Unwanted hits

[platinumfox]

We are proud to

mention the "good hits" but you ever get a hit from someone you dont want.For Me its this lady at work shes at least

60.Everytime I have on any kind of mone she gets "flirty" and her husband works there too.It happened again

yesterday LOL!

[DCW]

We are proud to

mention the "good hits" but you ever get a hit from someone you dont want.For Me its this lady at work shes at least

60.Everytime I have on any kind of mone she gets "flirty" and her husband works there too.It happened again

yesterday LOL!

Swingers!!!

DCW

[MOBLEYC57]

Pretty much like ... everytime I

walk outside, the sun gets on me.

You asked fer it ... you got it, Toyota!

Sorry, but hits

from people you don't want hits from, comes with the territory. You're just gonna have to fight off

, or run from , the coons til the foxes show up!

[ismellgood]

I find that older women (45

plus) seem to be even more reactive to my use of pheromones (perhaps the pheromone effect is further intensified by

my having no interest at all in them).

[Gegogi]

Older women are

usually much better in the sack than younger women. Many are also more open to causal or purely sexual

relationships. The difficult part is finding a hot 45 year old. There are some out there. The 30 something ones are

easier to find and usually know all the tricks. When I was a kid an older woman taught me well and I'm forever

grateful to her.

[ismellgood]

Gegogi,
I agree that

relatively older women are, on average, better in bed than younger ones. But beyond a certain age, the better sexual

skills are offset by declining physical attractiveness. I have found that (on average!!) 25-35 is the best

trade-off.

[kappakai]

One of the first times I used

Chikara, I was hanging out at a friend's place playing poker. There were two girls there, we'll call them 1 & 2.

Not exactly the most attractive girls, college age, short, dumpy and froggish; the other looks like an overstuffed

cartoon teddy bear. One of them ended up with her feet under my ass (to keep them warm, so she said) and the other

was sitting next to me on the couch. I made friendly small talk, like I normally do with most people, but was

conciously trying not to give off any signs of interest. I have a lot of female friends, and am, hence, a firm

believer in the female-esseque attitude of "just cause a guy talks to you doesn't mean he's

interested."

For the next week, I got a phone call each and every night around 2am from one or the other, and

sometimes, both, girls. I screened all my calls, but that didn't keep them from leaving long, sordid messages on my

phone. I don't mind these types of messages, just not from these two particular girls. One message was more or

less, "hey, we're drunk, and we wanna have a threesome. where the f* are you, what's wrong with you? don't you

know poissy's slapping you in the face! callll us.." seductive, no? they got the point after a week.

[bjf]

How did they get your number?

[kappakai]

Via a mutual friend.

One

lesson I've learned about using mones, if you don't want someone calling you up left and right, more or less

stalking you, don't use pheromones around them.

[Surreal]

I have had a unwanted hit at

Chik-a-fila (or somthing). Just smile and walk away.

But if It happened at a loose party...I dont know. I would

proberly go hang out with the guys and talk about men stuff.

[MOBLEYC57]

WARNING: Remember

... UNWANTEES sometimes have very good looking friends, so smile, be nice, and then .... !

[StandingTall]

plantinum,

Unwanted

hits happened all the time. At my previous job I would get hits from this cute secretary who is married. From an

unattractive cafeteria worker and from older female executives. I also got wanted hits to so you have to take the

good with the bad.

[DCW]

Older women are usually

much better in the sack than younger women. Many are also more open to causal or purely sexual relationships. The

difficult part is finding a hot 45 year old. There are some out there. The 30 something ones are easier to find and

usually know all the tricks. When I was a kid an older woman taught me well and I'm forever grateful to

her.

I have to agree. I started getting better quality after I hit 30.
Women also reach

their sexual peak later than men.
No stone unturned for old DCW I'm flexible .

DCW

[TRock]

We are proud to

mention the "good hits" but you ever get a hit from someone you dont want.For Me its this lady at work shes at least

60.Everytime I have on any kind of mone she gets "flirty" and her husband works there too.It happened again

yesterday LOL!

just be glad you're not a hot woman.


http://nypost.com/entertainment/36558.htm

[tounge]

just be glad you're

not a hot woman.


http://nypost.com/entertainment/36558.htm

After reading that article, now I know why some of the young guys think the way they do about women

around here.

These poor skank, only get hit on by scuz and preditors. And a fake ring solves all their

problems.


Of course, a bud of mine, has found much success in the sack when he goes out with his phony

wedding band.

