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    Default The Keys or method to approaching a female if you're less than confident

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    For women or female attraction or just plain simply for you to get a good

    seduction start:
    Being at ease and smooth and confident is Soooooo key. This attracts women more than any other

    trait
    1. Confidence
    2. Smooth
    3. At ease
    Those are the ones that get them to dig you. As long as your

    not you know, putting on this Fonzie act. They can tell when it's an act vs. The true way you feel. If they sense

    it's an act. Your not going to get anywhere. So how do you do this.
    1. Think to yourself, I am not butt ugly and

    I have seen some beutiful chics with butt ugly guys. I am not even close to being butt ugly. I am a league above

    them. Of coarse I can get with her....whoever she may be.
    2. I am not a loser. And I know for a fact many girls

    have boyfiriends that are complete losers. I'm not a loser at all or even close so my chances are so good

    here.
    3. Think to yourself, you know, I am going to just glide up and start talking to this girl because I can.

    I'm not butt ugly, a loser, or any of that. She should be glad I at least say hello and talk to her. Isn't that

    what it's all about?
    4. What am I supposed to do just shy away like a toad that has absolutely no right even

    walking within 20 feet of her and scat??? I don't think so! She may be what I want but that definately doesn't

    mean I am beneath her or anyone.
    What if she worked at an ice-cream shop or a bank and I wanted an ice-cream cone

    or a transaction at the bank. Well this is no different. She is what I want sure,..... but that doesn't mean I am

    litllet to her presence
    Let's do this.
    At first you will have to stop and go over this in your mind and

    after a while it will just be automatic. A good tip is if she is walking by you have to act fast but if she is in a

    place such as a grocery store where you know she will be around for 10 minutes or so. Let her sit for a good 5

    minutes or so. Don't just run right up to them as soon as you see her or within a minute after you see her. This

    makes you look desperate and over-bearing....or weird lol
    Show her you have control and whait 5-10 minutes and

    glide into it.
    I was never really shy or low in confidence but I do hesitate sometimes and if you wait to long it

    can kill it. So I am improving. And with certain pheromone
    colognes on it makes it so easy.
    Try it.


    Any thoughts or input?
    Ian

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    If looking for long term

    relationship look for attractive women but avoid the ones that when they are with their bf dont check u out but

    flirt like crazy when they are free or alone with you. As they will do the same thing on you if you get with em

    (learnt that the hard way) once bitten twice more aware.

    In terms of approach - if you are lacking confidence

    to approach the cute ones go after the nearest ugly chick - practice youre conversation skills etc. Get the

    confidence - do some weights (women mostly dont want fat guys - except those with serious self confidence skills or

    weird ones) Anyway work on the ugly ones with approach then move up the ladder.

    And of course if you find a

    pheromone that works use it.

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    Great

    tips.




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    If it ain't broken don't fix it.

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    I don't mean to cause offence,

    but I don't think this stuff is a 'skill' that can be mastered.

    I think that is a main part of the male

    problem. We like to be able to master things.

    All good tips, though, don't get me wrong. Aside from the

    'just talk to some ugly ones' thing. What would you do if you found out that that 'hot' chick that you

    'graduated' to from the 'ugly' girls was only talking to you for similar reasons?

    "sorry, just practicin

    my flirtin, Hogface! Byeeeeeeeeee"

    How would you feel about that?

    One can become more socially adept

    without following 'tips'.

    But if tips are what you are after...... I learned at an early age that my social

    interactions became better when I actually started viewing myself from the outside - that is, in the manner in

    which I would be interpreted by those I was engaged with. This desolves the notion that exists in a great many

    minds that the other fully understands how you are currently thinking, feeling, or what has previously happened in

    your day/life. They don't know your back story, or even what page you are on now.

    This does not entail

    altering you personality or putting on an act.

    Ach, nutz to it. Just get out there and have a laugh. It's

    not science, and it would be creepy and awful if it were.

    Cheers
    "...and from that egg, hatched a stone monkey!" (Newton)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Icarus
    I don't mean to

    cause offence, but I don't think this stuff is a 'skill' that can be mastered.

    I think that is a main part

    of the male problem. We like to be able to master things.

    All good tips, though, don't get me wrong. Aside

    from the 'just talk to some ugly ones' thing. What would you do if you found out that that 'hot' chick that you

    'graduated' to from the 'ugly' girls was only talking to you for similar reasons?

    "sorry, just practicin

    my flirtin, Hogface! Byeeeeeeeeee"

    How would you feel about that?

    One can become more socially adept

    without following 'tips'.

    But if tips are what you are after...... I learned at an early age that my social

    interactions became better when I actually started viewing myself from the outside - that is, in the manner in

    which I would be interpreted by those I was engaged with. This desolves the notion that exists in a great many

    minds that the other fully understands how you are currently thinking, feeling, or what has previously happened in

    your day/life. They don't know your back story, or even what page you are on now.

    This does not entail

    altering you personality or putting on an act.

