This thing is at 10 pages, that\'s long for just a question, I don\'t think I have to ask if you are involved with this guy as it seems obvious, if I am wrong shot me down.

Your partner that you marry, you share two bonds right sexual and mental. So if my wife stopped talking to me would I be allowed to seek out others to talk intimate with. Would that be cheating in...

FTR are you involved with this man, from the way you are arguing it and putting up the argument it seems so. If I am wrong please let me know.

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What do you mean by a \"please as to describe urgency\"? Tallmacky, I\'m not being a smart ass, this is a sincere question - are you a...

I took a harder stance as it sounds like a real story with the name of the thread, and a please as to describe urgency along with the heavy amount of details givin in the original post, it seems to...

What are cheaters up against? The usual cheaters cheat because they feel their own needs matter more the anyone else\'s. Even in this case if he is having sex with a women behind his wifes back,...

No, I just didn\'t want to start a flame as to what I really thought. Obviously you started this thread for justification/relief, it wasn\'t meant for us to analyze a situation and see how hard a...

Many of the right choices are often the hardest, I could cheat on this test and earn a good grade or study and work for it, I guess we should ask ourselves what is the best in the long run.

Yes,...

you have a point FTR (too \"gray\" for me.) I will for once butt my big head out of this, as I don\'t know it all (still think I do) /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif

This whole thread seems like a justification in third person.

If you were this man\'s wife would you want to know the truth, I think if given the option any woman would choose to know whether or...

If everyone was happy and it\'s ok why was this question even raised? His love must be conditional. Is true love supposed to break our normal limits?
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Sex is not a total need as air, water,...