Appearance DOES effect!

[phinmone]

i was at a

very interesting party where the theme was to dress in a kinky way. well i had something quite kinky and had like a

red mascara on around my eyes. it looked quite strange. but so was the party. anyways i was wearing chikara 4

sprays + 1 dab of npa. usually when i go out with this amount, i usually get some attention, but yesterday at the

party i did not get attention / approaches from girls. i would say it was due to my appearance. this has been

discussed quite often too, and i have been aware of this fact that your outward appearance affects the success with

women. and you should approach women instead of waiting them to talk to you. but yesterday i really realized how

important the right appearance is. or maybe the right appearance that fits your personal picture of what suites

you.

phinmone

[TRock]

appearance does matter, i think

it's wishful thinking when people say it doesn't. sometimes people can't handle the truth.

[Holmes]

appearance does

matter, i think it's wishful thinking when people say it doesn't. sometimes people can't handle the

truth.

Amen to that.

[Yoel]

Well, if mones made you score while

dressed like a drag queen, you couldn't even leave home when dressed normally

Yoel

[bjf]

Women may not be as swayed by looks,

but they are certainly pickier about them.

[TRock]

in case anybody gets discourage,

that doesn't mean you life is over if you're not good looking tho. if your looks aren't all there, you just have

to work alittle harder to attract women. you have to accept who you are and love yourself still b/c if you can't

love yourself, how would somebody else be able to love you.

[bjf]

whatever pretty boy. No, just

kidding

[Pancho1188]

Come on, guys...we all know

that real beauty is on the ins----- Man, I almost got that out without laughing, too...




SweetBrenda thinks I'm a sexy b*tch, so that's good enough for me...


Mascara...well...you

might've attracted a different kind of crowd...just not the one you were with...

[Watcher]

mascara you could have gone for

the goth / crossdressing crowd (fab five queer eye for the straight guy types lol) or rocky horror picture show

lol.

That said looks (and a good looking body help) but yes just another thing women are picky

about.

Have to get used to it.

[bigdog]

Appearance defintiely makes a

difference. I have not been getting many hits lately mones or no mones. I attribute much of it to the fact I've

been a workout slouch. Confidence, positivity, smiles, and eye contact are huge too.

After I've worked out

a couple months I get much more attention. Along with having a better physique I have more confidence and I'm much

more positive. Women can sense this and approach me often. Mones are the icing on the cake.

[phinmone]

mascara you could

have gone for the goth / crossdressing crowd

read: kinky party = S/M bondage! so i think the mascara

was NOT overdressed.

[Yoel]

You were crossdressed anyway, I

would have gone for something ultra-alpha, since the S/M background allowed you to do that

Yoel

[pherohero]

in case anybody

gets discourage, that doesn't mean you life is over if you're not good looking tho. if your looks aren't all

there, you just have to work alittle harder to attract women. you have to accept who you are and love yourself still

b/c if you can't love yourself, how would somebody else be able to love you.

This may be going off

the original topic, but it sounds like you don't realize how much one can improve one's own appearance. In fact,

it's a lot easier for men than it is for women. Most of us here are probably scrawny ectomorphs [don't bash me if

you're an exception]. Just cycling in some creatine, eating a high-protein diet, and regularly visiting a gym can

work wonders.

[a.k.a.]

I don’t know how to interpret this,

but I went to a Halloween party wearing Pheros, a Ronald Reagan mask, and a black suit that I picked up at a thrift

store. I thought it looked pretty creepy, but I seemed to hit it off pretty well.

[Watcher]

Join the club and work out heck im

big and muscle all over after 5 years of heavy workouts and not just weights but cycling running etc.

Im not

overly big ie creatine gym junky but i am solid and weight about 100kg 230 pounds. And it makes a difference add

some well place subtle pheromones and a few other things like good dressing etc and im regulary laid.

[Friendly1]

If you are going to do

anything, learn to do it well. I've lived by that philosophy most of my life, except where my clothes were

concerned. When I finally started applying it to my wardrobe, a whole new world opened up for me.

Women will

automatically assess a man by the way he is dressed. That doesn't mean they are all on the prowl all the time. It

just means they assess people very quickly, and the way you take care of yourself (fat or fit), the way you dress

(coordinated or like a slob) and the clothes you wear (expensive or cheap) all speak volumes about you to others who

know that language.