[Gegogi]

I agree, a

wedding band can really bring out the serious horndogs, i.e., women that only want a few rolls in the hay with no

commitment. If you're a love hungry single guy they're often afraid you might cramp their style.

But, yeah,

a woman with an engagement ring doesn't scare off most guys.

[BIONIC MAN]

your using mones to get a

reaction , and ugly people can get attracted to a mone user. ugly people usually have attractive friends , becuase

they make each other look better. say a woman is a 7 her friend is a 3.8 together the 7 looks like a 8.5 and the 3.8

looks like a 5.2 with her friend .

[Silver]

Oooh boy, you guys have NO

idea.

If unwanted come-ons freaked me out a lot, I would be hidding in my basement for the rest of my life. Or

at least until I'm old and wrinkly.

Once when I was 14, I was hit on by a guy that looked about 45-50. Now,

granted, I've always looked a little older, but there was no way you could mistake me for more than 18. But do you

know what's a better repellent than a fake ring? Your 45 year old mother who looks about 30 walking up to you.



Tongue, you don't have to be a skank to get hit on by gross guys hollering obscenities and wolf-whistling. And

while I personally think the fake rings are dishonest and probably wouldn' twear one myself, I totally understand

where these women are coming from.

Back on topic though, I got a strong unwanted hit just yesterday at the

grocery store. 40 some balding cashier asked me for my number >.< Now, this might or might not have been the mones,

but I was wearing 2 drops of AE/w.

~Silver

[a.k.a.]

Hah! I want all the hits I can

get.
My philosophy is that everybody’s good for something. It doesn’t have to be about sex, love or

romance. You just have to negotiate your needs.
For the most part, this works out pretty well. But there

have been a handful of particularly hard “negotiations”. (And there was always alcohol involved.)
Once a big,

burly gay guy (turns out he was a professional hockey player) put me in a crushing bear hug and tried to kiss me.

Luckily there’s an aikido move that helps you slip out of such situations.
Another time a fat, ugly, probably

psychotic lady kept trying to take my shirt off. When the bouncer tried to politely escort her out, she fell to the

floor and started bawling like a baby. Very embarrassing.

[tounge]

Sliver, I'm not knocking these

chicks for wearing fake rings. Hey whatever works. I don't like the manhater attitude of these girls, that the

article portrayed. They came across as though their poop doesn't stink, and that any guy who hit on them was a

creep or a pervert.


I get my share of women hitting on me, that don't intrest me. It comes with the

territory. Many of my attactive female friends have unattractive guys hitting on them all the time. They deal with

it. It is the price to be paid for being an attractive human being.

That doesn't excuse not taking "NO" for

an answer.

[kappakai]

True true, maybe I should have

just straight up said no. But with all this talk about body language, and non-verbal clues, you'd think that they

would have gotten the point. I think eventually they did, and I am still on friendly terms with these girls. I

actually DJ'd for one girl's party, and THAT was interesting. One of her friends flashed her boobs at me and told

me that they were so big they usually hung low, although they were duct taped at the moment. I would have pursued

it, but I didn't see her the rest of the night (probably e'd out in a corner somewhere, and I was more interested

in not train-wrecking the set.) And, though I buy into the ugly girls have cute friends theory, it brings a LOT of

headache with it. During my pre-pheromone days, a good female friend of mine introduced me and tried to hook me up

with all of her friends, which I did before finally settling on dating one. Unfortunately, in the process, rumors

fly, feelings get hurt, and I found out that my friend actually had a huge crush on me. We've worked it out, our

friendship is deep enough for us to be grownup about it. But, believe me it was fun. There's nothing better than

going out raving with 4 hot girls and all they want to do is use you as a body pillow. You should see the looks on

some of the people that walked by. But, there's also something to be said for discretion. If you end up putting

your lincoln log into each of a group of girls, be ready for plenty of castigation and castration. Yes, I kind of

dated my friend's friends, but no sex until I was sure about the girl. This ended up being a wise decision as the

girl I ended up going out with knew that I had managed to keep my urges udner control, except with her. Major

brownie points.

BTW, I've definitely noticed. Chikara elicits a LOT of boob flashing.

[DCW]

your using mones to

get a reaction , and ugly people can get attracted to a mone user. ugly people usually have attractive friends ,

becuase they make each other look better. say a woman is a 7 her friend is a 3.8 together the 7 looks like a 8.5 and

the 3.8 looks like a 5.2 with her friend .

No dude, hot chick always group together just like

heavy chicks.


