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    What proximity does a guy have to

    be from me to start feeling the effects? Anyone have any ideas

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    Welcome to the

    forum.

    General rule of thumb...up to 10 ft. indoors w/ normal air circulation. Typically any further than that

    and you\'re probably over doing it. The thing is that you want to draw the attention of those around you w/out

    overwhelming your target at close range. Make sense? If your outdoors w/ a breeze, then you can expect to see

    reactions at a greater distance...provided the target is down wind, of course.

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    Thanks for the tip. The guy I

    am interested in is unfortunately more than 10 ft away, more like 18 ft. Guess I\'ll have to walk by him often.


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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Thanks for the tip. The guy I am interested in is

    unfortunately more than 10 ft away, more like 18 ft. Guess I\'ll have to walk by him often.

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    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">
    I\'m sure he wouldn\'t mind that at all.

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] But seriously,

    typically merely walking by your target isn\'t always effective...it can take a few minutes for the pheros to do

    their thing. Could be that 15\' + may not be all that unreasonable. If you wear a very provocative perfume, he

    just may find a reason to come to you. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] A nice cover scent is

    always recommended, if for no other reason than it encourages others to inhale deeply. Then again, I\'m a guy and

    all it takes sometimes is an attractive girl and a seductive scent...okay, maybe all it really takes is just the

    attractive girl. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font

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    A nice cover scent is always recommended, if for no other reason than it

    encourages others to inhale deeply.

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    I wish I knew more about the

    perfumes women wear. When I was a teenager, I used to hit COSMIC HEIGHTS whenever I encountered one particular

    scent. I only met a few women who wore it, and they had a certain \"classy\" feel about them. I never had the

    courage to ask them what they were wearing, and when I hit my 20s I never met another woman wearing it.

    If that

    perfume is still on the market, I know it would get any man to notice you. It had a very soft, rich odor to it.

    Slightly sweet. It just enveloped you. I felt like I had soft-landed in a pillow of sensual aroma. I don\'t

    know how else to describe it. It\'s like a fragrant glow surrounds the woman. She just exudes

    sensuality.

    That particular scent would stay with me for days, whenever I ran into it. There are times when

    I\'m out and I smell women\'s perfumes as they pass by, and I wish they were wearing that undiscovered scent

    from my youth. Yes, there are nice perfumes out there, but none of them come close to doing what that did for

    me.

    Find the right cover scent, and he\'ll find excuses to stay near you.

    I occasionally walk past the

    perfume section in a local Saks and have to fight the temptation to ask the sales women to let me smell all their

    scents. I\'m sure they would think I was nuts or something. But it\'s a very rare perfume and if I ever find

    out what it is, I\'ll buy a bottle just so I can show certain ladies what I really enjoy.


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    Well, there ya go.

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    What saggy said about

    time - very true. Even prolonging your time around him slightly will improve his responce. Maybe it has something to

    do with the target identifying the source?? Who cares, it works [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    And most men are not

    very aware of how women express their interest in them. It\'s sad-but-funny-but-true that a lot of guys will talk

    themselves out of meeting a woman because they conclude she isn\'t interested. A typical guy usually won\'t

    realize, or doesn\'t want to accept, that she IS looking at him, is NOT touching him by accident, IS walking close

    by to get his attention, WANTS him to say, \"Hi, my name is ScudWamper. May I join you?\", etc., etc.

    Women

    have developed an entire language of \"Come hither and earn it\" signals that a majority of guys are virtually

    unaware of.

    There are days when I wonder how we ever get from one generation to the next.


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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Women have developed an entire language of \"Come

    hither and earn it\" signals that a majority of guys are virtually unaware of.

    There are days when I wonder how

    we ever get from one generation to the next.


    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    \"Come hither and

    earn it\". May I please, please, please steal that for a tagline?

    A certain lady friend of mine states that,

    while most men have no trouble instantly identifying a goddess when they are fortunate to be in the presence of one,

    most are not well-trained at proper worship. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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    goddess schmodess

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    </font><blockquote><font

    class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    \"Come Hitler and earn it\"

    <hr /></blockquote><font

    class=\"post\">

    cried Ava, like the Goddess she knew she was.


    Holmes

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    </font><blockquote><font

    class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    \"Come

    Hitler and earn it\"

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    cried Ava, like the Goddess she knew she

    was.


    Holmes

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">



    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
    You are out of control this evening. Have you been sniffing the

    Chikara again?

