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    Unhappy advice needed from women please :(

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    how do you try to treat the girl of your dreams (gf) that you mean soo much to her ... we always get into a fight i

    dont' know what to do .. how do i tell her that she means soo much to me .. i give her everything she wants .. but

    she can't except the fact that i'm immature and tries to be funny at most of the times ... she doens't like that

    she's more of aperson who's totally mature and serious most of the time and doens't like jokes. how can i treat

    her like she's the best ... i tried changing i tried being mature and quit with my jokes but i seem not to i love

    making people happy but she's a type of person who doesn't laugh or anything ... she calls me a kid she tells me

    what to do .. not caring how i am i still love her ... now she says her co-worker is like flirting with her

    .. she doesn't do anything about it .. he has a gf but it's ticking me off with jealously i feel like knockin him

    off but i'll get the finger pointed if she gets fired or anything .. freak man everything is messed up ... i

    sometimes feel like this is going nowhere and she did break up with me 3 times but she can't take it she always

    keeps comming back to me and i always accept it cuz i love her to death as she does too but she treats her friends

    better than me thats what kills me more i dont' want to be treated like some king or anythign i just want her to

    treat me like a friend cuz she treats dem better i told her that but she never does ... everyhing is blowing up

    in my head... and yah one time she was soo seriously gonna break up with me cuz i swore at her .. and the breakup

    went up to 3 days ... but she couldn't take it soshe came back (yah all of the breakup thing was cuz of me) what do

    i do i spend soo much time with her talking to her and everything and i tried having a break from her but neither of

    us can take it what do i do :'(

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    She´s not right for you ie you´re not

    right for each other I think. Sorry it´s not what you want to hear I know but it´s pretty obvious.

    BTW actions

    speak louder than words

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    Sounds like hell. I think

    you're clutching on for dear life, but that this type of thing usually fails. You have a lot of love, but your

    personalities clash. Your next girlfriend will be better. Ooops, I'm not a woman, so take my advice with a grain of

    salt.
    DrSmellThis (creator of P H E R O S)

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    Koss,

    They're right, it's

    time to cut and run. A nice guy who likes to make others happy shouldn't be forced to change. And it doesn't mean

    that you are immature, it means you like to laugh and have fun. Go your seperate ways before you hurt each other,

    you'll both be happier for it.

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    Koss,
    Probably everyone is right

    about you two not being a very good fit, but I can't help wondering what you are doing getting lap-dances if you

    have a gf. She gets upset that you crack jokes, but the sex doesn't bother her?

    B

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    hey guys thanks for the replies

    heh even though none of you guys are ladies hehe i still luv dem thanks again .. yah i just wish i could turn back

    and say no for everythign we been through but i dont' think i can nor can she .. we're like magnets but when we

    are together problem happens ... yah btw bruce she's like in the mood for sex and stuff and we kidda do it but

    after that she gets to being mean and stuff but when she's sex needy she's sooooo nicee .. i can't say no ..

    maybe thats my only way out to say no to sex and she'll be soo nice to me forever .. only if i could do that ... a

    man sayin no to a girl for sex is tuff stuff

    and thanks a lot for your advice guys donating time

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    Koss:

    If she is hot and the

    sex is good, act very very serious.
    Last edited by bjf; 07-05-2004 at 07:33 PM.

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    Yeah, what's 23.5 hours a day

    of having 6 inch steel spikes rammed through your eyeballs into your brain, if you get 30 minutes of great sex?!

    Last edited by DrSmellThis; 07-06-2004 at 03:41 AM. Reason: typo
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    Quote Originally Posted by kossBass
    how do you try

    to treat the girl of your dreams (gf) that you mean soo much to her ... we always get into a fight i dont' know

    what to do .. how do i tell her that she means soo much to me .. i give her everything she wants .. but she can't

    except the fact that i'm immature and tries to be funny at most of the times ... she doens't like that she's more

    of aperson who's totally mature and serious most of the time and doens't like jokes. how can i treat her like

    she's the best ... i tried changing i tried being mature and quit with my jokes but i seem not to i love making

    people happy but she's a type of person who doesn't laugh or anything ... she calls me a kid she tells me what to

    do .. not caring how i am i still love her ... now she says her co-worker is like flirting with her .. she

    doesn't do anything about it .. he has a gf but it's ticking me off with jealously i feel like knockin him off but

    i'll get the finger pointed if she gets fired or anything .. freak man everything is messed up ... i sometimes feel

    like this is going nowhere and she did break up with me 3 times but she can't take it she always keeps comming back

    to me and i always accept it cuz i love her to death as she does too but she treats her friends better than me thats

    what kills me more i dont' want to be treated like some king or anythign i just want her to treat me like a friend

    cuz she treats dem better i told her that but she never does ... everyhing is blowing up in my head... and yah

    one time she was soo seriously gonna break up with me cuz i swore at her .. and the breakup went up to 3 days ...

    but she couldn't take it soshe came back (yah all of the breakup thing was cuz of me) what do i do i spend soo much

    time with her talking to her and everything and i tried having a break from her but neither of us can take it

    what do i do :'(
    "Dude, where's my balls?"

    Sir, I'm affraid you are

    very much 'ed

    As the Doc says, chasing someone like that will end in tears.

    My opinion: make it

    more exciting for her to be around you.

    How?

    Stop being so 'ed, stop trying so hard to please her

    at your expense (she doesn't like like your jokes and calls you immature? Tell her to stop being so old and boring

    and to lighten up! - stuff like that). Make her work a little.

    I think her saying about the guy flirting with

    her is a major hint ("please make it more fun!"), if you step back a bit and make her do some work to keep you

    interested, you will find her much more enthusiastic (I imagine...)

    And if that fails...well, like the guys

    said, it shows a major incompatability issue.

    p.s I mean no offense with anything I just wrote, just trying to

    help out with my 2 pence!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrSmellThis
    Yeah,

    what's 23.5 hours a day of having 6 inch steel spikes rammed through eyeballs into your brain, if you get 30

    minutes of great sex?!
    Gee, that sounds like a wonderful life!

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    hey cpt thanks for the g8 post

    i'll give dat a go and i'll info you guys if your still interested hehe .. thanks again man

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    [QUOTE=DrSmellThis]Yeah, what's

    23.5 hours a day of having 6 inch steel spikes rammed through your eyeballs into your brain, if you get 30 minutes

    of great sex?! ]

    Multiple that 23.5 hours times every day you waste with her!!! Get away, fast.

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    Dude... she doesn't by any

    chance keep your balls in her top dresser drawer, does she? Just wondering since you haven't kicked her ass

    to the curb yet.
    Eep Opp Ork Aah Aah...

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    don't ya just hate it when

    they keep your junk in the night stand.

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