DCW

[Watcher]

my personal response is if you do

nothing with the "unattractive" ones you dont want they soon get the message and unless they do something veyr

strange like ask you out on a proper date or something similar it goes no further the great thing about women is

that they hardly ever make the first offical move on the guy they will drop hints and hang around like flies to a

piece of shitt but they wont make the first move 99% of the time.

That said there it is easy way to deal with

unwanted hints - you could try running away or bore them with some really boring discussion like politics etc.
I

know mid 20s myself and 50+ women can be annoying but you soon just switch off (again unwilling to embarrass

themselves so they just sit there with their unconscious body signals going round and round and round and

round)

Dont worry some of the "bigger" ones either get some desperate guy in the end or ship up and do some

exercise and get into shape and off the couch and into the gym (uni sex gyms are a good place to meet attractive

woemn and get into shape) just go easy on the mones if you are sweating (1 spray perception for example max)

[Silver]

Yeah, that's true tongue, they

did come off as a little bitchy. I don't know, for some of those stories they had the right to. When a guy

hitting on you is clearly twice your age or more, you have the right to a dose of bitchiness. But most of the time

you just have to take the good with the bad.

And I agree with DCW, cute girls often group together. Not always,

but sadly often.

~Silver

[tounge]

Why would you be bitchy to a dude

just because he is twice as old as you? If he is a gentleman about it, than your turn away should be polite. If he

is an obnoxious jerk about it, than do what you need to do.

[belgareth]

Thanks for mentioning that,

Tounge. Something I've noticed is that even when you are just being nice pretty women often assume you are hitting

on them. I'll almost always hold a door for somebody, make eye contact, smile and say something to them. The

majority of people respond nicely but attractive women as often as not are brusque or even rude.

Frankly, I

can't imagine hitting on a kid like Silver (no offense intended but you are very young) or even hitting on somebody

while I'm working but all too often some women seem to think every man is hitting on them. Give us guys a break,

most of us do aspire to becoming dirty old men but that doesn't mean that just because we are polite we are hitting

on you.

[bjf]

Thanks for

mentioning that, Tounge. Something I've noticed is that even when you are just being nice pretty women often assume

you are hitting on them. I'll almost always hold a door for somebody, make eye contact, smile and say something to

them. The majority of people respond nicely but attractive women as often as not are brusque or even rude.



Frankly, I can't imagine hitting on a kid like Silver (no offense intended but you are very young) or even

hitting on somebody while I'm working but all too often some women seem to think every man is hitting on them. Give

us guys a break, most of us do aspire to becoming dirty old men but that doesn't mean that just because we are

polite we are hitting on you.

I think the reason is because people who are as naturally polite as you

are a rarity. I assume you are one of those guys who even holds doors for other guys and lets them go first. I

always thought that is a pretty classy thing, though I can tell the act is out of respect not incentive easier than

a woman could, especially an attactive one.

[belgareth]

I think the reason

is because people who are as naturally polite as you are a rarity. I assume you are one of those guys who even holds

doors for other guys and lets them go first. I always thought that is a pretty classy thing, though I can tell the

act is out of respect not incentive easier than a woman could, especially an attactive one.

You're right,

I almost always will stand there and hold the door for everybody and am pleasant with anybody. It does me no harm

and is a nice gesture to others. Maybe the world could use more nice gestures.

It's been my experience that I

get better service, problems are handled more quickly and everything seems to go more easily when I am polite. As a

service provider, I try to give great service to every one of my clients. The ones that are pleasnt and friendly are

easier to help and work with, the screamers or those who make threats and such usually don't get as enthusiastic of

service. It's human nature.

[eric_pelletier_tw]

i find that most woman

think your hiting on them just by talking even if you only whant to be a friend.I also find stupid that in a world

civilised & inteligent that we are in we still have to make games to get our point across & when you are being clear

about what you want from the oposite sex its like you are "too easy "so they dont want of you. On to the topic even

without mones it seams older girls are always easyer to befriend or chat with even it is all you want with them ...

they probalby got tired of playing "games". i got some glances witout mones from older ladies.... as for mones hits

i dont count the few weird things as real hits...

[tounge]

I think the definition of hitting

on someone needs to be defined. I talk to all the women I can, young,old, cute or not so cute. I will admit to

having a problem with obesity in women, so I may not open a conversation with one.

I also hold the door for

anyone regardless of sex or looks. And Belgareth is right. It often seems that exceptionly attractive women can be

oblivious to your courtesy or downright rude. And I'll let them know it.

I make it simple. If I'm hitting

on you, I'm asking for digets. I don't have time to fart around with game playing. If I get a no, I move on. Often

to something better.