Ladies, Please Help:

[goldie]

My significant

other is currently having some difficulty with his libido. He has stated he has just lost interest and doesn't know

why. He doesn't want to take anything himself as he is leary of any chemicals in his system since he has battled

cancer twice and won. I was wondering if my using pheromones might help trigger things a bit more. However I am not

sure what to use and not extremely thrilled about mixing things, especially since all my perfumes are currently in a

spray concentration and it would be impossible to mix these. Any help and/or suggestions would be appreciated.



Thanks

[Gegogi]

Unfortunately I too had a couple

years of great difficulty getting my little friend to stand at attention with my long time Korean lady friend. Limp

noodle to the max. She eventually become very angry with me, I figured I was done for and crawled off with my tail

between my legs. Then I met a young black woman with a naturally high pheromone output. Dang if the little guy

didn't stand at attention within moments every time she walked in my office. I was actually getting sore from a

constant stiffy. So it appears there was nothing wrong with me but I needed proper simulation. She turned out to be

a terrible girlfriend--a practicing witch with a "hidden" husband--but at least I figured out how to wake up my

little friend. I'd say pheromones are worth a try...

[Holmes]

Unfortunately I too

had a couple years of great difficulty getting my little friend to stand at attention with my long time Korean lady

friend. Limp noodle to the max. She eventually become very angry with me, I figured I was done for and crawled off

with my tail between my legs. Then I met a young black woman with a naturally high pheromone output. Dang if the

little guy didn't stand at attention within moments every time she walked in my office. I was actually getting sore

from a constant stiffy. So it appears there was nothing wrong with me but I needed proper simulation. She turned out

to be a terrible girlfriend--a practicing witch with a "hidden" husband--but at least I figured out how to

wake up my little friend. I'd say pheromones are worth a try...

What a nightmare!

[SweetBrenda]

Every time I read about this

particular woman Gegogi talks about I think about Tales from the crypt?.

[Numanoid]

This

stuff may help.


http://www.dragonherbs.com/products/products.asp?sku=014

[

color=navy]It's expensive and it tastes awful but I've been taking it for a couple of months now and it has helped

some. Not that I'm having problems. Personally I think your significant other should see a

specialist.
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[goldie]

Thanks for the replies, however

my partner is not having impotence issues. The problem is his desire, (libido). As I said he does not want to take

anything. I am looking for information regarding which pheromones I can take personally to try to help increase his

response. Again, thanks to those that did offer assistance.

[Mtnjim]

Thanks for the

replies, however my partner is not having impotence issues. The problem is his desire, (libido). As I said he does

not want to take anything. I am looking for information regarding which pheromones I can take personally to try to

help increase his response. Again, thanks to those that did offer assistance.

Perhaps some additional

information would be usefull. How long have you been together, are you passed the "honeymoon rutting like rabbits"

stage? Does he work 20 and 1/2 hour days? Has he been depressed lately? ETC...

[DrSmellThis]

My significant

other is currently having some difficulty with his libido. He has stated he has just lost interest and doesn't know

why. He doesn't want to take anything himself as he is leary of any chemicals in his system since he has battled

cancer twice and won. I was wondering if my using pheromones might help trigger things a bit more. However I am not

sure what to use and not extremely thrilled about mixing things, especially since all my perfumes are currently in a

spray concentration and it would be impossible to mix these. Any help and/or suggestions would be appreciated.



Thanks

There are a number of great, comprehensive products at

www.actionlove.com. These natural products should help him restore the

neuro-endocrine conditions necessary for healthy sexuality. He is right to stay away from chemicals.

Your lover

might just need his general vitality and virility boosted after an illness. This suggests things like ginseng, as

long as he is finished his cancer treatment and has no other diseases. A Chinese natural physician would tend to

know quite a bit -- maybe the most of any health pro -- about recovering virility and vitality (they call it kidney

chi) after a battle with illness. If you just want to try something besides ginseng along these lines, great

products here include Strong Man Bao and Gejie, both of which are "googlable".

As a side note, cancer tends to

love bad intestinal and digestive conditions like candida, which can sap your vitality. So it would be helpful to

make sure he has healthy intestines and digestion too.

[goldie]

My sincere thanks to DrSmellThis.

Your suggestions are extremely helpful. Your understanding of his need to stay away from chemicals helps as well as

your knowledge of other avenues to venture down. As a nurse, I am familiar with, but don't fully understand the

usefulness of herbs, however we are both willing to research that area further. Contacting a Chinese natural

physician is a brilliant idea as well as ginseng. Thank you again for sharing your wealth of knowledge as you seem

to have a very clear picture of the trials a post cancer patient faces.

[DrSmellThis]

Glad it was helpful. The

products are good ones. On the actionlove site, the products Mood Max and Dopa-Fibra, for example, help neurological

conditions relevant to sexuality.

The pros at Great Smoky Mountain Labs in Tennessee offer a reliable blood test

for candida (and brilliantly analyze stool for other intestinal conditions with a 5 page printout), which would be a

common condition in that situation. You just have to find a practitioner willing to order the testing. No

brainers here are probiotic supplements (containing multiple strains of healthy bacteria) and strong garlic

tablets (the good ones are basically odorless, and are a good broad base antimicrobial that tend to spare the

healthy strains), just for intestinal and digestive prophylaxis (for the purposes of a rapid start, if you started

feeling better after 2-4 weeks on this regimen you'd know it was needed, and then you could order the testing).

Garlic is also consistent with a vitality approach. Technically this would be the first step, if applicable, because

if you have any unwelcome microbial overgrowth in your digestive system, you don't want to unintentionally

strengthen it with the vitality enhancers (e.g., ginseng). To enhance vitality during this stage, then, a daily

smoothie with spirulina, protein, bee pollen, spices, rice milk, and a little bit of fruit would help. Dietarily,

simple sugars and fermented foods are crucial to avoid or minimize if you want to discourage unhealthy

microbes in your intestines. And taking care of your liver (you could support it with milk thistle -- the world's

best "morning after herb") is also important if you're killing off anything, as whatever dies off releases

toxins.

As far as fighting cancer itself nutritionally, beta-glucan (a macrophage booster) and IP-6 (especially

the IP-6, ask Google for help) are great, state of the art ways to enhance the body's ability to fight it off

naturally.

So now you have a list of state of the art products and approaches that I see as likely good places

to start, as they collectively address multiple aspects of the condition at once (i.e., it's a holistic approach).

I hope I didn't overwhelm you, but I figure you can handle it. Of course, these are just suggestions for further

research and consultation.

[koolking1]

Well, not sure how this is

going to go over, but have you two ever discussed being involved in the "swinging" lifestyle. It's great for the

libido and no chemicals are needed!!! You never stated your ages or length of marriage but, in general, guys tend

to want some amount of variety in their sex lives but are often reluctant to express this feeling as they are loathe

to hurt their partner's feelings. It's not that the woman they are with is no longer attractive, it's just some

deep-seated trait most of us have.