I'd go for a soe and ae mix
Hi people !
I would appreciate it if someone could help me with that:
My fiancee (7.5
years together) decided to move for a month or more abroad to think..
We are well tuned but hyper and
hysterical sometimes together
She is Aries and i am Gemini
Im 30 and she is 26
I was thinking
of making a mix with the ingredients i have so that at our last kiss in the airport she will be thinking of the
return already.
I have SOE in roller and gel packs
Primal instinct
and
Alter
Ego
When i was wearing SOE she would immediatelly come and smell my neck in the street and ask me what
perfume i did put
I told her that it was one italian fragnance perfume i got as a sample from a store
...
So she was into it ,whilst with AE and PI i cant tell how she felt
So what do you
think :
1) i put nothing
2) i put SOE on hand and chest
3) i put soe on hand and chest ,and I drop 1
PI on my legs ???
4) i put AE 3-4 drops on my chest and SOE to my legs ??
I have seen the leg think
work during the summer in swimming pools
Thanks very much for your
attention
Langa
I'd go for a soe and ae mix
Horoscopes and pheromones have
nothing to do with your problem.
Why are on Earth have you been engaged for 7-1/2 years? Think about it. You
asked her to marry you and nothing has happened for 7-1/2 years. Regardless of what she has done or suggested in
the past, there was a promise of marriage, an acceptance, and she has been waiting for that to happen.
Actions
speak louder than words. Your actions screamed out, "I am NOT going to marry you no matter how long you wait" and
her actions have finally yelled back, "I am tired of waiting".
would go with soe and PI.
With soe you can not OD and AE has the two mones that AE already has minus none.
The only way you can overdose is
with none. I do nort know how to dose with none and how you react on this but since she likes soe - take it.
According to that I would add maybe one dab of PI (or spray - whatever). If she does not react that possitive on
that. Go to the toilett and add some more PI. Watch her reactions, try to make her laugh, try to toch her.
But
why on legs ??? That seems aq bit needless for me since you will probably wear trousers over it. Maybe some soe in
the face (nose, under your nose cheeks eyebrows) wouldn't be a bad idea. This way she will pay more attention to
your face, which will get in her mind. She will also smell the soe very intensive while kissing you, this
will make her remember the kiss very intensively.
Maybe she won't stop thinking about you while flying away and
maybe will make her think about her mistake leaving you, because still having the mones under her nose because of
the kiss and this would be your signature for her which will make her tink about you subconsciously.
This might be a wellOriginally Posted by Friendly1
suggesttion, but I think that marriage is not everything. In my opinion people can still live toegether no matter if
they marry. It is even better not to marry because after a marriage the desire seems to drop usually. That's maybe
because here in germany about 50% of all marriages lead into a divorce. That might have influenced my opinion. Nut
if you really love her tell her that and tell her sth. like that or better what you really feel. Geirl like that if
you can express your feelings.
Maybe she will understand this. Maybe not who knows.
If she is not
able to understand you or does not want to understand you maybe she is the wrong one for you.
But you have to
decide on your own.
best thing is not to put pressure on her because then
watch out
be well
p
First, you can OD on other
mones besides None! Second, this sounds like a really bad place to experiment. If you make a mistake on which mone
to wear you could repel rather than attract. You have no way of knowing which mone or combo is going to work for her
in particular.
Listen to Friendly, he knows what he is talking about. There is more here than simple attraction.
Look to the other issues.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
Thomas Jefferson
I hope that smack landedOriginally Posted by Friendly1
on his nugget. Tis the cardiac muscle that you need to be concerned with. If she has feelings for you, she'll be
thinking 'bout'cha, and will returned to ya.
If her feelings for you has weakened/died, does this sound
familiar? "Why ya cryin' gurl? What tis a beautiful gurl like you doing out here all alone? If you vere my
woman, I'd be making love to you con-stant-ly!" 7.5 years is definitely too long a wait for someone that's
suppose to be IN LOVE.
Vatever the case may be ... I wish you luck.
P.S. If SOE does
the trick, why mess with it? Annnd, in the past, males have been talking about JB1 causing their female mates to
have erotic dreams of them. ??
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
Many thanks to all of you that took the time to read and most importantly answer to my post
I
really appreciate it.
