Swingers!!!Originally Posted by platinumfox
DCW
Swingers!!!Originally Posted by platinumfox
DCW
Pretty much like ... everytime I
walk outside, the sun gets on me.
You asked fer it ... you got it, Toyota!
Sorry, but hits
from people you don't want hits from, comes with the territory. You're just gonna have to fight off
, or run from , the coons til the foxes show up!
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
I find that older women (45
plus) seem to be even more reactive to my use of pheromones (perhaps the pheromone effect is further intensified by
my having no interest at all in them).
Older women are
usually much better in the sack than younger women. Many are also more open to causal or purely sexual
relationships. The difficult part is finding a hot 45 year old. There are some out there. The 30 something ones are
easier to find and usually know all the tricks. When I was a kid an older woman taught me well and I'm forever
grateful to her.
"I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi
Gegogi,
I agree that
relatively older women are, on average, better in bed than younger ones. But beyond a certain age, the better sexual
skills are offset by declining physical attractiveness. I have found that (on average!!) 25-35 is the best
trade-off.
One of the first times I used
Chikara, I was hanging out at a friend's place playing poker. There were two girls there, we'll call them 1 & 2.
Not exactly the most attractive girls, college age, short, dumpy and froggish; the other looks like an overstuffed
cartoon teddy bear. One of them ended up with her feet under my ass (to keep them warm, so she said) and the other
was sitting next to me on the couch. I made friendly small talk, like I normally do with most people, but was
conciously trying not to give off any signs of interest. I have a lot of female friends, and am, hence, a firm
believer in the female-esseque attitude of "just cause a guy talks to you doesn't mean he's
interested."
For the next week, I got a phone call each and every night around 2am from one or the other, and
sometimes, both, girls. I screened all my calls, but that didn't keep them from leaving long, sordid messages on my
phone. I don't mind these types of messages, just not from these two particular girls. One message was more or
less, "hey, we're drunk, and we wanna have a threesome. where the f* are you, what's wrong with you? don't you
know poissy's slapping you in the face! callll us.." seductive, no? they got the point after a week.
Via a mutual friend.
One
lesson I've learned about using mones, if you don't want someone calling you up left and right, more or less
stalking you, don't use pheromones around them.
I have had a unwanted hit at
Chik-a-fila (or somthing). Just smile and walk away.
But if It happened at a loose party...I dont know. I would
proberly go hang out with the guys and talk about men stuff.
"The whole world must learn of our peaceful ways, by force!"
WARNING: Remember
... UNWANTEES sometimes have very good looking friends, so smile, be nice, and then .... !
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
plantinum,
Unwanted
hits happened all the time. At my previous job I would get hits from this cute secretary who is married. From an
unattractive cafeteria worker and from older female executives. I also got wanted hits to so you have to take the
good with the bad.
I have to agree. I started getting better quality after I hit 30.Originally Posted by Gegogi
Women also reach
their sexual peak later than men.
No stone unturned for old DCW I'm flexible .
DCW
just be glad you're not a hot woman.Originally Posted by platinumfox
http://nypost.com/entertainment/36558.htm
Originally Posted by TRock
After reading that article, now I know why some of the young guys think the way they do about women
around here.
These poor skank, only get hit on by scuz and preditors. And a fake ring solves all their
problems.
Of course, a bud of mine, has found much success in the sack when he goes out with his phony
wedding band.
I agree, a
wedding band can really bring out the serious horndogs, i.e., women that only want a few rolls in the hay with no
commitment. If you're a love hungry single guy they're often afraid you might cramp their style.
But, yeah,
a woman with an engagement ring doesn't scare off most guys.
"I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi
your using mones to get a
reaction , and ugly people can get attracted to a mone user. ugly people usually have attractive friends , becuase
they make each other look better. say a woman is a 7 her friend is a 3.8 together the 7 looks like a 8.5 and the 3.8
looks like a 5.2 with her friend .
Oooh boy, you guys have NO
idea.
If unwanted come-ons freaked me out a lot, I would be hidding in my basement for the rest of my life. Or
at least until I'm old and wrinkly.
Once when I was 14, I was hit on by a guy that looked about 45-50. Now,
granted, I've always looked a little older, but there was no way you could mistake me for more than 18. But do you
know what's a better repellent than a fake ring? Your 45 year old mother who looks about 30 walking up to you.
Tongue, you don't have to be a skank to get hit on by gross guys hollering obscenities and wolf-whistling. And
while I personally think the fake rings are dishonest and probably wouldn' twear one myself, I totally understand
where these women are coming from.
Back on topic though, I got a strong unwanted hit just yesterday at the
grocery store. 40 some balding cashier asked me for my number >.< Now, this might or might not have been the mones,
but I was wearing 2 drops of AE/w.
~Silver
Hah! I want all the hits I can
get.
My philosophy is that everybody’s good for something. It doesn’t have to be about sex, love or
romance. You just have to negotiate your needs.
For the most part, this works out pretty well. But there
have been a handful of particularly hard “negotiations”. (And there was always alcohol involved.)
Once a big,
burly gay guy (turns out he was a professional hockey player) put me in a crushing bear hug and tried to kiss me.
Luckily there’s an aikido move that helps you slip out of such situations.
Another time a fat, ugly, probably
psychotic lady kept trying to take my shirt off. When the bouncer tried to politely escort her out, she fell to the
floor and started bawling like a baby. Very embarrassing.
Give truth a chance.
Sliver, I'm not knocking these
chicks for wearing fake rings. Hey whatever works. I don't like the manhater attitude of these girls, that the
article portrayed. They came across as though their poop doesn't stink, and that any guy who hit on them was a
creep or a pervert.