    Ach, nutz to it. Just get out there and have a laugh. It's

    not science, and it would be creepy and awful if it were.

    Cheers
    LOL "HogFace" too funny.


    And yes I wasn't trying to bring a total method to it all I just was trying to give some folks a push or a new

    way of looking at things.
    You are so right. While their has to be an outlook and an attitude to it all as I was

    trying to get across there are really no rules when it comes down to it. Have fun. Do your thing as you said. Too

    much worrying about rules and regulations leads to over analyzation then hesitation-then fear. Once fear is involved

    things can get fucked up. Unless she thinks your like a cute lost nervous puppy that she just can't resist. Yes.

    That has, does, and will happen but it's only 1 in 100 situations. Go with your gut. It doesn't lie
    Good input

    Chap,
    Ian

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    Quote Originally Posted by Icarus
    I don't mean to cause

    offence, but I don't think this stuff is a 'skill' that can be mastered.

    I think that is a main part of the

    male problem. We like to be able to master things.

    All good tips, though, don't get me wrong. Aside from the

    'just talk to some ugly ones' thing. What would you do if you found out that that 'hot' chick that you

    'graduated' to from the 'ugly' girls was only talking to you for similar reasons?

    "sorry, just practicin my

    flirtin, Hogface! Byeeeeeeeeee"

    How would you feel about that?

    One can become more socially adept without

    following 'tips'.

    But if tips are what you are after...... I learned at an early age that my social

    interactions became better when I actually started viewing myself from the outside - that is, in the manner in which

    I would be interpreted by those I was engaged with. This desolves the notion that exists in a great many minds that

    the other fully understands how you are currently thinking, feeling, or what has previously happened in your

    day/life. They don't know your back story, or even what page you are on now.

    This does not entail altering you

    personality or putting on an act.

    Ach, nutz to it. Just get out there and have a laugh. It's not science, and

    it would be creepy and awful if it were.

    Cheers
    You are sooooooooo right on. I agree totally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happyman
    LOL "HogFace" too

    funny.
    And yes I wasn't trying to bring a total method to it all I just was trying to give some folks a push or a

    new way of looking at things.
    You are so right. While their has to be an outlook and an attitude to it all as I

    was trying to get across there are really no rules when it comes down to it. Have fun. Do your thing as you said.

    Too much worrying about rules and regulations leads to over analyzation then hesitation-then fear. Once fear is

    involved things can get fucked up. Unless she thinks your like a cute lost nervous puppy that she just can't

    resist. Yes. That has, does, and will happen but it's only 1 in 100 situations. Go with your gut. It doesn't lie


    Good input Chap,
    Ian
    Ian, I understand what you were going for, I think the bottom line is being so

    comfortable with oneself that it exudes to others. That's a place we all want to be and strive for. Maybe if we

    look to that first, we won't depend on relationships to make us feel good about ourselves.

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    Talking

    Just listened to DeAngelo's

    Advanced Dating Seminar. Whoever suggested it THANKS!!!
    Utilized methods that stresses CONFIDENCE and COCKY FUNNY

    attitude and I have had 12 verified #'s from hot chicks the last couple weeks. Going out with one tonight. Chikara

    has been great as well as the other mones but DeAngelo's stuff is the icing on the cake!

    One in particular

    is a stripper at a higher class club and she said she had never met someone out that exuded such confidence as I had

    and knew how to communicate without coming across as a wuss. I never would've had the fortitude to go up to her

    before but now it's so easy!

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    BigDOG there is a way that you can

    send me the MP3 of DeAngelos Advanced technique
    I want to use this techniques too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fran1
    BigDOG there is a way

    that you can send me the MP3 of DeAngelos Advanced technique
    I want to use this techniques too.
    k
    I would

    like it also just for extra info. pretty please!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by fran1
    BigDOG there is a

    way that you can send me the MP3 of DeAngelos Advanced technique
    I want to use this techniques

    too.
    May I ask a question? What technique are you speaking of?



    Please fill me in.
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    NLP is useful - fastseduction.com

    is a great place for information on how to deal with the very attractive women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happyman
    May I ask a question?

    What technique are you speaking of?

    Please fill me in.
    Ian
    Just listened to DeAngelo's Advanced Dating

    Seminar. Whoever suggested it THANKS!!!
    Utilized methods that stresses CONFIDENCE and COCKY FUNNY attitude and I

    have had 12 verified #'s from hot chicks the last couple weeks. Going out with one tonight. Chikara has been great

    as well as the other mones but DeAngelo's stuff is the icing on the cake! Big Dog sent this.

    I just wanted to

    see what they are telling men to help me look out for the wolves out there.

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    Default Cool Daddy Mice

    I have a

    Ferrari key ring with my car keys, when I go to bars I smoothly and cooly prop myself at the bar, beautifully framed

    with one arm on the bar the other with my hand in my belt loop, as I toss my small things on the bar as if its

    inconvient to be not holding them at just that moment. These small things are carfully concidered though.