I needed some feedback on that.
I have been engaged for the last 3 years
.
Her dad forced us to get the rings...so....
I did it to pleasure him and her of course
I havent promised
marriage ,but im open till she gets on her own feet.
We are living seperately anyway.Never lived together for
more than 3 weeks.
Maybe thats what saved us from the marriage .Who knows
I love her deeply she
too,but she told me that she cant take it anymore loving me like a Mother!!! She is afraid of my well beeing ,and
stresses a lot.
So we are talking of a chemical reaction here .No ??
I would like her to
realise with this separation that she also needs to do some working on herself and see that im there as long as i
see from her part some progress in the mother goose trip is in with me.
Im not that adventurous .I just
go with buddies for some drinks once or twice per month
I havent fucked arounf for the last 4 years.
I
sterted flirting the last year though
Maybe she sensed it and tries desperatelly to cut it .
So the
idea of applying soe on my face is the one i will follow ,i think
Makes more sense!
She will carry it with
her
Thats something i never thought nor applied of course
I remember reading somewhere that
pheromones are coming out from where the moustache is
I have a beard hehehe
So i guess i have pheroes
stuck in there.
What do you think ??
Thanks again from all of you
Langa
Having been in a similar
situation, I know 'mones ain't gonna change anything that isn't already there. Think of it as a new hair doo or
new shirt. If those things will do ya, maybe a little NPA and SOE will help...
Last edited by Gegogi; 01-28-2005 at 02:19 PM.
"I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi
wouldn't use any mones
this is a girl you may want to spend a lifetime with, you need to know if she is attracted really or not, and
perhaps after 7.5 years your mones have changed. my wife says that she's attracted to my natural scent off and on
over the years (8)
i can understand why you'd want to use them, but it will only create a
dependency/insecurity.
better to figure out what you really want with her, tell her clearly, and set her free to
do what she really wants.
problem #1 I saw was that you haven't told her the truth about mones yet. i can see
testing it out innocently, but afterwards, at some point, you should have told her the truth that you were
experimenting and since she was already open to you, you didn't think you were doing anything wrong.
other
thing to consider is, does your body produce enough mones, i'm wondering if our generation or adult population, for
dietary reasons, as well as chemical contamination of our bodies (estrogens in water supply),
!@#$ up our mone production and create attraction problems in relationships
something as
simple as unnatural lighting can alter the sex of offspring in certain species, and has shown similar powers in
human beings and other animals, add fluorescent lighting, diet, soy, natural estrogens in environment, etc., and
maybe your own mones are part of the problem, but likely not all of it
need more info to help further, but i
would start with the truth, live it and tell it and see what it holds for you, it will protect you, if she isn't
the one, better to know now...
good luck
If she loves you like she's your mother than that's the whole problem rightOriginally Posted by Langa
there. I don't know if you meant this literally or not but if you did than I don't think you can repair this
relationship. I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
Right your issueOriginally Posted by Gegogi
rally seems more complex, mones could not be the only trick which you need.
but as mentioned if soe worked, go
with it and a little PI wouldn't hurt as well.
The problem might be that your relationship went that long,
and after a while relationships do lose some fire, the same usually happens after marriage. In my opinion the only
solution in both circumstances is to change some habbits to add some variety and some new "thrill" in the
relationship.Maybe the point was that the relationship went to monotonious after a while. How mentioned this also
could happen after a marriage or even get worse.
A new haircut might not be enough. Suprise her in some kind.
Mabe some
-just kidding- but maybe, who knows? Talk to her and ask her what she misses
or what she desires in the relationship.
You mentioned that you are not that adventurous and maybe that's the
point. Change that. Kiss her when she does not expect it. Or look her deeply in the eyes when she tellls you sth.
banal and interupt her after a while telling her: I love you. Maybe you took it as a matter of course that you love
her that you hadn't the need to tell it to her anymore or enough. Buy her some flowers from time to time (add some
mones to them), but do not OD it - lol - and not to often. Maybe she feels that you do not pay that much attention
to her anymore, she might fell unseen. !! Romance is the cue!!!
Show her that a relationship can also be great
without a marriage.