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    </font><blockquote><font

    class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    \"Come hither and earn it\". May I please, please, please steal that for a

    tagline?

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    Unless you\'re looking for a subordinate male, I would

    not recommend this approach. A dominant male is more likely to take the same \"Come hither and earn it\" approach,

    and can often wait until an ovulatory phase woman does so. This sort of thing promotes games that no one

    wins.

    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />

    A certain lady friend of mine states

    that, while most men have no trouble instantly identifying a goddess when they are fortunate to be in the presence

    of one, most are not well-trained at proper worship. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

    <hr

    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    From my perspective, many men worship women as a hole, rather than

    worshiping the whole woman. Unfortunately, women have been the ones to train men in this improper form of worship.


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    </font><blockquote><font

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    Unless you\'re looking for a subordinate male, I would not recommend this

    approach.

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    My point exactly. Behind closed doors, Hitler was a

    p*ssy.


    Holmes

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    Maybe a lesson from

    basic marketing will serve my purpose better.

    You need to know your market before you can determine your

    strategy. Too many women are looking for that strong, masculine, dominant guy who exists more in their fantasies

    than in real life. Men (in the United States) are trained to be gentlemen from the ground up, or they are

    ostracized to the ranks of the \"losers\".

    And, yes, there are plenty of bad boys who break the rules and know

    they\'ll get what they want. They don\'t usually turn out to be what the women want (except for occasional

    sex).

    Guys need to learn how to read body language and how to respond to women\'s signs of interest with

    confidence. Women need to get their act together and realize that wasting their signals on the deaf, dumb, and

    blind and then whining about there being no good men around doesn\'t accomplish anything.

    I often see the

    signals and pass. I suppose other guys do, too. I\'m just picky. I like being picky. I like being able to be

    picky.

    There are too many nice guys, and not enough good men, I suppose is the complaint women make.

    The other

    side of the coin is there are too many confused women.


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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    </font><blockquote><font

    class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    \"Come hither and earn it\". May I please, please, please steal that for a

    tagline?

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    Unless you\'re looking for a subordinate male, I would

    not recommend this approach. A dominant male is more likely to take the same \"Come hither and earn it\" approach,

    and can often wait until an ovulatory phase woman does so. This sort of thing promotes games that no one

    wins.

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    I was kidding, more or less. However - this argument assumes

    \"dominant\" and \"subordinate\" are terms that apply to every context of a man\'s life. I\'d like to give

    them credit for being a little deeper than that. (Well - I\'d like to, anyway.)

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] A simple hypothetical would be the guy who\'s bigger and badder

    than all the other guys - right up until he\'s alone with a woman. The reverse Jekyll/Hyde situation would serve

    as just as good an example. So, is he dominant? Or submissive? Or just messed up? Because the way I see it, both

    roles are gender-driven behavior on his part.

    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr

    />
    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />

    A certain lady friend of mine states that,

    while most men have no trouble instantly identifying a goddess when they are fortunate to be in the presence of one,

    most are not well-trained at proper worship. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

    <hr

    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    From my perspective, many men worship women as a hole, rather than

    worshiping the whole woman. Unfortunately, women have been the ones to train men in this improper form of worship.



    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    Wouldn\'t know -

    it\'s not my game. I prefer to deal with my equals. (Yes, a greek god of a man would do nicely!

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] ) OTOH, a guy who knows how to make a woman feel like a goddess

    prolly shouldn\'t be turned away without some serious consideration!

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    </font><blockquote><font

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    OTOH, a guy who knows how to make a woman feel like a goddess prolly

    shouldn\'t be turned away without some serious consideration!


    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">



    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    OTOH, a guy who knows how to make a woman feel like

    a goddess prolly shouldn\'t be turned away without some serious consideration!

    <hr /></blockquote><font

    class=\"post\">

    That\'s how I get girls...and I quote every girl I\'ve ever been with:

    \"You

    really know how to make a girl feel special.\"

    and my favorite quote:

    \"You always made me feel like

    the most beautiful girl in the world.\"

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    Notice the

    past tense...meaning the girl even said that long after we broke up...not bad, huh?

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font

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    Women need to get their act together and realize that wasting their signals

    on the deaf, dumb, and blind and then whining about there being no good men around doesn\'t accomplish anything



    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    And losing 30 pounds wouldn\'t hurt either!

