not before the situation is fairly hot. Then these

expressions help us coming together more close and accelerate the self dissolution we want in these moments. I

think, it’s better not to give examples here as you in the US are more sensitive to this as we here in Europe are.



4. Commentator of lust:

It’s more exciting if you describe what you are doing – it increases it.

Be your own commentator (like a football-commentator) and say what you see while loving her. This gets her really

hot!


-->Now it’s enough. No time for reading anymore. You have to go now: Meet a girl. To talk with her

for a while…

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I would be happy if this simply could help someone a bit. Maybe you have time

and the mood to tell me how you think about it and how the “sexwhisper-thing” could be improved… What

Pheromone-Combo may be the best for a sexwhisperer (I like the word )?