Maybe it is to late now and you will have to wait after she will return, but if she
really loves you she surely will.
And do not let it become that monotonious after a while thus you are thrown back
in the same situation again.
You could also buy her a teddy and give it to her right before she leaves. But do
not forget to put some soe signature on it.
On clothes and stuff like that the mones should stay for a longer
time.
it is simillar with body hair, the mones do last longer in hairy spots, thats why how you mentioned your
own mones are mostly dtached from hairy areas like the armpits. I do not know if it is the same with the beard area
but it is very possible, maybe someone else knows better.
Maybe she desires a bigger part in your life and
does not know if you really want her since you are affianced for that long.
You have to try to look on the
situation from the third view, maybe she has already send you some signals which you haven't noticed till now.
Think about what might have gone wrong - only you can point it out, we do not have that much information about your
relationship. Every relationship is unique and this litte facts can't help to really solve it. That's why people
have to go to a psyhologist for weeks to get into the reasons for an issue.
Men do very often not notice the
signs/signals which women send them and some women might not understand this, because they have a very different
psyhology. And vica versa, the men do not understand what the women really wants from them because they only see
everything from their own point of view.
It is up to you how this will go on . Talk to her or try to find
out on your own what the reason(s) is (are). I just pointed out some possibilities but they might be totaly not up
to the case.
The mones can only help but most posiibly won't be the solution.
The teddy might help a
bit because it is a present which she surely won't throw away and with the mones it could make the feelings joy
about getting a gift more intensive qnd make them last longer.
Another proposal:
If she leaves write her a
letter and express all your feelings if it to difficult to express them in a conversation.
And it is easier to
correct a letter than sth. that is already said.
You could send the letter to her after she has left or link it
to the teddy if you have enough time for it.
Maybe she will read this in the plain before it leaves, and will
leave the plain just before it starts.
OK - thaqt#s to much hollywood but who knows.
I would suggest only to
add soe to presents(letter), none could make them stink.
good luck
p
ishe loves you like a mother that mightOriginally Posted by
Langa
I love her deeply she too,but she told me that she cant take it anymore loving me like a
Mother!!! She is afraid of my well beeing ,and stresses a lot.
not mean that she doesn't love you enough but because mothers usually do love their sons a lot. But she surely
loves you in the wrong way. How mentioned you have to change some stuff - I know that you should stay "real" being
yourself, but if everyone would take it as it is almost every relation ship would get boring after a time. She
just made it a part of her everyday life to love you.
Maybe you have to point it out from the point of view how a
mother loves a son maybe this was a (the) sign!
A mother worries about her son because he does what he
want's and after a while begins not to listen to what a the mother wants to tell him because he thinks that he can
do it on it's own after a while.´A mother son relationship is usually strong in the beginning but drifts away after
a while because the son goes his own way. Thus the does make many mistakes and the mother wonders what she might
have done wrong. Maybe thats why she she needs time to think, she might be insecure about herself not knowing why
you do not read her signs or if you do not want to read them and thus do not pay enough attention to her.
You
can think about a mother son relationship on your own and surely point out many other things which might fit to your
situation. Women are much more complex thinking than men. and thats why that many relationships do not last long.
Once more - think about what she has exactly told you. Maybe there are more hints. But if it is the only one it
could be the point.
women usually do not say sth. without ulterior motives.
p
by the way mman thanks for the
clue i havent thought about that on my own.
Have missed that hint
Your relationship might really
have developed in the wrong direction but that needs not to be irreversible.
that could mean that she really developed to a knid of your mother , maybeshe is afraid of my well
beeing ,and stresses a lot.
because you are stressed and stress usually developes from feelings, which are not expressed thus could mean that
you do not talk about your feelings to her as a son usually does with his mother. You could become unreachable for
her because not talking to her anymore that much about everything.
Regarding to that this could mean that the
issue is not that you have not married her, because in a marriage this could develope more in this direction and she
isn't sure if she would like marry a man who does not tell her everything and eats the stress into himself instead
of letting it out. That causes a bad well being.
Maybe it is much ore complex , thats why women always need a
lot of time to think. Men usually realize that they have done sth. wrong after a short period and excuse without
knowing what they really excuse for.
