Originally Posted by
bjf
Hang out with the
guys when you first come to school. A lot of clicks are formed in the beginning, until some may branch off into the
greek system. But the first few weeks of school, freshman are as open as they will ever be to making new friends.
Make friends with plenty of the guys, hang out with them, and if it is a public school, they will have female
friends from high school likely attending the college that you'll get to hang out with.
Take an interest in the
girls you meet as people, continue to learn to appreciate what you value about yourself and realize that your
insecurities do not reflect negatively reflect upon your true self, unless you are a nazi, and if you do those
things, they'll respect you and you'll get the confidence to fail - and eventually succeed - with them.
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