    A

    bulging leather wallet

    The fore mentioned set of keys, dsiguised as Ferrari keys

    A very expensive set

    of sunglasses, any make depending on whats hot this season. (this is the only real investment needed)

    I then

    just give the barman a nod, to get his attention and be served a Martini on ice. After that I dont need to coherce

    any weak minds....they come to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dissension
    I have a Ferrari

    key ring with my car keys, when I go to bars I smoothly and cooly prop myself at the bar, beautifully framed with

    one arm on the bar the other with my hand in my belt loop, as I toss my small things on the bar as if its inconvient

    to be not holding them at just that moment. These small things are carfully concidered though.

    A bulging

    leather wallet

    The fore mentioned set of keys, dsiguised as Ferrari keys

    A very expensive set of

    sunglasses, any make depending on whats hot this season. (this is the only real investment needed)

    I then

    just give the barman a nod, to get his attention and be served a Martini on ice. After that I dont need to coherce

    any weak minds....they come to me.

    you sound like a person who just stepped out of a movie





    DZorro,
    If it ain't broken don't fix it.

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    great, but what happens

    when they want a ride in that Ferrari and all you have is your 15 year old piece of crap and monopoly money in your

    fat wallet???

    These behaviors advised by HappyMan can be learned as all behaviors can be learned, practice

    makes perfect!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DZorro
    you sound like a person

    who just stepped out of a movie

    DZorro,
    LOL and not only that, but at some point, a woman throwing a

    drink in his face.

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    But wouldnt that attract the

    wrong kind of girl? Ones who just want the money? the key ring and fat wallet part. the rest i would think is

    good.
    -D

    Modifying and Tweaking is a journey,
    Not a destination..........................

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    Quote Originally Posted by dping28
    But wouldnt that

    attract the wrong kind of girl? Ones who just want the money? the key ring and fat wallet part. the rest i would

    think is good.
    Who said he was trying to find the right kind of girl?

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    My bad.. your right..
    -D

    Modifying and Tweaking is a journey,
    Not a destination..........................

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    Quote Originally Posted by deb
    Who said he was trying

    to find the right kind of girl?
    I actually think he was looking for the wrongest kind of girl he

    could find.

    Wrongest......me so smart

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    when theyre under my

    spell....a powerful one at that....its all plain sailing

    I then just give the barman a nod, to get his

    attention and be served a Martini on ice. After that I dont need to coherce any weak minds....they come to

    me.




    NLP helps them to think my VW beetle is the flashes sports car in

    the world.


    in the morning they'l think its cute

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    Quote Originally Posted by Watcher
    NLP is useful -

    fastseduction.com is a great place for information on how to deal with the very attractive women.



    What about unattractive women. I don't have an problem with the attactive ones. It's the unattractive that

    I need help to approach.

    In my town there is a womens semi-pro football (American Fotball) team. Is there any

    mix or techniques that would help approach a 250 pound female linebacker. Some of these chicks are built like baby

    gorillas and probably just as furry.

    I need something that would give me the sack to make an approach. Maybe

    NPA or SOE? Please help as I've always wanted to hook up with a female football player.

    It is just not fair

    that we only want to hook up with attractive chicks. Fugly women need love too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tounge
    What about

    unattractive women. I don't have an problem with the attactive ones. It's the unattractive that I need help to

    approach.

    In my town there is a womens semi-pro football (American Fotball) team. Is there any mix or

    techniques that would help approach a 250 pound female linebacker. Some of these chicks are built like baby gorillas

    and probably just as furry.

    I need something that would give me the sack to make an approach. Maybe NPA or

    SOE? Please help as I've always wanted to hook up with a female football player.

    It is just not fair that

    we only want to hook up with attractive chicks. Fugly women need love too!
    Tounge gets good rep for that

    one. He gives love to the fugly's too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elana
    Tounge gets good rep

    for that one. He gives love to the fugly's too
    Only from a distance doll. Only from a distance.

    It's still th attractive ones that get to ride my 69 gauge shotgun.

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    Wouldn't you be better employed

    using your penis?
    "...and from that egg, hatched a stone monkey!" (Newton)

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    fugly women love penis too

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    That was never in question.
    "...and from that egg, hatched a stone monkey!" (Newton)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dissension
    I have a

    Ferrari key ring with my car keys, when I go to bars I smoothly and cooly prop myself at the bar, beautifully framed

    with one arm on the bar the other with my hand in my belt loop, as I toss my small things on the bar as if its

    inconvient to be not holding them at just that moment. These small things are carfully concidered though.

    A

    bulging leather wallet

    The fore mentioned set of keys, dsiguised as Ferrari keys

    A very expensive set

    of sunglasses, any make depending on whats hot this season. (this is the only real investment needed)

    I then

    just give the barman a nod, to get his attention and be served a Martini on ice. After that I dont need to coherce

    any weak minds....they come to me.

    "Bond...James Bond...Shake & not stirred, bruises the Gin"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Icarus
    Wouldn't you be

    better employed using your penis?

    At one time I was employed to use my penis. Hence the term

    "the money shot".

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