Never heard of that, some directions?Originally Posted by MOBLEYC57
Yoel
Never heard of that, some directions?Originally Posted by MOBLEYC57
Yoel
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http://www.askmen.net/dating/the_system/indeOriginally Posted by Yoel
x.html
That should get your feet in the water, Yoel. Mods, if the rules are any links, I'm guilty, sorry,
or is it to other mone links?
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
@Mobley:
Ok, even though I'd
never buy something from someone called Doc Love (it's like a red pulsing light with scam written all over it!), I
want to hear more. I need testimonials I can trust, not those phony ones on the site. So, anyone?
Yoel
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I know people won't agree
with me on this one, but DYD is just exploiting the obvious.
Be confident.
Be interesting.
Be worth sleeping
with.
DYD is what they call "fake it until you make it." I'd prefer just making it instead (in other words,
just becoming confident and letting my attitude speak for itself instead of putting on an act to sucker someone into
liking my show long enough to sleep with them).
Again, that's just me. I don't expect anyone to agree with
that, and others that are more familiar with the material may believe otherwise.
I used to not
kiss on the first date. Don't know whatever happend to that? I guess as long as the date goes fine and I
really enjoy the company why the hell not? I don't like to follow rules to much and to me it seems like " no
kissing, no holding hands blah blah blah" at the 1st or 2nd date are just rules someone invented just because...
Okay with this I am not saying I will go and have sex right away either
not because I don't want to but because sex is way more complicated then just a few kisses but eventually if things
keep going in the right direction then hey,,, it's all good.
I guess is
all about the Body language, if the girl/guy is digging you then just go along with the flow...
A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you can not do."
Pretty much, but!Originally Posted by Pancho1188
... there are those that need help in the sense of humor area, and summada stuff gives good ideas in that area.
There are women that need help in that area too! I love it when a woman makes me laff!
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
Good point,Originally Posted by MOBLEYC57
Mobley.
That's just the backbone, I don't think there's ANY system out there that doesn'tOriginally Posted by Pancho1188
suggest those things. The innovation (if you would) of DYD is the "cocky/funny" equation, which isn't something
that common sense (or more likely common programming) would suggest you.
It is not a show as I already stated somewhere, but the opposite. You're supposed toOriginally Posted by Pancho1188
free yourself from all those restraints society tells you must have and go from there.
Yoel
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Why, thank you, Pancho! Midnight, the docks!Originally Posted by Pancho1188
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
Oohh Gawddddd! Pancho and Mobley getOriginally Posted by MOBLEYC57
a room you too or take it to PM...
I think you guys just had your first
date alright!!
Ha!
A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you can not do."
All up in other peoples business! Chill out Sweety BOriginally Posted by SweetBrenda
, I'm not after yer man!
Anywho, we were talking about the System ......
Never argue with ignorant people! They pull you down to THEIR level, and then they BEAT YOU with experience. Who said that!? I don't know, but tis gold I tell'ya!!
from what i've read on otherOriginally Posted by MOBLEYC57
forums, the system is better if you're in a relationship. it's not used to pick up woman.
But this is my business tooooo IOriginally Posted by MOBLEYC57
thought?...LOL ! having a sense of humor is one of the best qualities in a
man...
I'm chillin' I'm just having fun with you that is all darling...
Pancho knows I luv him and he wouldn't trade me for you. Right Pancho??
Panchoooooooooo where are you?
Mobley
Smile, please!
A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you can not do."
Originally Posted by Yoel
Fight Club. "Society of men raised by women." I will agree with you on that one. Women will turn you into a
'nice guy' but long for the 'real man'.
The cocky/funny equation is why I use the word "exploit" in my
description. There are other ways of attracting women, but you can exploit a woman's own insecurities and need to
feel important by putting her down jokingly and making yourself look like you'll raise her status by association or
through interaction or whatever. I only use the word exploit because I feel that that's a 'sneaky' way to do it.
That doesn't mean it's wrong...it's just my own personal opinion. But, as you said and would probably argue,
that is part of the restraints that I limit myself to because of my upbringing.
Brenda, you're so
silly, girl! Come on over and sit on Pancho's lap...Christmas is coming, and it's not just the goose that'll be
getting fat if you tell me that you've been naughty, chica...
Okay, so I guess I can do it.
LOL@ Panch'Claus.Originally Posted by Pancho1188
For your info I'm never naughty just "nice".
The whole dating deal
sucks to tell you the truth.
The more you try not to embarrass yourself on the first dates the worse you behave by
being to careful perhaps spill a glass of water or drop the food from the fork while you're trying to take a bite
of food! things you normally woudn't do if you aren't nervous and just relaxed..
