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    Default Getting a girl with a Boyfriend

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    There is this one girl who I've always been slightly attracted to, but now, I feel like I am really attracted to.

    Unfortunately, she just started a relationship with an asshole, who is no good for her... he will end up hurting her

    but I have no idea how long it will last

    What can I do (or what mones can I wear) to say that I offer more

    than him...
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    be a bigger asshole.

    actually

    i'm not sure but if she's attracted to assholes, you're not gonna win her over by trying to show her that you'll

    treat her good.

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    No better way to disprove to

    someone that you have more to offer, then trying to prove that you have more to offer. Just keep wearing the mones

    and wait it out. Better yet find a different one. There's too many girls in this world to be worried about one

    that is taken.

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    Continue to be nice to her.

    You'll then win her over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by manchorito
    There is this

    one girl who I've always been slightly attracted to, but now, I feel like I am really attracted to. Unfortunately,

    she just started a relationship with an asshole, who is no good for her... he will end up hurting her but I have no

    idea how long it will last

    What can I do (or what mones can I wear) to say that I offer more than

    him...
    Ignore her, get together with other girls, and let her see that you are a great boyfriend.

    The

    more you think about her, the more you want her, the more you pursue her, the less she will want to be with you.



    That is the HARDEST lesson for most boys to learn. The assholes seem to learn it first, but you don't have to be

    an asshole to show her she made a bad choice.

    Pick a couple of girls who are a notch below your preference and

    become close to them. You don't have to make either of them your girlfriend. Just let them get to know you well

    enough that THEY will want to be your girlfriend.

    It will be like magic for you, opening doors you have not yet

    imagined.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Newbie gal
    Continue to be

    nice to her. You'll then win her over.
    Or become her best guy friend. yawn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Friendly1
    Pick a

    couple of girls who are a notch below your preference and become close to them. You don't have to make either of

    them your girlfriend. Just let them get to know you well enough that THEY will want to be your girlfriend.

    Are you asking Mancorito to use these girls?

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    They've been indoctrinated by

    the "seduction community." I get nearly all the nookie I want and act like a nice guy. Of course, when it ends she

    usually calls me an asshole, dickhead and a liar, so maybe I'm just a good actor. Maybe I'm not as nice as I think

    I am...
    "I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi

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    My best bet is not to go after

    girls with bf's, because if shell leave him for you (someone better) then she can also leave you for someone

    better.Just wait it out she may notice you when shes ready, but def dont try to be the great guy friend you can

    easily become like a brother, which is worst than anything.Just let it flow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Newbie gal
    Are you

    asking Mancorito to use these girls?


    No more than any of us uses anyone else. What I

    am telling him is to stop obsessing about one girl and learn to be comfortable and likeable around other girls.



    The chances of his getting together with a girl he is obsessing over are pretty much non-existent. It will take

    him years to accept that. But, in the meantime, he can still get out and socialize like everyone else.

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    Most girls that are into assholes

    dont like to let other guys know they are into aggressive assholes *makes sense since most are probably aggressive

    via natural high test levels and of course Anone levels*

    That said i personally have had many run ins with

    girls with boyfriends it aint worth it - if you have a consistantly strong pheromone signature they may leave the

    bf. But you have a limited window of op in that situation.

    My favoured method is to simply not focus on one

    girl probably because youre chances of getting that girl get jinxed and it doesnt happen

    9 times out of 10

    its the girl you werent expecting or some total stranger that comes along and bang you hit it off then in you

    go.

    Use the watcher approved scatterbrain approach = use pheromones most of the time or all of the time and

    get out into the world and interact with as many women as possible. Sooner or later something will hit.

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    You could be up against the

    attention whore type personality (these are the ones that have a bf but will go out of their way to get attention

    from as many guys as possible even leading some of those along because most guys are stupid and will fall for the

    first flirt that comes along esp desperate single guys.)


    Gotta be more like the woemn (hard but try not

    to be to asshole type) but at the same time be able to be happily single for a while without getting desperate and

    dont let em play to many emotional string along games - show that you can call her bluff in a battle of wits and

    show you aint no pushover - u can still be a "nice guy" but no pushover.

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    But, watch out there are

    consequences to persuing "taken" women.

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    there always is.... ^

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    My experience has been that

    often (not always!) the best women already have some semblance of a man at the time that I meet them. If a woman is

    attractive and desires to be in a relationship, she usually is, even if it is with is someone less wonderful than me


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    Lightbulb such as finding your tires slashed in the morning

    or having your face encounter a fist when you aren't expecting it. May I speak from

    experience here ? Girls who will soon be women that are *enmeshed* (please undeline that word *enmeshed*) in

    dysfucntional relationships with major assholes are that way because the come from dysfunctional families where

    abuse and love are terribly confused. Many a gentleman will fall into the role of "the rescuer" (the result of other

    dysfunctional family dymanics, realized or not) who then becomes part of this weird soap opera triangle of

    asshole+maiden in distress+knight in shining armor. This complicated and exceeding stupid dance has a way of going

    round and round for the longest time without resolution, while Maiden In Distress gets to be the center of all that

    complicated attention.... what exiting power over men ! Asshole is naturally popping a narcissistic boner over his

    power over women and both Asshole and Maiden get to play "parents" to poor Knight In Shing Armor who is working

    though a major Oedipus Complex about saving Good Mommy from Bad Daddy...

