Silver,
Good advice.
Pancho,
No hostility intended. Sorry about the way it came across. I didn't read your first comment the way
you intended it and that's probably my own fault as well. While I am monitoring the forum and commenting here and
there I am in the middle of reconfiguring my network to take advantage of VOIP. My time on the forum has been split
between downing and configuring servers and routers. As a result I am not paying as much attention as I should.
That said, years ago I did something similar while on a business trip. The exact details aren't important. When I
got home I went to visit a friend, a semi-retired priest, thinking to spill my guts and assauge my own guilt. His
answer to me went something like this "Regardless of what she did, you violated the sanctity of their marraige. Yes,
she may have done the same with somebody else had you not been there. That doesn't change the basic facts of your
actions. You and you alone are responsible for those. You and she share the guilt equally." I am not condeming
Gegogi, we are all human. His actions are still his responsibility. He's not scum, he simply made a human mistake
or what I consider a mistake. Others would probably disagree with me but that's their business, not mine.
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