Standard steps to dating

[Yoel]

I know people

won't agree with me on this one, but DYD is just exploiting the obvious.

Be confident.
Be interesting.
Be

worth sleeping with.

That's just the backbone, I don't think there's ANY system out there that doesn't

suggest those things. The innovation (if you would) of DYD is the "cocky/funny" equation, which isn't something

that common sense (or more likely common programming) would suggest you.

DYD is what they

call "fake it until you make it." I'd prefer just making it instead (in other words, just becoming confident and

letting my attitude speak for itself instead of putting on an act to sucker someone into liking my show long enough

to sleep with them).

It is not a show as I already stated somewhere, but the opposite. You're supposed to

free yourself from all those restraints society tells you must have and go from there.

Yoel

[Pancho1188]

That's just the

backbone, I don't think there's ANY system out there that doesn't suggest those things. The innovation (if you

would) of DYD is the "cocky/funny" equation, which isn't something that common sense (or more likely common

programming) would suggest you.

It is not a show as I already stated somewhere, but the opposite. You're

supposed to free yourself from all those restraints society tells you must have and go from there.

Yoel

Fight Club. "Society of men raised by women." I will agree with you on that one. Women will turn you into a

'nice guy' but long for the 'real man'.

The cocky/funny equation is why I use the word "exploit" in my

description. There are other ways of attracting women, but you can exploit a woman's own insecurities and need to

feel important by putting her down jokingly and making yourself look like you'll raise her status by association or

through interaction or whatever. I only use the word exploit because I feel that that's a 'sneaky' way to do it.

That doesn't mean it's wrong...it's just my own personal opinion. But, as you said and would probably argue,

that is part of the restraints that I limit myself to because of my upbringing.





Brenda, you're so

silly, girl! Come on over and sit on Pancho's lap...Christmas is coming, and it's not just the goose that'll be

getting fat if you tell me that you've been naughty, chica...

Okay, so I guess I can do it.

[SweetBrenda]

Brenda,

you're so silly, girl! Come on over and sit on Pancho's lap...Christmas is coming, and it's not just the goose

that'll be getting fat if you tell me that you've been naughty, chica...

Okay, so I guess I can do it.

LOL@ Panch'Claus.
For your info I'm never naughty just "nice".

The whole dating deal

sucks to tell you the truth.
The more you try not to embarrass yourself on the first dates the worse you behave by

being to careful perhaps spill a glass of water or drop the food from the fork while you're trying to take a bite

of food! things you normally woudn't do if you aren't nervous and just relaxed..
The Dating Game is that a game!

hate it!!
But eventually we all are in it.
And trying to make the best of it.. ugh

[Yoel]

The cocky/funny

equation is why I use the word "exploit" in my description. There are other ways of attracting women, but you can

exploit a woman's own insecurities and need to feel important by putting her down jokingly and making yourself look

like you'll raise her status by association or through interaction or whatever. I only use the word exploit because

I feel that that's a 'sneaky' way to do it. That doesn't mean it's wrong...it's just my own personal opinion.

But, as you said and would probably argue, that is part of the restraints that I limit myself to because of my

upbringing.

I can see your point but think about this: if she was a guy, would you miss a single occasion of

mocking him? Whether we are talking about her looks or her whining, I don't think so.
Why do we do that? I'll

tell you why, because of intimidation, fear of consequences. If we were really free, we would tease each other all

day long, 'cause it's funny
So, I'd say you're sneaky when you try to please her (even if it backfires, you

are actually playing a part to get her), not when you are yourself. If you think you are genetically pleasing, think

again, it's programming.

Yoel

[Pancho1188]

I can see your

point but think about this: if she was a guy, would you miss a single occasion of mocking him? Whether we are

talking about her looks or her whining, I don't think so.
Why do we do that? I'll tell you why, because of

intimidation, fear of consequences. If we were really free, we would tease each other all day long, 'cause it's

funny
So, I'd say you're sneaky when you try to please her (even if it backfires, you are actually playing a

part to get her), not when you are yourself. If you think you are genetically pleasing, think again, it's

programming.

Yoel

You're right, as my position does not void your position (they are just

different).

The top two things that all of my gfs have liked about me is that I make them feel good about

themselves and I am sincere. I do not try to please people just to get with them...if I make a compliment, I mean

it. I usually tease the opposite way. Like I tease them about something good like it was something bad. That's

fun. Actually, now that I think about it, that's pretty much what you're saying, anyway. Ha, ha. I guess I do

all of that already and didn't even know it!

[Yoel]

I usually tease

the opposite way. Like I tease them about something good like it was something bad. That's fun. Actually, now that

I think about it, that's pretty much what you're saying, anyway. Ha, ha. I guess I do all of that already and

didn't even know it!

Yeah, who ever said you actually had to dislike something to tease her on it? I

sure don't mind if she trips and bumps her breasts on me, but what the hell, "Hey, I didn't know you were such a

forward girl!" That's the funny part!

Yoel

[phinmone]

Yeah, who ever said

you actually had to dislike something to tease her on it? I sure don't mind if she trips and bumps her breasts on

me, but what the hell, "Hey, I didn't know you were such a forward girl!" That's the funny part!



Yoel

better yet, when a girl is touching you with her breasts (like standin behind you really / quite

close) is to say: "hey, stop touching me or i will accuse you for sexual harrasment. i am tired girls touching me

with their boobs and handling me like a peace of meat". COCKY + FUNNY as hell! right on!

attention: not for

wussies!

[SweetBrenda]

better yet,

when a girl is touching you with her breasts (like standin behind you really / quite close) is to say: "hey, stop

touching me or i will accuse you for sexual harrasment. i am tired girls touching me with their boobs and handling

me like a peace of meat". COCKY + FUNNY as hell! right on!

attention: not for wussies!

Yup that is

definitely funny...

[SweetBrenda]

The

top two things that all of my gfs have liked about me is that I make them feel good about themselves and I am

sincere. I do not try to please people just to get with them...

Pancho you are going to make a woman very

lucky and happy someday...