Now we all know that physical

attraction is the first criteria that we face. It would be a better world if that were true but the fact is that it

is not. I personally have lost 42lbs in the last 17wks following Weight Watchers (it does work if you follow it, no

doubt about that!!) which was a program I refused to do or look into for years because I thought it was for women. (

and most participants are, although there were more men than I thought and we, men, kinda become the darlings of the

group).

I personally have noticed that I am getting far more looks than I use to even without the mones. Since

my personality has always been outgoing, I can not contribute it simply to a gain in confidence that came along with

the weightloss although I do feel much much much better and that has to be showing through.

Our bodies are too

wonderful a machine to have meant to be weighed down (pardon the pun) with excess fat which causes it to malfunction

and/or break down early. While, I truly believe there is someone for everyone, excess weight can hold one back from

being viewed and given the chance that the personality otherwise might afford them. If you're never taken for a

test drive no one will know how good or pleasant the ride is or could be!! ( and not just sexually!)

The best

thing, would be to try to lose the weight if one can. Again, personal experience tells me it is better for my

health, wealth (working harder, more energy) and confidence and probably will assist me in helping the mones work

for me.

I was fat, now just a little heavy (still losing) and while it may be unfair to heavy people to

discriminate against them in anyway, it remains a fact of life and who said life would always be fair?