How to reverse the "I like you" mistake, guys make

[eric_pelletier_tw]

qwiky : i dont realy

spend money on girls (i dont have any !)
im not taking it wrong(i think) im just being so unlucky ... thats all

[when girls ditch you after 5min on a date i call that being a bitch... thats diffrent & has happend to me]
so far

my time,money & attention hasnt paid off ... like Dr D.A. put it im not rich, im not famous & im soso (as far as

cute goes) what was that last one again ?... cocky & funny ? [well i dont supose a computer guy is much of

that...]

[DeMoKiLL]

First rule of thumb: Never

spend too much money on a girl for the first 5 dates! Go to a place where you can chat, like dinner, park, not the

movies etc. And if a girl KNOWS she has the upper hand, then your done for and she won't find you attractive.

[Pherozen]

Forget the cocky and funny and

forget of thinking about this as some sort of investment (time, money, attention). And I'm going to have to

disagree with everything being about having the upper hand. I've left dates after 5 minutes and don't feel like a

bad person, if two people don't click, they don't click. Luck has nothing to do with getting women (Unless you

find that magic "THE ONE"), maybe you should make a lot of girls your friends, and build some social skills. But

remember when they are your friends don't try to convert them to your girlfriend, just be friends. And when you

feel comfortable go out with them (being around lots of girls makes it easy to get and meet other girls) and find

that "lucky" lady. Those girlfriends would help you out if you need. When I take a girl out, I try to avoid boring

chats and would go somewhere playful. Like a waterpark or something. Having the upper hand isn't necessary for

attraction, I almost wish I could be on the lower hand sometimes. Having less power seems to make everything more

fulfilling, Alas I haven't meant anybody worthy of this since middle school.

[Have_Courage]

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[top_dawwgs]

good points... but i wouldnt

agree with the go out with her friends idea. That just leads to more headaches than any guy needs. The whole,

jealous game may be fun for awhile. but the bitching about it gets old very fast. I dont think its worth it in the

long run. Find some other girl who makes u happy. But not one of her friends to date.

[Have_Courage]

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[Pherozen]

Wow that's last post is perfect

about Letting Go. Whoever wrote that poem or whatever nailed it.

[Have_Courage]

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[MOBLEYC57]

It is

hard to do, but it's the best thing you can do for yourself.

On this big'ol round ball we call Earth,

tis all about the choice(s) one makes. To translate that ... tis mind over matter. We often makes

things much harder than they are ... tis that brain thingy that's in fault, and needs to be tamed.

[j5fakt0r]

That poem is so true and I wish

I could follow it myself...

[Have_Courage]

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