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Women need

    to get their act together and realize that wasting their signals on the deaf, dumb, and blind and then whining about

    there being no good men around doesn\'t accomplish anything

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">





    And losing 30 pounds wouldn\'t hurt either! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

    <hr

    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />


    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Women need to get their act together and realize

    that wasting their signals on the deaf, dumb, and blind and then whining about there being no good men around

    doesn\'t accomplish anything

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">



    And losing 30 pounds

    wouldn\'t hurt either! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font

    class=\"post\"> [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    Not you!!

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    </font><blockquote><font

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    OTOH, a guy who knows how to make a woman feel like a goddess prolly

    shouldn\'t be turned away without some serious consideration!

    <hr /></blockquote><font

    class=\"post\">

    That\'s how I get girls...and I quote every girl I\'ve ever been with:

    \"You really

    know how to make a girl feel special.\"

    and my favorite quote:

    \"You always made me feel like the most

    beautiful girl in the world.\"

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    Notice the past

    tense...meaning the girl even said that long after we broke up...not bad, huh?

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    I did notice the

    past tense. And the plural for \"girl\". Tells me something is probably going very, very right - and then wrong?

    Still - one who is spoken well of by exes is not to be dissed. It\'s a rarity, for sure!

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />

    I did notice the past tense. And the plural for

    \"girl\". Tells me something is probably going very, very right - and then wrong? Still - one who is spoken well

    of by exes is not to be dissed. It\'s a rarity, for sure!

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    One

    word broke up all of my serious relationships: \"College\".

    What I mean by this is that it either had me too

    far away from my gf in my hometown, my gf was graduating, or I was graduating.

    Too bad...

    I would say that

    most would speak well of me, although one would probably insult me because she was really in love with me and I all

    but crushed her when I broke the news that I couldn\'t take the distance...needless to say it was impossible for

    her to like me after that. She was a good person, though, so I do not blame her in the least for her feelings. I

    hope she\'s doing well, although the last time I talked to her was on accident because a worm took over my

    computer, sent a Word document of a letter I wrote to a girl (she was just a friend, but what would you think if you

    were my ex?) saying to please look it over, and then she got pissed thinking I sent her a virus when I e-mailed her

    saying, \"Don\'t open it! It\'s a virus!!!\" She didn\'t know how a worm worked, apparently, so she hates

    me for something that was a complete and total accident. I was never going to see her again, though, so I figured I

    should just let it go. She was better off not associating with me.

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    if you want a good

    exercise in gender roles try this: tell your woman that you (the man) feel like being the woman in your next

    lovemaking session and that you want her to play the man\'s role, it\'s an eye opener, or at least it was for me

    when my GF and I did it. Laughing here a bit, I\'ve also seen my GF in action when she\'s shooting for another

    woman in a bar, she\'s much more aggressive about it than I would ever be (I could just feel that slap a\'coming

    on), and lo-and-behold, that aggressiveness has paid off. It\'s amazing.

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    if you want a good exercise in gender roles try

    this: tell your woman that you (the man) feel like being the woman in your next lovemaking session and that you

    want her to play the man\'s role, it\'s an eye opener, or at least it was for me when my GF and I did it.

    Laughing here a bit, I\'ve also seen my GF in action when she\'s shooting for another woman in a bar, she\'s

    much more aggressive about it than I would ever be (I could just feel that slap a\'coming on), and lo-and-behold,

    that aggressiveness has paid off. It\'s amazing.

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    I believe

    the big eye-opener had to have been when she brought out that strap-on...or an even bigger one when she used it...

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

    Seriously, man, great post...I just had to make that joke.

    That\'s a great way to gain insight on your partner, as well as have a little fun while you\'re at it...

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    ouch Pancho!!!, that

    hurt.

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    What? Did she really use

    a Strap-On? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font

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    What? Did she really use a Strap-On?

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    After Pancho

    begged her to for weeks she finally gave in.

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    </font><blockquote><font

    class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    What? Did she really use a Strap-On?

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    After Pancho

    begged her to for weeks she finally gave in.

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">



    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

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    it\'s not often one

    gets to insert a double entendre. Sue did try a strap-on and also a double-headed dildo (not with me!!! but with

    another woman or two) and she didn\'t care for either apparatus which are probably more a male fantasy thing that

    anything else. There\'s a sex toy place in Brookline Mass that is owned by a woman and it caters to women, for

    anyone who\'s interested.

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