    My hard won advice to you, amigo, is

    pull the plug on this unhealthy psychological game, read some Eric Berne, _Games People Play_ is a fine start, and

    stick with available women who don't have warped agendas (lopping off your Pee Pee emotionally)... AH castration !

    What a wonderful feeling !

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    Quote Originally Posted by pheromack
    My best bet is

    not to go after girls with bf's, because if shell leave him for you (someone better) then she can also leave you

    for someone better.Just wait it out she may notice you when shes ready, but def dont try to be the great guy friend

    you can easily become like a brother, which is worst than anything.Just let it flow.
    Yup
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    surfs_up,
    I have never

    encountered a violent reaction from their boyfriends or husbands. I guess this is because I do not pick the kind of

    women who pick those kind of men.

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    Cool all depends on the circumstances

    when a relationship is coming to and end naturally, that's one thing. You are walking on stage about the time the

    other guy is walking off. The other thing is when you get it in your head that you can split off a girl from the man

    she's with. There was a crazy fool women once who believed with a fanatic intensity that she was mine, or I was

    hers, and in her words "alls fair in love and war" ... she knew no shame, she was going to have me, regardless of my

    opinion. It wasn't meant to be, and she bugged out over the idea that she couldn't control my reactions, that I

    prefeered another woman... she just couldn't accept it, she wouldn't let up. So there I got a sample of what I

    suspect far too many women have to put up with insistent guys who respect no limits. Learning from that, if a woman

    wants to be with me, I want to be with her, and she's ready to go through the process of letting the other

    relationship go, that's a workable thing. If it's a matter of sneaking around, wondering if she's feeling the

    guilts and is about to confess to her husband or put her boyfriend through emotional hell and I might conceivably

    have to face this guy and not act like a cringing worm or a callous shit, no way, Jose...

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    Default wait a second....

    he's never

    said he had a relationship with her, just that he's gone from being mildly attracted to really attracted to her.

    He hasn't blown his chances yet but may have to wait her out a bit. Good lesson learned though: "he who hesitates

    is lost".
    There is a cure for electile dysfuntion!!!!

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    This is kinda like something

    that made me and my ex gf break up... a guy came along and all of a sudden my gf of 7 years was really attracted

    and he wasn't even all that good looking. She said that the smell of his cologne made her "horny," and

    unfortunetly she couldn't stay away from him and one thing lead to another and she cheated on me. I've never met

    him before by the way but if i do i don't kno what i will do. I want to break his neck and as a man i feel that

    it's my given right to do so. but i dunno...

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    Default oh gosh

    he must be on this site

    (she got horny from his cologne!!!)
    There is a cure for electile dysfuntion!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by j5fakt0r
    he wasn't

    even all that good looking. She said that the smell of his cologne made her "horny
    He must be using PI

    !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Newbie gal
    He must be

    using PI !!!
    yea probably, i just wish she stopped talkin to him cuz he knew she had a bf and he knew that

    we were together and plannin to get married for a while and yet he still put it on to lure her in. is that moral?

    is that what a good friend does especially when it was him that grabbed her first?

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    Quote Originally Posted by j5fakt0r
    yea probably,

    i just wish she stopped talkin to him cuz he knew she had a bf and he knew that we were together and plannin to get

    married for a while and yet he still put it on to lure her in. is that moral? is that what a good friend does

    especially when it was him that grabbed her first?
    Are they still together?

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    no they're just friends. and

    that's the sad thing. we broke up and she's just friends with the guy. and the funny thing is she doesn't even

    give a sh!t about him! so now she's single (more or less), hence why i'm giving this (pheromones) a shot.

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    I wish you all the best. She

    deserves you.

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    Watchers hint is avoid screwed up

    soap opera women - experience has taught me to pick them out and if they are with a bf husband etc its off limits if

    shes single and still screwed up ie having gone through 20 guys in 12 months she is oof limits.

    I want a sane

    reasonably loyal woman that is reasonably attractive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by manchorito
    There is this

    one girl who I've always been slightly attracted to, but now, I feel like I am really attracted to. Unfortunately,

    she just started a relationship with an asshole, who is no good for her... he will end up hurting her but I have no

    idea how long it will last

    What can I do (or what mones can I wear) to say that I offer more than

    him...
    i don't think women / girls are attracted to the fact that when you can offer her something

    (money, buy her dinners, gifts, etc etc), she will be attracted to that. if you show that you offer to be a really

    nice boyfriend to her, she will most likely not to be attracted to you. women feel attraction often to alpha males

    that are confident, who know what they want. in this case because if she is attracted to an asshole, or that she has

    had asshole boyfriends, she will be continuing seeking for asshole boyfriends.

    just as trock said be a

    bigger asshole = to her.

    phinmone

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