The Dating Game is that a game!
hate it!!
But eventually we all are in it.
And trying to make the best of it.. ugh
A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you can not do."
I can see your point but think about this: if she was a guy, would you miss a single occasion ofOriginally Posted by Pancho1188
mocking him? Whether we are talking about her looks or her whining, I don't think so.
Why do we do that? I'll
tell you why, because of intimidation, fear of consequences. If we were really free, we would tease each other all
day long, 'cause it's funny
So, I'd say you're sneaky when you try to please her (even if it backfires, you
are actually playing a part to get her), not when you are yourself. If you think you are genetically pleasing, think
again, it's programming.
Yoel
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You're right, as my position does not void your position (they are justOriginally Posted by Yoel
different).
The top two things that all of my gfs have liked about me is that I make them feel good about
themselves and I am sincere. I do not try to please people just to get with them...if I make a compliment, I mean
it. I usually tease the opposite way. Like I tease them about something good like it was something bad. That's
fun. Actually, now that I think about it, that's pretty much what you're saying, anyway. Ha, ha. I guess I do
all of that already and didn't even know it!
Yeah, who ever said you actually had to dislike something to tease her on it? IOriginally Posted by Pancho1188
sure don't mind if she trips and bumps her breasts on me, but what the hell, "Hey, I didn't know you were such a
forward girl!" That's the funny part!
Yoel
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Pancho you are going to make a woman veryOriginally Posted by Pancho1188
lucky and happy someday...
A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you can not do."
better yet, when a girl is touching you with her breasts (like standin behind you really / quiteOriginally Posted by Yoel
close) is to say: "hey, stop touching me or i will accuse you for sexual harrasment. i am tired girls touching me
with their boobs and handling me like a peace of meat". COCKY + FUNNY as hell! right on!
attention: not for
wussies!
Yup that isOriginally Posted by phinmone
definitely funny...
A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you can not do."
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I have to agreeOriginally Posted by Gegogi
with Gegogi on this one.
"Some days will stay a thousand years, some pass like the flash of a spark...who knows where all our days go?"
Im kinda in a hurry right now
so ill try to make this brief. Normally when I would talk to girls I would be very attentive to them, for example if
they half muttered some sentence I would ask them what they had just said.
The revelation: After years of being
attentive to girls I learned that %99 of the time its better to "bust their balls" than to hang on every word they
say. The results I must say have been good and bad. My new theory is that there is a gradient on how well women
respond to you making fun of them and how well they respond to you being nice to them, the prettier the girl the
more she will like you if you mess with her, act cocky and funny, and bust her balls. But do beware! Some girls
especially if they are shy or generally keep to themselves will get mad at you if you overdo the coky funny thing. I
know this one gorgeus girl in high school I would rank her a 10 out of 10 perhaps the most sought after girl in my
high school. Most guys I noticed were way to nice to her...I did the complete opposite, I always turn around things
so that it seems like shes comming on to me. The intresting thing about this girl is that I know that I can really
bust her balls and be really cocky and funny around her and she will always laugh.
I guess my point is that Im
starting to turn my personality into a more playful funny type which has helped me have a more fun and intresting
time when I talk to girls. There are many roads to rome being coky and funny is only one way albeit one of the best
ways to get there.
^ it's a calibration thing. the
hotter the girl the more cocky you should be. they know they're in the top tier of women so they don't get
bothered by you being cocky because they know you're just playing.
Thx for the tips guys.
Ill have to check out that ebook.
Heres a simple question that maybe yall can answer right now. So far Ive
seen this girl three times, tho never tried to hold her hand or get close. The closest we've been is sitting
pretty close watching a movie. I have a thing where I wont try anything unless she basically comes out and invites
me, and so far the only times Ive been able to see her is with her friends (both male and female). This isnt
because of timing, she always invites friends over when I come by. I assume this is because she is still in the
"dont trust you yet" phase (I dont blame her, cant be too careful these days).
She works alot, up till 10pm
on rougly 5 days a week. I dont think I can actually say that Ive been on a "date" with her yet, just been by her
apartment a few times. What do you guys think would be appropriate next? Perhaps actually taking her out on a
date? A movie? (talk about typical usual date )
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What's with you not trying
anything unless she goes for it? Grow some balls already, wussyboy
Just a couple things here: you should look at her in the eyes always while you're talking,Originally Posted by Have_Courage
there's really no reason not to do that. Where else would you look anyway?
And most important, forget the
triangle. Choose one eye and focus on it. Moving from one eye to another is just as bad as breaking contact, it's
quite unnatural and would make you look nervous. Heck, it will make you nervous too!
Yoel
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