This could might help you to write the letter if you will
decide to write one. She would love it if you would tell her that you deply thought about what she said and that you
have been blind.
If that is the point, believe me she will fall in love with you again and will love you in a
different way than a mom loves his son.
Maybe you just do not act enough as mature man to her. - to point out
another possibility
I do have so much thoughts in my mind and have to reorganize after having written sth.
mew, because while writting sth. new comes in my mind which i do forget afterwards. Thus is why iam adding more and
more interpretations.
I know english is my 3rd of four languages and it's is a bit difficult to keep sth.in mind
while trying to write sth. in a foreign language.
Maybe if you might find some more hints I could point it out
more exact.
I 'll stop now because ii have to prepare to go out now.
good luck you will surely find the
deal what went wrong - nothing happens without a reason, keep that in mind.
p
Most women morph into mother mode
during a long term relationship, especially if you don't have any kids. For me that means limp noodle and wandering
eyes. It's nearly impossible to change her once she does the mother thing. You have to catch it early on to put a
dent in it.
"I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi
are you loved the way you want
to be loved by her?
do you feel the way you want to feel in this relationship?
maybe it is good she's going
away...
give you perspective as well.
You guys
I cant't find the
words to thank you
I really didnt expect someone to answer to my post
I got different answers and
approaches to a situation which I feel by now that i will handle by ignoring her tottally hehehe
I called
her on the phone and started talking at her level
Told her that i wish i would have done this and that
That i
want her to stay .That I will change blah blah blah
I meant it
Then asked to see her(!!!!! )
tonight
She told me that she would call me after she had dinner.
She did and I said to her :
"I
feel lazy and i think i will got o bed"
She said :
"I will come over "
I said better
tomorrow.
She:"Well what time (with agony)
Iont know.Whever.
She: I have to know so that i can cancel my
meeting with my friend
I: Ohhhh (bored).Whenever.We will talk ok ?
She :Ok .We will talk
tomorrow.
What do you think i will do-say tomorrow:
Hehehehe
Guess what
:
She :Hi ....blah blah When shall we meet ?
I : Well babe(or honey) there is
nothing to say really.We will talk when you will get back sometime
Many kisses.Have a nice
flight-trip.
Bye
I think this is a killer combo
No mones (i amy send letter after she calls
more than 6-8 times and after having written 2-3 letters to me)
I think that my strategy is one hardcore one
?
If she comes back in less than 2 months (she told me that she would stay for 1.5 months yesterday,but today
told me that she could stay there forever !!!!(to scare me ???i dont think so !!) she will be renewed and we
will have a fresh begging with me on top (the boss that is!!!I m the male after all,and a major control freak.I will
give her the rush of her life by ignoring her and by making known to her environment that i fuck around like a
rabbit.
Viva los men
Thank you again all
I love you !!!!
Langa(not
real name of course)
Well, I don't see any point in
commenting further.
I wish the both of you well.
Everyone will be curious about how you do with the
pheromones.
That's very true, its happened to me twice.... both timesOriginally Posted by Gegogi
after 1.5 yrs. Strangely that's my time limit before they loose the passion..
Btw mones won't change her
decision. Space only works...
Mones did have some sort of adverse effect. When i tried it on my ex she kept
grabbing my arm for every word she spoke, it got to the poiint where i told her to stop touching me lol i was using
te, soe and chikara mix. All gel packs. At the moment she seemed interested in me with that mix but her decision was
already made..
Good luck man, better to not expect anything..........
if something works stick with it
most of the time. - even if women do take an interest after its broken off - mostly its just a short term
thing.
Come to think of it a lot of single women i interact with have short attention spans. ( could just be
the mones messing with their minds)
Thanks again
I will keep you
posted...
She said that she will be gone for 1.5 months
We will see
Maybe longer or
shorter
I was reffering to that article (separation and
biochemistry)
http://www.findarticles.com/p/articl...37/ai_n6332395
I
m on Zoloft(anti-depressant) and my levels are better than hers .Who will win is the question ?
Woman or man
??
Science or nature ?
She can fight the blues with chocolate of course ,but then again i could
add to my daily meals a small tablet of dark chocolate too !!
Plus i go to the gym and i have endorphines
running hehehe
Ill kick her butt
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