I get my share of women hitting on me, that don't intrest me. It comes with the
territory. Many of my attactive female friends have unattractive guys hitting on them all the time. They deal with
it. It is the price to be paid for being an attractive human being.
That doesn't excuse not taking "NO" for
an answer.
True true, maybe I should have
just straight up said no. But with all this talk about body language, and non-verbal clues, you'd think that they
would have gotten the point. I think eventually they did, and I am still on friendly terms with these girls. I
actually DJ'd for one girl's party, and THAT was interesting. One of her friends flashed her boobs at me and told
me that they were so big they usually hung low, although they were duct taped at the moment. I would have pursued
it, but I didn't see her the rest of the night (probably e'd out in a corner somewhere, and I was more interested
in not train-wrecking the set.) And, though I buy into the ugly girls have cute friends theory, it brings a LOT of
headache with it. During my pre-pheromone days, a good female friend of mine introduced me and tried to hook me up
with all of her friends, which I did before finally settling on dating one. Unfortunately, in the process, rumors
fly, feelings get hurt, and I found out that my friend actually had a huge crush on me. We've worked it out, our
friendship is deep enough for us to be grownup about it. But, believe me it was fun. There's nothing better than
going out raving with 4 hot girls and all they want to do is use you as a body pillow. You should see the looks on
some of the people that walked by. But, there's also something to be said for discretion. If you end up putting
your lincoln log into each of a group of girls, be ready for plenty of castigation and castration. Yes, I kind of
dated my friend's friends, but no sex until I was sure about the girl. This ended up being a wise decision as the
girl I ended up going out with knew that I had managed to keep my urges udner control, except with her. Major
brownie points.
BTW, I've definitely noticed. Chikara elicits a LOT of boob flashing.
No dude, hot chick always group together just likeOriginally Posted by BIONIC MAN
heavy chicks.
DCW
my personal response is if you do
nothing with the "unattractive" ones you dont want they soon get the message and unless they do something veyr
strange like ask you out on a proper date or something similar it goes no further the great thing about women is
that they hardly ever make the first offical move on the guy they will drop hints and hang around like flies to a
piece of shitt but they wont make the first move 99% of the time.
That said there it is easy way to deal with
unwanted hints - you could try running away or bore them with some really boring discussion like politics etc.
I
know mid 20s myself and 50+ women can be annoying but you soon just switch off (again unwilling to embarrass
themselves so they just sit there with their unconscious body signals going round and round and round and
round)
Dont worry some of the "bigger" ones either get some desperate guy in the end or ship up and do some
exercise and get into shape and off the couch and into the gym (uni sex gyms are a good place to meet attractive
woemn and get into shape) just go easy on the mones if you are sweating (1 spray perception for example max)
Yeah, that's true tongue, they
did come off as a little bitchy. I don't know, for some of those stories they had the right to. When a guy
hitting on you is clearly twice your age or more, you have the right to a dose of bitchiness. But most of the time
you just have to take the good with the bad.
And I agree with DCW, cute girls often group together. Not always,
but sadly often.
~Silver
Why would you be bitchy to a dude
just because he is twice as old as you? If he is a gentleman about it, than your turn away should be polite. If he
is an obnoxious jerk about it, than do what you need to do.
Thanks for mentioning that,
Tounge. Something I've noticed is that even when you are just being nice pretty women often assume you are hitting
on them. I'll almost always hold a door for somebody, make eye contact, smile and say something to them. The
majority of people respond nicely but attractive women as often as not are brusque or even rude.
Frankly, I
can't imagine hitting on a kid like Silver (no offense intended but you are very young) or even hitting on somebody
while I'm working but all too often some women seem to think every man is hitting on them. Give us guys a break,
most of us do aspire to becoming dirty old men but that doesn't mean that just because we are polite we are hitting
on you.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
Thomas Jefferson
I think the reason is because people who are as naturally polite as youOriginally Posted by belgareth
are a rarity. I assume you are one of those guys who even holds doors for other guys and lets them go first. I
always thought that is a pretty classy thing, though I can tell the act is out of respect not incentive easier than
a woman could, especially an attactive one.
You're right,Originally Posted by bjf
I almost always will stand there and hold the door for everybody and am pleasant with anybody. It does me no harm
and is a nice gesture to others. Maybe the world could use more nice gestures.
It's been my experience that I
get better service, problems are handled more quickly and everything seems to go more easily when I am polite. As a
service provider, I try to give great service to every one of my clients. The ones that are pleasnt and friendly are
easier to help and work with, the screamers or those who make threats and such usually don't get as enthusiastic of
service. It's human nature.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.
Thomas Jefferson
i find that most woman
think your hiting on them just by talking even if you only whant to be a friend.I also find stupid that in a world
civilised & inteligent that we are in we still have to make games to get our point across & when you are being clear
about what you want from the oposite sex its like you are "too easy "so they dont want of you. On to the topic even
without mones it seams older girls are always easyer to befriend or chat with even it is all you want with them ...
they probalby got tired of playing "games". i got some glances witout mones from older ladies.... as for mones hits
i dont count the few weird things as real hits...
I think the definition of hitting
on someone needs to be defined. I talk to all the women I can, young,old, cute or not so cute. I will admit to
having a problem with obesity in women, so I may not open a conversation with one.
I also hold the door for
anyone regardless of sex or looks. And Belgareth is right. It often seems that exceptionly attractive women can be
oblivious to your courtesy or downright rude. And I'll let them know it.
I make it simple. If I'm hitting
on you, I'm asking for digets. I don't have time to fart around with game playing. If I get a no, I move on. Often
to something better.
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