You are "alpha" if other people
hang around you and look to you for leadership. That doesn't have to be a 24/7 thing. For example, if you are
president of the cookie-cutter club, and 15 people come there every week to hang on your every word about how to cut
cookies out of premixed dough, you are the alpha in that group. Even if the football team uses you for goal-kicking
practice twice a week.
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