Thanks Gegodi, thank. I thought, I am the only person seeing things like that !!!!!
Hello
Darkman,
I don't feel offended at all. I appreciate your opinion and advice! That's mainly because I already
knew that you are right. I know that nearly every woman on this planet is like you and TRock say.
I don't
contradict your vision of the facts. But to quote deAngelo: It is always ones own reality.
I have met so many
different people living in totally different worlds ( not better or worse, just different ), and I believe the worls
around you is just as bad ( or as good ) as you accept it be.
Everybody has to create his own reality (like DAngelo
recommends to do ). I just do it in a different way. I am not a nice guy because I have learned to do so. I am who I
am, I am working on it trying not to betray myself and what I believe in. If a woman treats me bad, I tell her and
show her.
I'm sure getting woman is much easier doing what Trock, you and most others here say, but beeing honest
to myself: I could't have much respect for a woman who feels appealed when someone is bad and respectless towards
her ( especially when it is no natural respectelessness because of oneself but only caused by tactics ). It might be
ok to have a relationship in which I feel superior and fell to be the alpha male, but in the long run I couldn't
respect her and would no longer be able to look into the mirror, I would have to say to myself: "I am together with
a woman, and I know I don't respect her, but I am still together with her! Is that ok and fair ( even if she
doesn't recognize) ?????"
I
never want to be treated like that. If a woman doesn't respect me, and I am
too dumb to see it,
she should be mature enough to leave me ( just out of a little remaining respect ). I would do
the same thing!
I know you are right Darkman ( generally speaking ). I know there are hardly any women beeing
more natural ans less manipulable, but they exist ( Gegodi meets them at times). I never met too many of them, but
in my close circle of friends there
are relationships of that kind I am looking for, which got started in
different ways than usual. So unfortunaltely I know that what I belive in exists, and it would be gutless to give up
and simply change what I believe in ( and who I am )! I do that every day, developing myself, doubting and
questioning my positions, but I can't and don't want to give up
what is unfortunaly very deep in me ( and for
which I get alot of respect and esteem from my close friends ). They see the worth of my values and if a woman does
not see it... then I don't want her and it is her loss !
Just out of curiosity: Where do you expect me to come
from ????
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